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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Hop aboard the Santa sleigh for a festive baby (late Dec /early Jan)

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Crazytictac · 21/03/2012 22:13

Jingle jingle....anybody joining me? I figure this HAS to be my month if I'm starting the thread :o

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Pinkie29 · 02/04/2012 12:22

Good luck to all testing next week, I'm not due to Ov for another 2 weeks will be due my af around 26th or 30th depending on how long the cycle is! Got a docs appointment tomorrow to discusses possible pcos x

Pipbin · 02/04/2012 15:54

Hi Pinkie. You and me both. I'm not due to OV for ages.

LimeLeafLizard · 02/04/2012 16:47

Hope these are all correct?

Roxy31 TTC #1, cycle 9, AF due 6 April
QTPie (38) TTC #2, cycle 2, AF due around 6th April
YaYa OC TTC #1, cycle 2 AF due around 7th of April
Wiggy29 (30) TTC #2, cycle 1, AF due 9th April
Combatqueen (30) TTC #1, cycle 4, AF due around 9th April
Cejay8 TTC #?, cycle ?, AF due 10 April
LimeleafLizard (36) TTC #4, cycle 4 AF due 10 April
Eleanora (33) TTC #2, cycle 1, AF due 10th April
Olivetti TTC #2, cycle 1, AF due 10th April
EmpireBiscuit TTC #1, cycle 1, AF due 11 April
FrenchLimeBlossom (35) TTC #2, cycle 3, AF due 18 April
Crazytictac (31) TTC #2, cycle 6, AF due possibly from 17 - 24 April
Asianbabe (35) Cycle 11, TTC #3 AF due 20th April
MrsTwinks TTC#1 Cycle 3 AF due May 1st
Happilymarried cycle 12
Pandawatch TTC #1, cycle 4
Treats (35) TTC #3, cycle 3
Pipbin (36) TTC#1, cycle 10
Pinkie29 (30) TTC #1, cycle 3
Debeez TTC #2, cycle 3
StrawberrytallCAKE
SpringFlowers TTC #4, cycle 1
knickyknocks (40) TTC#2
Rudawakening

LimeLeafLizard · 02/04/2012 16:51

Looks like next week will be a POAS bonanza! I am 6dpo and trying not to symptom spot.

coveredinflour · 02/04/2012 19:32

Hello everyone,
Can I join you? Although I would rather not have a xmas baby i'm not going to stop ttc and would just be over the moon to be pg so am secretly hoping it will happen this month!!

My stats are:
Coveredinflour (28) ttc #1 cycle 3 AF due around the 18-22 April

Have been rather irregular recently and the last 2 cycles both been 35 days (my average is normally 29) so who knows what's going on but keeping everything crossed that father christmas will have a baby for me.

Good luck everyone!!

SpringFlowers · 02/04/2012 19:40

Thank you for the welcome, it seems really exciting and scary to be thinking about ttc again. This will definately be our last baby so it's strange to think that I'm doing this for the last time.

I've updated my details on the list and the new list is below:

Roxy31 TTC #1, cycle 9, AF due 6 April
QTPie (38) TTC #2, cycle 2, AF due around 6th April
YaYa OC TTC #1, cycle 2 AF due around 7th of April
Wiggy29 (30) TTC #2, cycle 1, AF due 9th April
Combatqueen (30) TTC #1, cycle 4, AF due around 9th April
Cejay8 TTC #?, cycle ?, AF due 10 April
LimeleafLizard (36) TTC #4, cycle 4 AF due 10 April
Eleanora (33) TTC #2, cycle 1, AF due 10th April
Olivetti TTC #2, cycle 1, AF due 10th April
EmpireBiscuit TTC #1, cycle 1, AF due 11 April
FrenchLimeBlossom (35) TTC #2, cycle 3, AF due 18 April
Crazytictac (31) TTC #2, cycle 6, AF due possibly from 17 - 24 April
Asianbabe (35) Cycle 11, TTC #3 AF due 20th April
MrsTwinks TTC#1 Cycle 3 AF due May 1st
Happilymarried cycle 12
Pandawatch TTC #1, cycle 4
Treats (35) TTC #3, cycle 3
Pipbin (36) TTC#1, cycle 10
Pinkie29 (30) TTC #1, cycle 3
Debeez TTC #2, cycle 3
StrawberrytallCAKE
SpringFlowers (39) TTC #4, cycle 1 AF due 14 April
knickyknocks (40) TTC#2
Rudawakening

Someone was saying that they're not very patient when it comes to ttc - I'm not either. DD3 is 17 months and we conceived the first month of trying. We weren't very technical - just DTD when I had EWCM. Unfortunately I miscarried early but conceived again two months later.

