Ttc after recent mc, for Creme egg scoffers, shared confusion and joint cursing of mother nature

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I couldn't bring myself to call her a bitch, we still need her help! Come on ladies, let's do this thing....

Oh Tins, it makes me so sad to read that. You have been a massive help to everyone here and I really hope that things turn out good for you. Massive hugs. I hope you have someone with you for a real one. X

tins so gutted for you, it's really really shit and I'm so sorry for you and your family. Wishing you the best of luck for the future x

Oh BakingTins, my heart is breaking for you. Im so sorry. You have been a great help to me here, and Im sooo greatful. Take care, all my love, Saggy. xxxxxxx

Oh tins this is awful! You were our silver lining, I truly hope it's just a bump in the road and everything comes good (still routing for you) your a lovely lady and deserve much happiness...our thoughts are with you xxx massive hugs and best wishes for the future xxxx look after yourself huni xxx

Oh baking. Bollocks to nature. Damnit why is it all so unfair. I am so so sorry. Remember we still here if you need a good rant. I really, really hope you have someone there to hug you.
I'm so sorry

So sorry Baking- thoughts with you xx

Really so so sorry tins. Hope you're being well looked after. Thinking of you and sending hugs.

After a few weeks of slight denial I seem to have crashed over the past few days. Weeping in the car. Weeping in the toilet. Weeping in bed @ 1--4am. You guys probably know the score. Triggered by a cold and my f&c£king birthday today which I am so not in the mood for.

Grumble grumble

bakingtins have just caught up after ages and am so devastated for you if that's indeed the case. Obviously you seem certain so doesn't help me thinking 'are you sure?' Feeling really sad for you, so sorry.

Pants, got a smiley face this morning and oh away til tmw night. Damnit.

Oh dear cam, poor you. It's probably got to happen- you can't carry all that emotion round with you without it coming out at some point. I hope you can find a little ray of sunshine today.

am gutted to come on this mornign and see what has happened (Maybe?) - Baking as others have said I am so so sorry and want to thank you for your kindness and compassion when I joined the thread. Please know as someone who doesnt know you in rl that I really liked you and respected your opinion.

Thunder - tomorrow might still be good enough - the smiley just confirms is going to happen imminently - much sure DH is prepped! Hes on duty tonight!

Cam - happy birthday. I hate to hear of your sadness and do understand - I take comfort in the expression 'this too will past' even when it relates to good things passing as well as helps me to appreciate things. You will feel happy again x

Oh cam, it's only natural, have you considerd bereavement counselling? I too break down or just get incredibly angry. Can you postpone your birthday? Perhaps celebrate it at the weekend instead I'm sure everyone around you would understand xxxx

Then again it's your birthday and you can cry if you want to

Try to enjoy/ make the most of today if you can

Hugs xxxx

camomile yes, been there... Look after yourself and do whatever helps, those feelings keep coming back on and off for me, usually triggered by seeing a pg lady due at the same time I would have been, but it's getting easier to deal with with time.

I don't think I can wait til fri to poas, woke with another headache and still feeling sick today, I feel so like I did with dd... So am torturing myself with hope when I'm probably just coming down with a cold or something. I don't know, kind of feel like testing early is tempting fate (eg af) for me...

oh no baking that is terrible news. Biggest, biggest hugs.

cam, go and drink a bottle glass of wine for your b'day, you deserve it.

And the rest of you - don't POAS until friday! There is no point! (says the gal with a whole week left until the first POAS day, who will still try and wait until friday next week, which would mean AF was 2 days late...)

Thanks folks. Add weeping at desk and weeping at lovely people on mumsnet to the list!xxx

'Tins' still thinking of you, I hope you are being looked after x

DIY I nearly POAS this morning?! What a joke! No way will I be able to resist tomorrow now and I've taken my 'POAS cup' up for later just in case so BFN here I come

Tins I am so so sorry :(

Camo I know what you are going through, don't find the weeping, it's part of dealing with this.

Quiet here due to being unwell, I had read your immune system is low after a mc and it's true for me. 4 weeks of bleeding swiftly followed by a Horrible cold followed by awful cough followed by stomach bug and a tooth ache/abscess thrown in for good measure! Plus up ALL night with dd vomiting. Honestly I am so wrecked and rundown, TTC is the last fecking thing in my mind right now!
Our luck must surely change soon ;-)

Good luck to all testing soon,
Xx

find=fight

It is official: I am crazy.
Feeling particularly hungry this morning, and the first thing that went through my mind when my tummy rumbled was not "oh, I'm hungry because I didn't eat much dinner last night" or anything sensible.
No, it was "oooh, maybe I'm pregnant!!!"
that is a ridiculous thing to think, as we only dtd for the first time after mc 5 nights ago.
Can someone please tell me that I'm an idiot??

oh, bzzbee, you're really going through the mill

alyant, if you are then I am too. I am feeling thoroughly sick and it's possible that it's entirely psychosomatic. But, but... tomorrow is 14 days since ov, I have symptoms and I'm driving myself crazy. I think for my sanity I need to poas tomorrow!

bzzbee, sorry you're going through it, mc does leave you completely physically and mentally shattered doesn't it. I hope you feel better soon - for me, I noticed a real difference after first af, hope it's the same for you too.

shellshock where are you in your cycle? We could be poas buddies tomorrow... feels guilty at suggested mutiny

DIY: we can both be crazy together.
How early would it if you poas tomorrow?

Wouldn't be early, af due tomorrow so shouldn't get a false negative at least...

Im joining the ranks of the feeling rough today. M neck has gone into spasm, and I hurt from ear to shoulder. I have first AF after the MC and the cramps and back ache go from waist to thighs! Literally every inch of me hurts!
'The cloud' is heavy today too. Im hoping it will lift a bit when AF is over and we can start TTC again, but Im also scared it will just get worse if nothing happens.

CD26 Shouldn't test till at least Thurs, but defo testing tomorrow and got a BFN 5 mins ago