anyone trying for a big fat positive in January 06?

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Right then girlies..........I know i cant be the only one! If you cant wait to get Christmas out of the way so you can start ttc in January, sign up here! all our ttc threads seem to have gone v. quiet lately, im drummng up business for the luckiest, most hopeful, positive thread for 2006 babydust essential if you can do it! Come on, get your names down, January is a long dark month you know!

no no! d F is fine if thats what he is but i just didnt know!
sorry, duh, i must have my thick head on never thought of fiance!
sorry about that . whats your ring like? when are you getting married? is it all planned?
me and dh married aug 04, so we are 18mth old newlyweds
thanks both of you for being so kind.xxx

where you gone pussycat get back here and chat to me and mumswish

btw now im giggling thinking of trace thinking we all call our husbands darling f#ckers!!!

mumswish(wispers) pussycat has worn him out already

oy stop leaving me you too

Hiya again all.

PCM so sorry you're feeling so down, don't let work get to you - remember it's only a job and not worth the stress.

Know what you mean about sex losing its appeal when it's about ttc, when I was ttc for DS I used to try and imagine that little baby being formed inside my body, and somehow the thought of BD and making a baby in that way made it all the more special for me. I did read somewhere though that when you're TTC you should "make love" not "have sex" as it's making love that is the key, and if you're having sex just to conceive it can make ttc much harder as it becomes very stressful and stress can affect sperm and ovulation.

sorry am I rambling now?

keep smiling PCM, am always here if you need to talk - maybe not always on the site but you can have my email address if need

wow you too newbies are great, its like you belong on this thread

Another quickie , the RE centre is round the corner from home, so far no Bding. I suggested it last nigh but Dhwas not keen!
Have a good evening. I might pop on when I get back but it might be very late. I seem to be misssing you all at the moment

hi peachy this thread is addictive anit it

Sorry had to do some work quickly! I'm back again now tho.

Engagement ring is a purple stone (amethyst, DP's birthstone) with diamonds around it. We havent made any plans yet because my best mate is getting married in sept and we dont want to upstage her. thinking early next year (with new baby as bridesmaid/pageboy, hopefully)

owww that would be lovery, the ring sounds nice too

maybe youll be going with a bump??

hiya peachy, have a good evening even if it is work related.
trace, not leaving you intentionally, are you on later? i have to pick dh up and then cook. just had to reply to some emails and stuff.
wannabe, thankyou, that is really kind of you, i am sometimes not very good at keeping in touch and telling people what is going on and how i feel.....mental health is a complicated thing isnt it. but i do find this site very helpful, not just the site, but the people on this thread (my thread bunnies) i think the instant nature of the conversations sometimes works well for me, i just type as i think and it allows a kind of sounding board for my feelings.
trace, might spk later, im off to pick up darling f#cker!!!!!

lol ok pussycat will do

btw, ring sounds gorgeous.
mine is a diamond

oh ladides i read this so going to share wiyth you all a nutritionist say cut ot wheat and dairy and get a herbal remedy agnus castus along with iron and prenatal supplements ,so am going into town on sat to herbal shop

thanks ladies,

If DP gets his way there will be twins (bridesmaid & pageboy) and mums walking down the aisle with a bump. If I get my way i'll just have the twins!

yeh mental health is a very complicated things to have to deal with. I do think that writing about it often helps more than talking about it, don't know why, think it's maybe because you can think about what you're going to write before you write it, whereas if you have to say what you're feeling then it's that much harder - you can't backtrack and unsay something because it didn't sound right. Either way I'm always around - my msn address is [email protected] feel free to add me anyone who has messenger

Ring does sound lovely has to be said - mine is a diamond as well

Hi Pussycat...I've been thinking a lot about you re work & the stress etc etc. I've been reading all the comments & I've delibrately not said anything. This is becuase I've lived with "mental health issues" all my life. Mum had severe PND after me which led into schizophrenia which led to me beign fostered at 11, which led to her being really bad health wise, losing control etc etc. My Sister has also tried to CS & lives a crazy life one that I just cannot understand. Anyhow, what I suppose I'm saying is that this topic is a little too close to home for me so I've prefered not to comment. I do hope you understand. I thought it was best to say something because maybe it's been a bit obvious that I've not said owt. Anyhow, yes, the sex doesn't become a bit like a chore when you need it for a sole purpose!!! But keep on with it & do it every other day.... It is going to happen but try not to get too stressed!! xx

hi corrie well done for telling pussycat that, also how you feeling been following you sept thread, you sound like your geeting sick

Hi Cory, I hope you dont mind me saying (seeing as you hardly know me) but I think you're very brave saying that. I know I couldnt, if something came too close to home for me Id just keep my mouth shut and divert my eyes. so well done. (hope that doesnt sounds patronising)

Sex as a chore is a new one to me I'm afraid, havent got to that point yet, hope I never do.

will chat later going to pick dh up now

ok bye trace, I'll speak to you tomorrow cos i'll be going home in about 10 mins.

ok ladies, I am going home now, I hope you all have lovely evenings and I shall speak to you all tomorrow. I'm going home for a curry

HUGS & KISSES TO ALL

Yes, it was very hard to say something because it's not something I readily share with anyone. However, been worrying that pussycat would have thought it odd that I've not commented given that we've been on this thread since the beginning....

Trace, feel worse but trying not to think about it...mind over matter & all that! Very very queasy & have to eat little & often to keep it at bay...oh & suck on polo mints!! Are you guys going to change it to Feb if no more BFPs in Jan? Am sure Northerner is you know!!!!!