I'm not sure how optimistic I feel about this month, we did all the right things but I can't believe I will conceive that quickly again. I find the waiting so dull...

So, who is testing next week? Any symptoms to be spotted?

Wiggy29 · 02/04/2012 19:53

I wasn't planning on testing as just don't 'feel' pregnant.we dtd a lot but about 5 days of my fertile period (or at least when I think it is) we didn't as had really late ngts/early mornings due to work related stuff. That said,I'm now debating taking one on Friday just so I can relax&know rather than wondering if every stomach twinge is period cramp. I'm dreading a period as mine were horrendous before I was on the pill. How early will people test&will you use a cheap&cheery test or one that tells you how many weeks?

SpringFlowers · 02/04/2012 20:15

Wiggy - I didn't have any symptoms at all when I was actually pregnant last time. I was really surprised when AF didn't arrive. I used a CB digi test, I love the little thing saying 1-2 weeks. I still have it somewhere, the battery ran out of course so it doesn't say much now Blush.

I had a nightmare with the tests with the lines on my previous pregnancy, my lines were so faint that I spent ages trying to decide if there was a line or not. Too much stress!

This might be TMI so brace yourselves or look away...I always have a few days of nasty brown spotting before by period actually starts but I have never had that when I've been pregnant. I think that it might be an age thing. I'll probably only test if I don't get that by the day my period is due.

Cejay8 · 02/04/2012 20:15

Hello everyone, I have been quietly lurking this month. I have no idea when/if I ovulated - just when I felt like I was beginning to know my cycles! Anyway we made a reasonable effort to DTD last week! So fingers crossed. I'm not going to test till after the 10th as I have tested early in the past and been very disappointed Sad. No symptoms yet and trying not to get too obsessive! Looking forward to Easter and the recent sunshine has helped Grin

SpringFlowers · 02/04/2012 20:19

Welcome Coveredinflour, sorry I posted the list without you, I've added you now.

Roxy31 TTC #1, cycle 9, AF due 6 April
QTPie (38) TTC #2, cycle 2, AF due around 6th April
YaYa OC TTC #1, cycle 2 AF due around 7th of April
Wiggy29 (30) TTC #2, cycle 1, AF due 9th April
Combatqueen (30) TTC #1, cycle 4, AF due around 9th April
Cejay8 TTC #?, cycle ?, AF due 10 April
LimeleafLizard (36) TTC #4, cycle 4 AF due 10 April
Eleanora (33) TTC #2, cycle 1, AF due 10th April
Olivetti TTC #2, cycle 1, AF due 10th April
EmpireBiscuit TTC #1, cycle 1, AF due 11 April
FrenchLimeBlossom (35) TTC #2, cycle 3, AF due 18 April
Crazytictac (31) TTC #2, cycle 6, AF due possibly from 17 - 24 April
Coveredinflour (28) ttc #1 cycle 3 AF due around the 18-22 April
Asianbabe (35) Cycle 11, TTC #3 AF due 20th April
MrsTwinks TTC#1 Cycle 3 AF due May 1st
Happilymarried cycle 12
Pandawatch TTC #1, cycle 4
Treats (35) TTC #3, cycle 3
Pipbin (36) TTC#1, cycle 10
Pinkie29 (30) TTC #1, cycle 3
Debeez TTC #2, cycle 3
StrawberrytallCAKE
SpringFlowers (39) TTC #4, cycle 1 AF due 14 April
knickyknocks (40) TTC#2
Rudawakening

Wiggy29 · 02/04/2012 20:31

My first symptom last time was drinking a few sips of a gin&tonic& feeling awful straight away.after that,it was really strong cramp. As we weren't ttc, I took this to be a bad month for period cramp&was oblivious!

Rudawakening · 02/04/2012 20:36

I've added myself to the list but am not holding out much hope, stupid bloody illness and work!

