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tametortie · 02/07/2013 06:50

We swear! We have to start a new thread every week! But we are the most gorgeous bunch of ladies ever Grin and will do anything to get a baybee in our tumtum.

Get nattering.....

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Fabuluce · 02/07/2013 10:15

Lurky McLurkster here - just popping my head up turtle-style for a moment to say hello I'm still here Smile

Wish, I'm so sorry for your news, how devastated you must be feeling at the moment - that terrible feeling of 'oh'. 'What now' 'what was it all for'. You WILL pull through it as you know you will but do please let yourself wallow for a while. I think it's an important part of the grieving process. Same for you lovely Tame - don't feel guilty about feeling like shit, it's how you feel, and don't feel guilty for laughing either. Laughing is part of recovery and it's importantSmile- we all know this otherwise we wouldn't be on a Fred with Juicy making us cry with laughter over her exploits!! So wonderful ladies, give yourselves time to be sad and angry and fucked off and generally narky and embrace those laughs and chuckles when you can. Those bastard hormones will start to even out at some point which will help you feel more human too.

As for me, I'm enjoying being a housewife this week and taking the opportunity to sort out the nest before I feel like shit with the bastard drugs next week. Only 6 days to go, looking forward to it - bring on the big guns Drugs - I'm gonna win!!! Grrrr....feisty I am!

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Fabuluce · 02/07/2013 10:18

Oh and Tame I'm trying out the counsellor at zita west on Friday (I get 2 sessions as part of my package) - I'll let you know if she's any good. Xx

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eurozammo · 02/07/2013 10:22

Ovitrille. 250 unitsx2. Taken Friday 21 June. I'm 9dpEC.

I was still getting a hint of a line at 8dpEC last time with just one shot, so it's no surprise. I just don't metabolise anything hormonal well at all.

wish I'm so sorry AF is here. I really did have high hopes for you.

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chocolocodowninacapulco · 02/07/2013 10:23

wish so so sorry to hear that AF has arrived. I know that feeling, and it' s soul destroying Xx

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NoMaybeAboutIt · 02/07/2013 10:38

Wish I'm so so sorry that AF has turned up. I hope you take some time to be kind to yourself. Thinking of you.

Euro am keeping my fingers crossed that that line starts to be darker in the coming days. Do you mind me asking why you had two shots of ovitrelle?

Juicy if I have any left over, shall I bring some with breadsticks?

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mejust · 02/07/2013 10:49

Wish I really feel for you I'm really sorry for your outcome but have to say thank you for your best wishes for me.
I know you had such a hard time through all this but battled on.I wish I could help but if you want to talk you know where we all are.
Take care xxxx

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JuicySausage · 02/07/2013 10:53

[waves at the fabulous fabuluce] Smile

Zammo, no way does 500mu of Ovitrelle stay in the system for eleven days! I had 500mu, too, and the transfer nurse told me it will be out of my system by the sixth day. However, I will believe you about your weird metabolism doesn't really Wink

Maybe, I would rather gouge my eyes out with a rusty spoon than eat that f***g filth (and, yes, I've given up swearing)

I need to walk approximately 120 yards to the post box to send my niece's birthday card but am too exhausted Hmm

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eurozammo · 02/07/2013 10:58

Well 250 stayed in my systen for 10 days, so I find it pretty easy to believe joos. I am feeling quite periody so there's no need to get excited. If I thought there was, I would say so.

nomaybe because the dr told me to take 2! I questioned it and said I only had one last time, but he said I had more follicles so should take 2.

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NoMaybeAboutIt · 02/07/2013 11:05

That's interesting Euro. There is much to learn about this whole thing!

Juicy I've never tried it. Though I am partialo. Bit of taramasalata Grin

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tametortie · 02/07/2013 11:28

Lizzie- what clinic are you with?? It sounds like mine!!! X

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nobeer · 02/07/2013 11:52

I'm so sorry wish, that's just shit. Can you tell a good friend so you don't have to tell everyone yourself?

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tametortie · 02/07/2013 12:28

wish you know where we are when you are ready xxx tis shite Sad

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MotorcycleMama · 02/07/2013 12:30

wish I am so, so sorry, and very touched by your extension of best wishes. To be honest I have a very strong feeling that I will be joining you. I just want to wish you strength and comfort, and you should just call in to the thread as and when you feel. I know it can be so hard.

Welcome lizzie and thanks for the best wishes. You have been through a hell of time with IVF - I hope you find support and laughter, and that you will soon get your success story.

