any mums nearing 45 thinking of prgncy again?

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i have 2 dc and would really like another- I had the 2 late, and one over 40 anyway, didn't meet dh til late. Are there any mums out there who have a baby or had one this late? how did you feel and would you do it again? I have had 2 cs already and would need another (massive babies...)

Thought I should update that I had a scan today, and although slightly behind the dates I think I am, there was a heartbeat and I was measured at 5+5. An absolute marathon ahead of course, but for today I am pregnant.

Thanks all for your lovely wishes. It means a lot.

Good luck to you all.

that's awesome Jollster...congratulations.

Lexie, the one thing I actually meant to say was good luck, i have also heard that triphasic can mean pregnancy...fingers crossed.

jollster, that's great. take care now... good luck and fingers crossed for you.

I just did the ovulation calender thing and realised if I am going to do this, then next month we need to get very busy on the right days/ nights. Its not a big wndow is it? Although we will keep at it anyway I am sure, just in case:)

having had a dh and him leaving us, i just don't feel my need should outweigh bringing a life into the world without a mum and a dad scenario. if that makes any sense.! Just not for me.

I'll admit i joined a co parenting/sperm donation site, but when messaged i knew it wasn't for me. I have a dd tho, so am lucky there.