Fingers crossed for all those testing next week, we may have an Easter BFP bonanza Grin

Roxy31 TTC #1, cycle 9, AF due 6 April
QTPie (38) TTC #2, cycle 2, AF due around 6th April
YaYa OC TTC #1, cycle 2 AF due around 7th of April
Wiggy29 (30) TTC #2, cycle 1, AF due 9th April
Combatqueen (30) TTC #1, cycle 4, AF due around 9th April
Cejay8 TTC #?, cycle ?, AF due 10 April
LimeleafLizard (36) TTC #4, cycle 4 AF due 10 April
Eleanora (33) TTC #2, cycle 1, AF due 10th April
Olivetti TTC #2, cycle 1, AF due 10th April
EmpireBiscuit TTC #1, cycle 1, AF due 11 April
Rudawakening (27) TTC#1 cycle 3 AF due 14/15 April
FrenchLimeBlossom (35) TTC #2, cycle 3, AF due 18 April
Crazytictac (31) TTC #2, cycle 6, AF due possibly from 17 - 24 April
Coveredinflour (28) ttc #1 cycle 3 AF due around the 18-22 April
Asianbabe (35) Cycle 11, TTC #3 AF due 20th April
MrsTwinks TTC#1 Cycle 3 AF due May 1st
Happilymarried cycle 12
Pandawatch TTC #1, cycle 4
Treats (35) TTC #3, cycle 3
Pipbin (36) TTC#1, cycle 10
Pinkie29 (30) TTC #1, cycle 3
Debeez TTC #2, cycle 3
StrawberrytallCAKE
SpringFlowers (39) TTC #4, cycle 1 AF due 14 April
knickyknocks (40) TTC#2

LimeLeafLizard · 02/04/2012 23:03

Hey the list is getting longer all the time... good luck to everyone!
Hello Coveredinflour, nice to have you with us.

Spring I feel the same, this will be our last baby too, and it is strange to be ttc again and knowing it is the last time. I have 3 boys, littlest is 21 months, so not dissimilar to your smallest. I wonder how long it will take now DH & I are older. In the past have had lucky quick conceptions and frustrating months of trying, so not sure how it will pan out this time.

My heart goes out to the first timers who are taking a while to conceive, I know it is so disheartening at times, and yet you have to keep going and stay positive because it could always be the very next month. And remember, it might happen first cycle when you're trying for #2! (If you go for #2 of course).

roxy31 · 02/04/2012 23:11

I'll be testing later this week. Not as many symptoms As last month. Currently I have what looks to be a third level of temps (which is a first and hopefully a big +) nausea in the mornings, backache, a big thirst and a slightly drippy nose.

No sign of usual af cramps or twinges yet so we will see what happens!

Today i told my very close friend to test as she thought she was a couple of days late. Turns out she is pg and due early december. It was only her second month ttc#1 so she is going to rub her ancient fertility god stone for me!

Who else is testing this week? Might wait til good Friday if af doesn't appear before.......

roxy31 · 02/04/2012 23:13

Thanks Lime yes feeling bit disheartened today :(

Flightty · 03/04/2012 08:04

Hellooooo Smile back on today after enormously bad toothache yesterday, I nearly died of Not Being On Mumsnet amongst other things.

Brew anyone? Roxy, sorry you're feeling down.

Yesterday I had I think what was a fallback rise (unless you can implant at 4dpo, ha) and today we are well back up there. Lime I think we're due the same day, ish. Weirdy cycles lately so could be anything from 8th to 13th really. I am not testing. I'm too blooming scared of getting a bfp.

We thought the moment had passed as FF said I'd o'd on day 8 Hmm but actually it was day 14/15 so we were kind of wrong about that Blush but we both really want to have a baby, so that's ok. Just the pregnancy thing making me scared, I am not great with pregnancy!

Anyway, is anyone testing today? Come on, come on, we're waiting Smile

Wiggy29 · 03/04/2012 09:06

Me and DP had a chat and we're going to test Friday so if we're not (which, I don't know why but I just don't feel we are) I can have vino over Easter weekend, relax and enjoy my time in the Lakes without it being overshadowed by 'what if'???

That said, I'll be in the darkest depths of the Lakes so I won't be able to let you know until I get reception; if it is a positive, I'll drive to the nearest town so I can post&let you all know!

Crazytictac · 03/04/2012 09:07

< comes in and offers remaining jar of quality streets to go with Brew > to all sitting on the sleigh. Looks a bit forlorn!

