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anyone trying for a big fat positive in January 06?

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IsawPussycatmommakissingsanta · 09/12/2005 10:36

Right then girlies..........I know i cant be the only one! If you cant wait to get Christmas out of the way so you can start ttc in January, sign up here! all our ttc threads seem to have gone v. quiet lately, im drummng up business for the luckiest, most hopeful, positive thread for 2006 babydust essential if you can do it! Come on, get your names down, January is a long dark month you know!

OP posts:
peachygirl · 22/01/2006 17:32

have done lots of work, very pleased with myself. have al ittle more so might log on later but going to tidy house now.
Good luck to morrow trace hope it all goes well

pussycatmomma · 22/01/2006 17:55

hi is anyone around?
sorry about that.....i have just had the shock of my life!
my best friend has just called in with her dh, thought something was wrong as they never "just pop over", we're standing in the kitchen, im making coffe, ive something to tell you she says , "im pregnant"!
i kind of new they were thinking about it and she stopped using her contraceptive injection around october and now shes pg! 10 wks pg to be exact!!!
i feel so happy for her but also, selfishly for myself. its a strange one isnt it, feeling everything all at the same time. We have known each other since we were 5. we are nearly 31 now.
i think she was almost worried about telling me, and that is awful for her, i AM delighted and thrilled and really pleased. I also hope with every wish in my heart that my sister is lucky this time, she will find out a week on wednesday whether she is prg or not after this round of treatment. (((((pusscat whispers quietly, it just feels a little lonely for me right now. Two of the people i love the most have within their grasp the thing i want the very most......)))))))

pussycatmomma · 22/01/2006 18:06

hi please anyone around? i could do with someone to just "be" with

Coriander73 · 22/01/2006 18:09

Hey pussycat...your feelings are so so normal...don't worry

It will be your turn very soon...& who knows it could be this month!!!!! Stay positive darlin'

going4potty · 22/01/2006 18:13

Hi all dont know if you remember me but i posted a couple of weeks back, now officially ttc so if its ok with you ladies, im gonna lurk a bit

peachygirl · 22/01/2006 19:42

pussycat, it's ok to feel like this, don't feel bad

peachygirl · 22/01/2006 19:42

ooops sorry going4potty you are very welcome

trace2 · 22/01/2006 20:14

owww pussycat, (((hugs ))) and more (((hug))) to you, i wish i could help you,

going4potty you came on this thread when we started it didnt you?? anyway good luck,

babydust to all

going4potty · 22/01/2006 20:30

Yes i think so trace, but i wasnt really ttc so felt i shouldnt really post, but were going for it now.

trace2 · 22/01/2006 20:32

great glad to have you on bored, what day you on??

going4potty · 22/01/2006 20:46

Day 12, but this is my first af after my ectopic in dec. So poor dh is exhuasted as were bding every poss opportunity

trace2 · 22/01/2006 20:51

lol, how many days do you go??

sorry for asking so many questions

going4potty · 22/01/2006 21:23

Thats ok, normally 28 days so would assume im ovulating around the 25th but seeing as my last proper pre pregnancy af was in oct, then bled from ectopic, followed by bleed from op as well as weird spoting that i cant account for my average cycle length according to "mymonthlycycles.com" is about 35 days. So im busy for the next few weeks

peachygirl · 22/01/2006 21:25

can I come back DH watching sci fi ( iquite like it but have had enough) might go to bed soon

going4potty · 22/01/2006 21:26

Well trace logging of for tonite, have a good one.

wannaBe1974 · 22/01/2006 21:49

hiya all

oh pussycat (((hugs)))). I so understand how you feel. the 2nd month I started trying for my DS my DH's best friend called to say that his wife was pregnant. was happy for her but had the same feeling - wanted so much for it to be me. But now I hold on to this thought when I get down about not getting pg ...

It took me 13 months to conceive my DS who is 3.2 now. And he is the loveliest, most loveable little boy in the world and I love him more than life itself. And the moment I held him I knew that the reason I didn't conceive before then was because he was the baby I was meant to have, if I'd conceived before then, then it wouldn't have been that baby, not that particular lovely DS of mine. I know that sounds soppy and my mother frequently tells me I'm stupid for having that view, but it's something I frequently try to hold on to now that I'm trying for another.

The baby you are meant to have is in there, but he/she is just not ready to be made yet, and when he/she is ready, then it'll work out alright, and the moment you feel that baby kick for the first time, then you'll know that that is the baby you're meant to have.

keep smiling

(((hugs))))) xxx

peachygirl · 22/01/2006 21:52

Wannabe that is so lovely

wannaBe1974 · 22/01/2006 22:06

thanks peachy how was your weekend?

pussycatmomma · 22/01/2006 22:12

gosh wannabe......youve made me cry now. i feel really silly and quite selfish and guilty too. I really hope i get to experience the feelings you describe one day in the not too distant future, i really do ....
somehow it makes it so much more real doesnt it? when its someone whos so very close to you i mean.
its like everyone on here, like coriander and all the girls who got a bfp already this month, i dont know, just feels like "a score for us" iykwim. a little triumph for all us tryers out there.
she even said when she was going bless her, " are you alright, i wanted it to be you first, i did want you to have it first" ......
but you are right what is meant to be is meant to be.
i was alright when she was here, its kind of hit me after. i just feel a bit upset thats all.

peachygirl · 22/01/2006 22:13

pretty good, how about you?

wannaBe1974 · 22/01/2006 22:16

Aw pussycat I didn't want to make you cry honey ((hugs)). It will happen for you, you have to believe that, and have to hold on to that. We are happy for all the lucky ones of this month, and will be happy for all the ones of the months to come if we're not among them, because they will hold their babies before us, but once they've held their baby for the first time, we still have that to look forward to, to hold our babies for the first time .. god I'm getting a bit too deep and meaningful tonight aren't I? maybe I should shut up now lol

pussycatmomma · 22/01/2006 22:22

it feels like the most important thing in the world though doesnt it, because you want it and its not happening so therefore you cant just have it.............maybe on top of everything else it has something to do with control, being able to control what is happening to yourself? i dunno.
Its going to be a rollercoaster i can tell you, if my sis is lucky too.....the things id normally talk to bfriend about, i cant, so id talk to my sis, but obv i wont be able to and vice versa....id sometimes talk to my sis about concerns with friend, and now i can talk to neither cause they are both going through something so magnificent themselves!

wannaBe1974 · 22/01/2006 22:22

Well i really should go and get my beauty sleep now, plastic surgeons being in short supply and all ... good night to all, and hope you feel better soon PCM

wannaBe1974 · 22/01/2006 22:23

just remember though that your sister has gone through exactly the same as you to get to where she is now

wannaBe1974 · 22/01/2006 22:24

so you may not have to talk to her as such, she probably already knows

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