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The Elderberry Pavlovas are pimping everyday – a lovely thread for 30+ ladies TTC #1 (Thread 7)

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CatsCantFlyFast · 16/03/2013 14:42

Newbies very welcome provided they meet the entrance criteria (TTC #1, over 30, TTC for 3+months, must have a special pot, NO instadiffers) and bring a bouquet of sausages when they join!

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CatsCantFlyFast · 17/03/2013 09:04

barking that does not look like a chart thats bringing AF today!

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CatsCantFlyFast · 17/03/2013 09:07

and thank you Have gone back to my tests and the line on one is visible (is faint) without a squint, the FRER is every so slightly fainter than the first FRER but can be seen in the light, and the other is blank. They really don't tell me anything, so just have to wait it out.

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Tallyra · 17/03/2013 09:09

Hugs to you merkin. I agree. early testing is just put there to make us worry even more. Don't do it ladies!

hpt this morning x2 both negative.
But something is definitely going on. I'm not sleeping very well, my neck has really cramped right up as if I did loads of exercise ( I must certainly did not) and my abdomen feels funny, like an almost ache.

Sorry for making you wait so long!

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CatsCantFlyFast · 17/03/2013 09:22

tally we need to invent a word for that weird abdomen feeling, I had it until last night and have been unable to describe it well!

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Tallyra · 17/03/2013 09:25

It's a bit like a bloated gas feeling without the bloatedness isn't it?

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Bunnygirlie · 17/03/2013 09:30

Oh ladies what worries, hoping the news gets better!

Seeing you go through this just confirms that i would want to hold off until AF is really late (if that ever happens)

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Tallyra · 17/03/2013 09:46

but pimping is just so tempting! I shouldn't have even had any reason to do it but I did!

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barkingtreefrog · 17/03/2013 09:51

bunny I used to think that but now I have cheap ones the temptation is too great!

merkin my temps don't drop until AF has arrived, especially as it often starts in the evening leaving you thinking all day that this could be the month! Don't usually get such a straight line though!

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Thundercatsarego · 17/03/2013 09:55

NC here, just checking in.

Arse merk, sorry you're having to deal with this worry and fx those lines stay.

barking I'm thinking this could be your month- fingers very much crossed!

bunny what did he buy?

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Bunnygirlie · 17/03/2013 10:10

I'm disappointed enough when AF arrives, having a bfn must be horrid Confused

thunder what didn't he buy!!! He even managed to win the crappest prize in the raffle!

Ooooh barking ............

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happylass · 17/03/2013 10:13

Uncertain times in camp Elderberry! Think of everyone who's going through it Shamrock

Barking my temps don't drop until after AF has arrived either. So annoying. Temp actually went up this morning even though I know she's on her way. Humph!

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Pipbin · 17/03/2013 10:14

Oh Merkin, I hope this bean gets a bit more comfy and sticks around.
And although it is no good for you, and sounds rather like rubbing your nose in it, it is a message to us all about testing too early.
Back in the days before such sensitive tests you wouldn't know until after AF was late. When is AF due? How many DPO are you?

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ILoveMyCats · 17/03/2013 10:25

Morning berries, thinking of you all & hoping for the best Shamrock

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Tallyra · 17/03/2013 11:41

It has occurred to me that I could just be having a very early miscarriage. We'll see if tests improve in a few days I suppose.

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Thundercatsarego · 17/03/2013 11:45

Hey tall have you had any more spotting or bleeding?

Do you think it might have been a chem?

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CatsCantFlyFast · 17/03/2013 11:48

Confession to make, I have just used the actual toothbrush holder as a pee pot Shock my pot has disappeared from the loo, I decided I needed to pee on another stick and was caught short so to speak. I have rinsed it with bleach and I don't care as my toothbrush isn't in that pot ew but needs must and serves him right for moving my pot. Oh god we are like the twits!

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Thundercatsarego · 17/03/2013 11:52

Grin merk, that's hilarious.

And, what was the result?

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CatsCantFlyFast · 17/03/2013 11:53

...but maybe it was worth it, much darker line on this test that this mornings ones. Deep breath, feeling a tiny bit better!

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Tallyra · 17/03/2013 11:54

well I thought af had finished but I am still spotting...

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Thundercatsarego · 17/03/2013 12:00

Sounds very odd doesn't it? Did you do a hpt before af?

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SidneyBristow · 17/03/2013 12:12

Oh goodness just catching up and seems like a lot has happened! Am keeping all fingers & toes crossed that lines get darker & AF stays away...

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Tallyra · 17/03/2013 12:23

No, hpt was just after af started. I don't even know why I did it.

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Thundercatsarego · 17/03/2013 12:27

Hmm very confusing.

Are you ok?

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Tallyra · 17/03/2013 12:48

Yes, I think so. I don't know anything for certain so I'm just going to carry on as normal and just hope everything goes back to normal soon I think.

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Thundercatsarego · 17/03/2013 12:51

That sounds like a good idea. I'm sorry it's been a confusing time for you. You've got an appointment coming up though eh? Hope that can give you some answers.

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