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Anyone hoping for a really positive feb 2006?

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wannaBe1974 · 25/01/2006 13:53

ok, as the january thread reached 1800 posts exactly, well it did at last count, I think it's time we started the February thread. Now February has lots going for it, valentines, extra reasons for BD, it only has 28 days, the average length of a menstral cycle, .. so me thinks feb will be a very positive month for all of us!

Happy BD to all! (((hugs))) xxx

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wuzzlefraggle · 01/02/2006 11:09

lol, yeah, men for you.

dont sound qite right what your docs asking you to do natalie. very unsafe IMO

mumswish · 01/02/2006 11:12

yeh thats what I thought, if he ends up eating something he's really badly allergic to, he could be seriously ill. Ring your hospital explain what your doc has said but that you feel very wary that hes constantly ill and want a second opinion.

NatalieJane · 01/02/2006 11:13

Well this doctor has a DS about the same age as our DS, who just happens to be alergic to some colourants, so the doctor is thinking that my DS is the same. I have demanded that they test his blood before now and he just says he want's us to do the food diary first.

wuzzlefraggle · 01/02/2006 11:14

i agree with mumswish...the advice your doc has given you doesnt really add up, get a second oppinion.

NatalieJane · 01/02/2006 11:18

I can't win with the hospital, I ring them and they say that he needs to be refered by his doctor.

I think they think it is all related to the gastroentritus (sp?) that my DS had last March, he had it quite badly and was in and out of hospital for a while, so the hospital aren't even convinced it is an allergy as such, but more to do with the gastro problems. I know it sounds silly because there is obviously something upsetting his belly, but because he is absolutely fine other than when he is actually being sick, I am not worried, I know that sounds awful but if the doctor and the hospital aren't that bothered about it, it can't be a serious thing IYSWIM?

wuzzlefraggle · 01/02/2006 11:22

as long as you are ok with what they are saying natalie. i think what me and mumswish were saying was dont let them try and brush you aside or anything (as your docs oppinion seems quite lax), unfortunatly,some docs have a tendancy to brush people to one side (well IME). if your happy with what hes saying then good

mumswish · 01/02/2006 11:22

I know what you mean but i'd still get a 2nd opinion, What about talking to a doc other than the one you normally see?

I dont have a normal doc which is quite upsetting but at time i'm happy for it cos if 2 people say something is fine then it must be.

Its entirely upto you obviously and I hope whatever the outcome he's ok

NatalieJane · 01/02/2006 11:26

We have just sort of gotten used to it, if that makes any sence?

mumswish · 01/02/2006 11:29

I know what you mean and as long as you're happy then everything is good.

wuzzlefraggle · 01/02/2006 11:29

well i hope that your son gets better anyway. hopefully it can be sorted out hassle free

NatalieJane · 01/02/2006 11:34

Thanks

wuzzlefraggle · 01/02/2006 11:35

no problem
so hows every1's bding going? whats your cd??

NatalieJane · 01/02/2006 11:40

BDing is great!!! Whats CD?

wuzzlefraggle · 01/02/2006 11:41

cd is cycle date. im cd 17 so bding has been high on my list of things to do

wuzzlefraggle · 01/02/2006 11:42

sorry, i mean cycle day

NatalieJane · 01/02/2006 11:43

OIC! Well in that case day 12, but obviously haven't got a clue as to when I will be ovulating as only just come off the pill, so we have BDing the whole time!! LOL

wuzzlefraggle · 01/02/2006 11:45

LOL thast the way, when in doubt and all that
this is your first month of ttc is it?

mumswish · 01/02/2006 11:51

I'm CD 13 i think, no bding since sat tho, gotta be careful, which is sooo unfair,

I had a bath last night and got out and wanted to go play but couldnt, DAMN!! lol

NatalieJane · 01/02/2006 11:51

Yep, don't know if I should be glad we are finally TTC again, or annoyed knowing that it will be a while before it pays off!

NatalieJane · 01/02/2006 11:52

Yep, don't know if I should be glad we are finally TTC again, or annoyed knowing that it will be a while before it pays off!

wuzzlefraggle · 01/02/2006 11:54

lol, ttc can be a total pain in the ass cant it? lol. sorry, my computer went a bit nuts then. mumsnet is being erally slow..dunno why.
still being carefull are u mumswish?

NatalieJane · 01/02/2006 11:55

Sorry computer went nuts!!

Maybe TMI, but I wonder if how much the woman enjoys the BDing makes any difference? Obviously I know she doesn't have to enjoy it all, but if she really enjoys it does it make it more likely or anything?

mumswish · 01/02/2006 11:56

yeh I found it was really slow for a while then,

we are being careful but mainly because of all the probs, if we were just waiting for him to get out, we'd be at it, but cos we may have to pull out eventually we're being careful

wuzzlefraggle · 01/02/2006 11:58

yeah if she "really enjoys" it (lol natalie, loved the phrasing lol) i think that the sperm kinda gets sucked up to the wanted destination, like a hoover for want of a better way to say it lol. so yes, i think that it does help a little, give the little swimmers a boost

mumswish · 01/02/2006 11:58

well i've heard (dont quote me)

if you have an orgasm after him then it makes the place more slidy and more likely. I may be wrong tho

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