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Should I test tomorrow????

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goingmadtrying · 22/06/2011 23:17

Cd26 tomorrow test I have says test from 4 days early just don't want to see another bfn!!!
Desperately trying not to symptom spot but.....
High wet cervix!
Feeling sick
and swear I have heightened sense of smell, really strong air freshners!! I had this last time couldn't have them in the house,
arrrgghhh don't want to be let down again:(

what should I do, test or wait????

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Purplebuns · 27/06/2011 20:00

Good self control there, I am going to be stalking this thread waiting to find out now :o

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goingmadtrying · 28/06/2011 07:01

Morning ladies no af again this morning and no sign of it :)

cd31 today and hubby and I dtd last night so thought if it was going to start that would do the job, boobs feeling heavy today, will pick up a test later please please let it be a bfp and not my body messing around x

fx for all you ladies too let's hope this is our month xx

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Purplebuns · 28/06/2011 08:29

Great news, make sure you use first morning wee, as this has the most concentrated hormone if you test in the afternoon and get a neg it could quite possibly be that it is due to 'weak' urine. Best of luck :)

lyndabob · 28/06/2011 12:27

Hi I totally know what your going through, we are trying for number three and my period is due around Saturday but I couldn't wait and took the clear blue digital test this morning and it came up negative, I am gutted :( I really thought I was, I haven't been feeling sick or anything but my skin has gotten really bad and I just thought maybe I was :( Shall keep trying though but still can't help but feel upset :)

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goingmadtrying · 28/06/2011 13:30

lynda clearblue aren't that sensitive so your still very early to test fx you get a bfp soon :)

still not got a test but will today want to know now I'm officially 3 days late :)

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goingmadtrying · 28/06/2011 17:11

Well done clearblue digital with pm urine and bfn.... Absolutely gutted now feel so deflated and upset :(

I've got no chance have I?

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goingmadtrying · 28/06/2011 19:10

Could just cry feeling so sorry for myself maybe this just wasn't to be, I should be happy with the children I have :(

sorry for the self pity dh doesn't understand

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Purplebuns · 28/06/2011 21:53

No af, and you used a clearblue with pm urine... there are two bad things there and one positive!
Save your first wee in the morning and get a first response if you can as they are so much better. I know how you feel though, mucho sympathy :)

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goingmadtrying · 28/06/2011 22:23

Thanks purple I nearly picked up some fr in boots today as they bogof, will see what tomorrow brings :)

thank you for the post, how are you doing?

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goingmadtrying · 29/06/2011 07:10

Morning have done my other cbd and another bfn with fmu so reckon I'm defo not pregnant just got to wait for my af to start now :(

I'm going to take a few months out and delete all my ttc stuff on my phone

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openerofjars · 29/06/2011 11:31

Sad for you. Good idea re taking the stuff off your phone: my cycles get really weird when I track them obsessively, late periods etc. I think it's the stress of TTC! I've spoken to a doc about it and he said that tracking actually doesn't help conception for most people.

mrsshears · 29/06/2011 17:04

really sorry going Sad

I know how you feel as AF got me today 4 days early!
like you i'm thinking of taking a few months off,its all getting a bit too stressful Sad

Purplebuns · 29/06/2011 18:16

So sorry to hear that :(

It definitely gets you down, I don't allow myself to get excited at all, as I have had my hopes shattered too many times.

Cd 24 for me today, however I am not even vaguely optimistic and I am looking forward to next cycle as I have my shiny new toy CBFM that I have had to wait to use.

Best of luck for next month, we had a month 'off' this cycle and it has been great doing what we want, whenever!

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goingmadtrying · 30/06/2011 09:31

Thank you so much ladies cd33 and still no sign of af, just going to wait it out now and not waste anymore on tests :)

sorry to hear af came early mrss fingers crossed next month is your lucky one x

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Purplebuns · 30/06/2011 21:39

I think if you go over 40 days your supposed to see a doctor to have some medicine to 'bring you on' however I would ask for a blood pregnancy test. Sorry your still hanging around waiting, it sucks big time!

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goingmadtrying · 30/06/2011 22:09

Thanks purple I spoke to dr today she wasn't concerned and said to test in a week and only worry if I don't come on next month, can miss a period apparently a blip!! Also she said not to take any notice of my cervix position, although it still really high and no sign of af!!
How you doing?

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goingmadtrying · 01/07/2011 06:43

Cd34 and still no af!!!

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Purplebuns · 01/07/2011 18:04

You may have ovulated late.. So you never know :)
CD 26 so may come on tomorrow, I hope to know one way or another tomorrow as I am going out for a meal and want Wine Wine!

Purplebuns · 04/07/2011 19:32

Any luck Goingmad? :)

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goingmadtrying · 04/07/2011 20:04

Af came today finally at cd37!!!!last months cycle was 27 so 10 days difference, I have decided that we are not going to actively ttc and carry on with life, I know 7 cycles is not a lot but with 2 other children it gets hard to keep focusing on everything :(

how are you doing purple did you test??

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Purplebuns · 04/07/2011 20:37

Ermm yes I did... You could have knocked me downm with a feather... positive!!
I then cried because I couldn't cope with another mc Hmm however I am trying to man up a bit now and be brave! :)

Purplebuns · 04/07/2011 20:39

10 days late is really something btw and not trying was what we did this month! However, I did spend £80 on CBFM that (hopefully) I can't use! I was goading murphy all over the shop this month and it worked!

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goingmadtrying · 04/07/2011 23:56

That's fantastic news for you :) congratulations and ill keepmy fx for you x

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Purplebuns · 07/07/2011 22:39

Thank you, I hope you have a smoother ride when you ttc again :)

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