Must admit same applies to me, feeling very meh. On day 16 today and no sign of ovulation. CBFM has given me highs since day 8 but no peak and if I'm honest my heart not really in it at the moment. Not sure if should wait for a while as a unrelated possible health issue has appeared :(. GP doesn't think anything serious but referring me anyway and DH thinks we should just crack on. Why can't things be simple eh?

Hope the fertility reindeers are going to work their magic for you ladies otherwise NO carrots Grin

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Flightty · 03/04/2012 09:11

Wiggy, it's appreciated Grin I hope you get to enjoy yourselves without worrying.

Crazy....sorry you're not feeling great. I hope it turns out to be nothing bad and you can manage not to let it get to you too much while you wait.

Something always seems to come up, doesn't it? I was relieved not to be pregnant last month, (though we only did it about 6 days before ov, it turned out - weren't really trying) as I think the current dental situation would have been horrific coupled with morning sickness...you never quite know what life will chuck at you.

Thankyou for the sweeties Smile

Treats · 03/04/2012 15:09

Day 14 today. Have had a bit of EWCM over the last few days but nothing today. DTD on Friday and Sunday, and planning to again today. Keeping my fingers crossed for a temp rise in the next couple of days as it will suggest that my cycles are back to normal. Drove myself crazy last month as there was no sign at all that I'd ov'd and I kept getting EWCM.

Thanks for the Quality Street crazy Wink

Good luck to all those testing this week.

Flightty · 03/04/2012 16:38

Good luck Treats. i had a strange one last month as well, only started temping I think it was the day of Ov so I had no idea what was going on. And no cm at all, all month, which is frankly bizarre as I normally know just by that iyswim.

I hope you get your temp shift.

SpringFlowers · 03/04/2012 20:58

Evening Everyone Smile

Cejay I don't blame you for not testing early, it's a waste of money and makes you feel awful to get BFN. You never know if it's actually a negative or if it was just too soon to test either so it doesn't actually give you an 'answer'. It sounds like you did all the right things so it's just a waiting game now.

LimeLeafLizard How old are your children now? Are you worried about coping with four? Like you I'm wondering how long it will take to conceive. I'm quite impatient!

I was also thinking about the first timers...back in the day when I was pregnant with DD1 the internet was not what it is today. I read a million books and magazines that basically all said the same thing because there was nowhere else to get any information really. I only met other pregnant ladies who were due at the same time as me when I started ante-natal classes at 32 weeks. It is so exciting having your first baby, I'm quite envious really. It's a massive learning curve but it's just so amazing.

Roxy Good luck with your test - fx you will be joining your friend having a December baby!

Flighty Why aren't you good with pregnancy? Your stats aren't on the list (and I can't read back while posting) are you a tentative ttcer? It'll be ok, I'm sure and will happen at the right time for you.

Wiggy Good luck testing on Friday, you'll either be able to celebrate or have a lovely glass of wine in the lakes.

Crazy I hope your medical thing turns out to be nothing. When I conceived last time I had a 28 day cycle but ovulated on day 16. I never did temp very well and just dtd when I had ewcm. It seemed to work out. I like the idea of a fertility reindeer...

Treats Good luck, it sounds like you are having an unusual cycle.

LimeLeafLizard · 03/04/2012 22:32

Lots of posts to catch up on!

Spring, my DC are 7, 3 and 21 months. I'm not particularly worried about coping with 4 - it is pretty full on already! I've already done newborn + toddler + school run, and I anticipate more of the same Grin (DC2 starts school in Sept). Like Flightty I am more worried about about pregnancy as I had antenatal depression during all my pgs. It clears up the instant I give birth and having a DC for life is well worth it, but it is a tough thing to deal with in the short term.

Flightty let us know when you want to go on the stats! Wink

Treats · 04/04/2012 12:32

Hi Springflowers - I think I did eventually, but it was much later than I thought. I've been tracking my temps on fertility friend and it detected a temp rise on Day 20.

No sign of a temp rise yet, though and it's day 15 - which means that I'm oving late again :(

Eleanora · 04/04/2012 13:45

Hi everyone,

I'm so embarrassed - I've had sore nipples for days so I cracked yesterday and POAS - BFN. But maybe not surprising as was 7 days before AF due and afterwards I read the pack which said it could detect pregnancy hormones from 4 days before! What a waste of money...