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Emmsys Weebles - moving to the Greenhouse for spring and summer!

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4everhopeful · 08/03/2013 00:09

Onwards and upwards lovelies... Bfp's, bumps, babies and young graduates, growing nicely back in the warmth of the greenhouse...

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SabsFabulous · 16/03/2013 11:03

So sorry, stupid iPhone app gave me the wrong icon. I meant SadSadSad so sorry MrsKate

RemindMeWhatSleepIs · 16/03/2013 11:21

Another text from Kate.

The scan showed her Little Bean stopped growing 2 weeks ago.

Neeko · 16/03/2013 11:27

Oh Mrskate Life can be so hard. Be kind to yourself and give your DS a huge cuddle. Thinking of you.

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4everhopeful · 16/03/2013 11:47

Oh no no mrskate I am so so sorry.... Id prayed it was ok.. Sad My heart goes out to you and your Dh, squeeze DS tightly.. I'm really sorry and so sad for you.... Sad

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4everhopeful · 16/03/2013 11:49

I'm going to church tomorrow and will pray for your little angel, and for strength to get you through this sad time...

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MrsKate · 16/03/2013 12:35

Hi girls
Just you let you what has happened started bleeding again just before scan got in scan felt like a eternity before she told me that it hadnt grown much but had grown .so they cant start the process of for 2 weeks until i come back for scan i know they are covering there backs i know this bean has gone just want to get this over with . Im in pieces just thankful i have jack Confused

Love u all thank you

moonmrs · 16/03/2013 12:38

Oh mrskate I am so sorry Sad on phone atm will post properly later. Big big hug to you, so sorry you are going through this xx

CurlyLikesShortShorts · 16/03/2013 13:11

im so sorry MrsKate :( lets get some beanbags and settle in. we'll be here and will get u through the next while I promise xxxx

Rumours · 16/03/2013 16:26

Sad so sorry mrskate

MrsKate · 16/03/2013 16:33

Im so sorry to everyone especially to moon to put a downer on the thread .

Moon sorry this is your time your moment so so so happy for you Smile

Remindme has just come to see me at home i love that girl so much Smilevbrought me flowers and every girls essential at this time mini eggs

Rumours · 16/03/2013 16:41

Aww mrskate don't apologise, we're here to support you. Feel free to offload on here xx

CurlyLikesShortShorts · 16/03/2013 17:09

mrskate I think that it's a mark of what a wonderful person you are that you would think of others at this time. We do forget sometimes but this thread is for supporting each other through conception and beyond and especially for times like this :( Lean on us as much as you need to. I'm so glad you have remindme in real life too and jack to cuddle xxxx

So lovely to mermaid monkey and buddha back though :)

moonmrs · 16/03/2013 17:12

mrskate you have no need to apologise, we're all here for good or for bad - please don't feel you cant say anything because of me, we've all sadly been there and we understand how heartbreaking it is. How lovely of remindme to bring flowers and mini eggs Smile also forgot to say how lovely mermaid is for sending mini eggs to rumours Smile

CurlyLikesShortShorts · 16/03/2013 17:13

And mrskate we will never forget our little lost angels :( big hugs xxxx

CurlyLikesShortShorts · 16/03/2013 17:16

Hello lovely moon when do you get your test results?

moonmrs · 16/03/2013 17:18

hi curly Smile you are so right, we never forget our little angels, I know I think of mine every day. They said if test results were low risk we'd hear in 3 weeks by post, or if high risk within a week by phone.

CurlyLikesShortShorts · 16/03/2013 17:23

I'll keep everything crossed moon Brew

mrskate can you get the next two weeks off work? Do they really need to wait that long. It's so cruel :(

MrsKate · 16/03/2013 17:24

I cant express how grateful i am to have you all in my life you make this process more bearable . You were all a god send when i had my first mc and you are amazing today Smile

moonmrs · 16/03/2013 17:25

thanks curly

I agree 2 weeks is a long cruel wait - I had to wait 1 week with my second one and it was absolute torture, no one should have to go through that.

moonmrs · 16/03/2013 17:26

we should rename ourselves as the amazing emmsys weebles Wink

MummysLittleSunbeams · 16/03/2013 20:23

Awwww mrskate so sad you are having to go through this. We are all here for you, that's what the thread is for. We've all been in a bad place when others have been more lucky so don't feel like you are bringing the thread down.

Moon what is the cut-off rate at your hospital? Mine was 1 in 150. With dd2 I was gutted to be 149 so I literally could write an essay about blood results as I dug my heels in, had conversations with the lab that tested my blood & eventually had a few scans with the amazing team at Kings College Hospital (4ever you went there didn't you?) so if there is anything you need to ask....

CurlyLikesShortShorts · 16/03/2013 22:49

mrskate if we could wrap you and dh and Jack up in a great big emmsy bearhug we would you poor love :(

I checked the rcog guidelines here and I don't know enough about your scan measurements but they seem to suggest a minimum of one week rather than 2 before rescan. Maybe you could ask them to reconsider on the grounds of your emotional well being? Hmm

Big hug to 4ever also. It is only too recent that you have gone through this yourself :( my first llo would have been 4 this week but seeing poor mrskate go through this brings it all back. I wish we could each take away a little of her sadness.

rumours how is ds2 doing now?

Sorry for the lack of personals. Love to all xxx

bluesatinsash · 17/03/2013 09:17

So Sad mrskate . They scanned me a week later after my 8 week scan showed no heartbeat even though I was 101% certain of my dates. It's because there can be varying growth and 6-8 weeks is the critical time. Waiting a fornight though Angry I'm sure you're hugging DS a little bit tighter at the moment xx

moonmrs · 17/03/2013 13:44

mls its 1 in 150 up here too, although to be honest I wasn't really paying a huge amount of attention as I didn't really want to have it done, but dh did, so I did it on the understanding that whatever the results, I am not ever terminating the pregnancy, and will deal with whatever is given to us. I think he wanted it for peace of mind really which I can understand, but there is nothing in this world that would make me get rid of this baby. Conversely, he doesn't want to find out the sex and I do!

mrskate hope you are bearing up ok and looking after yourself, actually scrap that, hope mrkate is looking after you! Agree with curly I was told it was 1 week to wait with my 2nd llo, so its worth checking up on if only to preserve your sanity, as 2 weeks is such a long time.

big waves to everyone else

cupcakefairy · 17/03/2013 14:10

mrskate I'm so sorry :( I too had to wait a week after being told there was no heartbeat & it was torture. Really feel for you.. can't believe you're having to go through this again :( so glad you have Jack, and mrkate and remindme.. plus lots of mini eggs of course.

Massive hugs to all x x x