Fed up: TTC for a year - what am I doing wrong?

[Shoegal30]

Me and DH are in our early 30s. DHs sperm analysis came back normal.
My ultrasound was clear. My blood results and smear test results are due early next week.

I don't drink. Have been using CBFM for 8 months which always charts highs and peaks. Have also been using conceive plus and taking pregnacare vitamins.

Despite this AF has just arrived and symptomless at that. It's been a year now and still no luck. What am I doing wrong? I am starting to feel as if it's never going to happen for us. Fed up.

Thanks don't. I'm hanging in there. The BFPs make me believe though so I love the buses! And my mum is really amazing (despite 'relax' advice).

I'm positive because that's who I am but I am getting really scared ...

On nov 2nd I will be embarrassed by this post as I'll be pg and - as ever - mum will be right that I have nohing to worry about....

Good to talk to fellow long termers .... Really good! :-)

Oh and btw don't I have this image of a scientific journal headed 'relaxing when ttc - b*llocks!' Has me chuckling away! I think all journals should be as up front !

Phahaha m33r and don't, you guys are cracking me up.

m33r that's the exact same rant I had with my SIL who conceived both hers accidentally - and so doesn't even know her cycle - when she told me to just relax and that I'm trying to hard. I have tried a couple of months without tracking OPKs but after 12 months I know my body and EWCM, ovulation twinges etc so know when I am fertile.

I am just going to log on to Amazon to try and find a memory eraser so I can 'unknow' too!

I tried the buses too but as I only log onto this forum via my phone, it take a while to scroll down to the newest post as the thread is usually a couple of hundred posts strong. Lame excuse I know - maybe I just need to relax

It'll be us soon shoegal. I always say this on the buses but since 90% of people conceive in 12 months and 95% in the second year, if you were a betting man, the 11monthers would statistically be your odds on favourite and there is a reason that 'the house always wins'.

This is my positive thought backed by solid science!

:-)