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nobeer · 02/07/2013 12:34

maybe I just remembered you asked me about my embryos yesterday. I think they want to wait because my hormone levels escalated quite quickly, and they've prescribed me some dostinex to suppress my hormones after the EC. I was a bit disappointed when they told me, but then my lovely pharmacist told me to enjoy the month off! And I am happy they're going for the least risky route with me.

No idea if we have to pay the clinic for freezing the embryos Confused.

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nobeer · 02/07/2013 12:37

euro I've got loads of follicles and they told me to take half an ovitrelle! It must depend on patient and their hormone levels etc.

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MotorcycleMama · 02/07/2013 12:49

Where are you life? I'm looking forward to an update on your lovely embryos!

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mejust · 02/07/2013 12:56

Nobeer its best to be safe than get ohss,they are looking after you good luck

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Karbea · 02/07/2013 13:32

I have such bad period pain. I wanted to go out holiday shopping today, but I can't stand up straight, or put anything tighter than tracksuit bottoms on :(

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Nokkie73 · 02/07/2013 13:40

You fuckers ! . That will teach me for going 'dark' for a few days but killing instadiffers won't do itself you know

Anyway, I shall purge The Rage from my very being and say a very energetic 'hello' to you all.

wish I am really sorry that it hasn't worked for you. I was in exactly the same situation as you (as many on here have been) and, to be honest, it just sucks. I won't repeat what has already been said here, but please don't leave the thread if you still need to offload and work through everything in your own mind (and are finding that hard to do in the RL). We are all here for you so please don't forget that.

tame you are still The Duchess of the thread and are NOT bringing it down, you dopey moo. You should offload here. So shooooosh Grin. I didn't get counselling after my MC but, in hindsight, I wish I had. I couldn't speak about it to anyone, really. If I did, I would get so emotional that I would just start crying and my nearest and dearest really didn't know what to do or say. So the topic, over the years, would be ignored........DP also periodically, out of the blue, got it in the neck. I wouldn't worry - it's what they are there for (sometimes).

lizzie hello. Welcome. I am sorry that you have been through the ivf mill. Truly, it sucks the biggest throbbing, pulsating cock i am NOT obsessed with the sechs Now then, what is your favourite word for lady garden ?

choco you are at the starting line again then ? Getting back on the ivf fun bus ? Exciting times. Your post on t'other thread made me smile. Very cute !

joos is that some kind of fucking world record then ? Bejesus woman, how many are you cooking in there ? And do not give me any of that old fuckingbollocks about giving up swearing. Daft old cuntsack. So are you really feeling vomity ?

motor don't you DARE give up hope yet. Nor you, zammo you pair of rascals. Please. Come and have a go on the coffee coloured buzzwams and see how you feel after that.

life and nobeer am looking forward to updates from you two.

mejust I hope you are feeling a bit better now. Have you moulded into the sofa !

I am absolutely fucking sure I have left people off. fab expat maybe hello lovelies. Hello to everyone else too.

Should we all give lizzie an update on our journeeeees . In fact, we don't have a feem tune. Any suggestions ?

Noks, the Semi-Nubian Princess of Surrey and the Shires.

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Nokkie73 · 02/07/2013 13:41

karbs and res hello

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Nokkie73 · 02/07/2013 13:43

PS - are we meeting tame in town for Spaff Saturday ? Or would you rather not (no offence if you can't face it).

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mejust · 02/07/2013 13:57

Nokkie I'm feeling alittle better today,I'm part of the sofa now.I get up do few things then rest and so on.
Had a restless night and sore boobs I hope that's a good sign for me.

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Lifeasafish · 02/07/2013 14:59

I cannot face personals, sorry. Athough my best wishes to wish and tame.

wish i have no words for you bar take the time to grieve for what has happened. The clinics counsellor may help you make sense of it all.

I feel as sick as a fucking dog. I had heartburn for hours yesterday woke up at 3am with it, was still up at 5am and I just feel awful. My stomach is huge and painful and I'm tired and could cry with how I feel. Its like a ball of acid in my chest and I feel close to being sick all the time.

Anyway, good news is I am currently carrying a 5day hatching blastocyst. Umm grade 1AB I think. We are freezing two 3BB's and a possible further 3 which they will check tm.

ET was ok, they also scanned my stomah and liver, confirmed I am bloated (my stomach looks 3/4 months) and now I've 14 days of blood thinner injections.

I feel so wretched though. Oh, and I got the warning that if this is successful, I will feel worse again - I cannot even remember why.

Anyway, thats my tale of woe over. I'm not sure how I feel about the embie... It all seems a bit surreal.

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Karbea · 02/07/2013 15:01

life OHSS comes back with vengeance if you are preg.

MY STOMACH HURTS!!! and I think i'm getting a sore throat FFS!

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