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TTC after MC - nice people in crap times, full of posifrickingtivity

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WillSantaComeAgain · 02/04/2013 13:49

Welcome aboard ladies (though obviously sorry you have to be here). We're a friendly bunch so come in and plump up a cushion for POAS Fridays and lots of posifrickingtivity. With a few (gentle) fish slaps thrown in for good measure.

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alyant79 · 05/04/2013 22:38

Oh yes lily , I would have thought I was a complete raving lunatic with the rollercoaster feelings and desperate desire to be knocked up again ASAP if I didn't have this thread. At least now I know I'm not the only nutter Wink

Curious: what are the symptoms of an ectopic?

Do we need a new stats list?? Can start one

Alyant: 1 DD, 1 MMC/ERPCx2, ttc cycle 1, BFP due 3rd may

SeasideLily · 05/04/2013 23:01

Good to know!

If a stats list is what I think it is (new to this posting thing!) then:

SeasideLily: 0 DC, 1 EP, TTC cycle 2, is BFP date when af is due? Then 9th April.

My ectopic symptoms were: mega cramping, stool probs/constipation (tmi), irregular bleeding, and a very bad feeling. I bled from BFP, knew something was really wrong straight away. Cramped 2 days after BFP, thought I was 'normal' MCing, but after blood tests pg hormone just went up and up (cruel hope before I knew what was happening). Couple of days of irregular cramping, really painful. Dildocam scan showed nothing in womb, then straight into hospital bed. 6hrs later, tube burst.

ChocolateCremeEggBag · 05/04/2013 23:07

But but but (holding hand up as high as can using other hand to help)

Thunder says that is it is ok to POAS on Sunday if yo have already POAS'd on the Friday (frantically searching back for where she said it)

(waits for the slap)

Thundercatsarego · 05/04/2013 23:58

choc I refer you to rule 4

x

Zeuxippe · 06/04/2013 07:47

Hello to Newbies, sorry to hear about your mcs.

I'm going to poas tomorrow for sensational Sunday, who's with me? choc?

Happy weekend everyone x

Zeuxippe · 06/04/2013 08:04

(Obviously only where permitted under rule 4)

alyant79 · 06/04/2013 08:18

Alyant: 1 DD, 1 MMC/ERPCx2, ttc cycle 1, BFP due 3rd may
SeasideLily: 0 DC, 1 EP, TTC cycle 2, BFP due 9th April

Wish I was poas sensational Sunday :(. Good luck ladies!

alyant79 · 06/04/2013 08:19

EP sounds terrifying lily (and others)

Ostrich78 · 06/04/2013 08:52

Morning ladies, good luck to those poas tomorrow! I poas Wednesday and thought I imagined a line, 2 days really made a difference!
Lily, it's so good that you are being positive x
I poads last night and got 2-3 weeks which freaked me out.
I have a 6 week scan booked for a few weeks and have to go pick up the drugs and get shown how to inject. Nice.
I think Sal asked about af after erpc? My first was 6 weeks which Im sure is fairly common. I hope your af comes soon - sorry if I've missed a further update from you.
Its really hard when there are so many pregnant ladies and babies around, I found it helps to think that I've still got all this to look forward to so I don't feel too down. In every pregnancy I've had at least 1 really good friend have a similar edd so have had to find a way cope.
Its shit we're in this situation but so helpful to know we're not alone so thank you all for sharing - it helped me when I was lurking x
Fingers crossed for bfp and ladies hitting milestones, Im looking forward to hearing about good scan news and more bfp every frickin Friday!
Sorry Im all over the place, still very shaky!!

DIYandEatCake · 06/04/2013 09:21

[braces self for rally of fish slaps]
Um, I poas this morning (retched when I drank some water this morning and thought, ok, this has to stop, you really are crazy) and it's posifrickintive! Eeeeeeeeeeeek! I am genuinely gobsmacked, really thought the timing wasn't good enough this month (and given our track record expected it to take ages). But so so grateful, praying for better luck this time. Is really good to be feeling sick, did with dd but hardly anything with the one I lost.

JanieLovesCake · 06/04/2013 09:22

Oooh DIY that's the best news!!!! Confrickingratulations!!!!!!!!!!!

Thundercatsarego · 06/04/2013 09:41

Wow diy!! Hooray! Why didn't you poas yesterday? Or did you? (sorry- easily confused)

DIYandEatCake · 06/04/2013 09:49

Cos I really thought it would be negative, and couldn't face the disappointment, thought I'd just assume af was on the way.... Wow. Still can't believe my luck.

Thundercatsarego · 06/04/2013 09:49

Oh yes I remember now. Amazing news- congratulations!!

Ostrich78 · 06/04/2013 09:55

Congratulations diy!! Brilliant news x

Weaselicious · 06/04/2013 10:03

DIY congratulations!! I love a bit of good news x

Zeuxippe · 06/04/2013 10:04

Congratulations diy!! Fab news Grin

shellshock7 · 06/04/2013 10:31

Congrats diy you must be in shock I know you were worrying it would take a long time again, really pleased for you Smile

LittleBairn · 06/04/2013 10:40

Ostritch the date prediction digital ones are not to be entirely trusted so I wouldn't work if it doesn't match up to your dates.

DIY Great news! I'm pleased for all the BFP, seems like Friday is still our lucky day.

I'm just finishing my period, using the CBFM again this month here is hoping I get to pee on less sticks this month!

Emotionally I'm holding it together OK just one breakdown on the way to post office to post my cousins baby gift. It was very very odd having little baby boy clothes hanging up. Painful, yet I feel determined that my time will come again. Hopefully soon if not there is also a holiday once my job comes to an end.

Thundercatsarego · 06/04/2013 10:40

What test did you use, out of interest?

Thundercatsarego · 06/04/2013 10:52

Thanks to angel today on what must be a difficult time x

IBelieveInPink · 06/04/2013 10:53

Congrats DIY! Brilliant news! :)

alyant79 · 06/04/2013 11:05

DIY that's fabulous!!!!

alyant79 · 06/04/2013 11:08

Ps diy

Weaselicious · 06/04/2013 11:32

So up and down. Guess it's very early days just want to feel better. :(