[big grin] carebear what about we would love to have a baby but i prefer to take it up the arse which makes it hard to conceive, what position do you like best?
(berries wonders if she went too far and hopes someone shares her sense of humour??)
Thanks for starting this thread wifey. I have been wondering the same thing actually. Only been TTC 5 months (though of course it feels like forever) but as we have a DS (20months) people are ALWAYS asking when we'll be having another. My 4 best mum friends (who we hang out with at least twice a week) are all pg with number 2 and don't ask me about our plans but often talk about their pregnancies. Obviously this is fine and i would hate them to feel they couldn't but it is literally the only thing they talk about and sometimes i wish there was something else....
I have told my mum and 3 close childless (because they aren't ready - or so they say!!) friends and TBH it has been really nice to have people to talk to. They are really understanding and just get it right in what and when they say stuff. Guess that's the wonderful thing about best friends :) Plus they are great drinking buddies every month when AF arrives!
I had wondered whether to tell my mum friends but after reading this thread i don't think i will.
Interesting to hear all the views. and LOVED the facebook comments.
sparkle it's ok to feel pangs of envy when others announce their pgnancies on MN. Doesn't mean you're not delighted for them. I find it hard to swallow when people who haven't been on TTC threads suddenly appear from nowhere with a pst along the lines of "hi, just found out i am pg, 3 weeks gone!!". Of course i am happy for them but i feel a bit cheated that they haven't contributed apart from to share the news we all wish we had. God does that make me awful... probably. But i guess you can't help how you feel!!