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Should I test tomorrow????

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goingmadtrying · 22/06/2011 23:17

Cd26 tomorrow test I have says test from 4 days early just don't want to see another bfn!!!
Desperately trying not to symptom spot but.....
High wet cervix!
Feeling sick
and swear I have heightened sense of smell, really strong air freshners!! I had this last time couldn't have them in the house,
arrrgghhh don't want to be let down again:(

what should I do, test or wait????

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openerofjars · 23/06/2011 05:07

Wait! You know you're just going to disbelieve an early test or be gutted if it says negative at this stage, and if it's a false negative you'll have wasted a test.

You can do it!

havealittlefaithbaby · 23/06/2011 06:31

What's your normal cycle length? jars makes an excellent point...

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goingmadtrying · 23/06/2011 06:52

27-32 only had 1 cycle at 32 though!

I tested early when pregnant previously not getting out of bed till I decide lol

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mrsshears · 23/06/2011 06:56

hi going! (psstt it's me vegas)

really really hope you get that BFP! would wait a few days if i were you but then i know how hard it is and i confess i test early most months Blush

really hope it's our month x

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goingmadtrying · 23/06/2011 07:06

(shiftly looks from side to side)

whispers hi to mrss wondered where you had gone, I only have to wait till sunday right not that long:) how are you doing??

Thanks everyone have got out of bed and left the stick alone Grin

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mrsshears · 23/06/2011 07:24

well done!

I'm ok thanks,trying not to obsess which i'm sort of managing to do Confused,i'm on cd24 and my last 2 cycles have been 34 and 33 so i'm thinking i have a while yet.

i have everything crossed for you and will look out for you on sunday!

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goingmadtrying · 23/06/2011 07:46

Yeah me too I haven't obsessed at all through this month and actually don't feel that hopeful as haven't managed to dtd at the right times, other than my increased sense of smell!!! I have managed up until yesterday to ignore symptoms. Will keep my fx for you 2 we damn well deserve it know Grin

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openerofjars · 23/06/2011 09:06

Well done! It's like giving up smoking: all you have to do to.not test is not open the packet & POAS. Harder than it sounds, especially when you've got hopeful symptoms.

I hope you get the BFP you want.

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goingmadtrying · 24/06/2011 07:40

Sorry ladies couldn't resist and poss this morning, BFN :(

cd27 average is 29 so due on Sunday, the test I had was a cheapy from chemist reads 25ml do you think I still have a chance?

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mrsshears · 24/06/2011 08:18

hey going

yes certainly still a chance,when i got my bfp in jan it wasnt until about a week after af due(of course it ended in mc but thats beside the point) and had used loads of fr tests prior to this which are supposed to be up to six days early!

fingers crossed for you!

openerofjars · 24/06/2011 10:51

Bummer. Hope it's just too early to tell. I know it's hard, but can you hang on until you are due on? Easy to say, I know: it's more do as I say, not as I do...

Blush
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goingmadtrying · 25/06/2011 08:19

Morning open and mrss I haven't tested today as have no tests in the house, will try and resist the urge to buy some today whilst shopping Grin
I have gone past wasting stupid amounts of cash on them, no af as yet cd28 definately feel she will come as cervix appears to be lower, we shall see not hopeful though :)

have a good weekend, enjoy lots of swi :)

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goingmadtrying · 26/06/2011 08:15

Morning all I'm currently cd29 arghhh only ever had 1 cycle longer tha
this at 32 days, most cycles 27,28,29 days :)

no signs of af but decided I'm not going to test will wait for it to arrive, trying desperately not to get my hopes up, but cervix high, lots of cm, no achy knees which I normall get on run up to af, also feeling warm in myself Confused

anyone else got any news???

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goingmadtrying · 26/06/2011 08:21

Ooooh and forgot sorry if tmi but normally when checking cervix get bloody discharge which shows af on way all clear :)

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mrsshears · 26/06/2011 09:19

morning going!
that all sounds very promising! well being the idiot i am i did an early test this morning,i reckon i'm about 10 dpo and i got a bfn.
I really dont know why i did this as my last bfp didnt show up until late and i really dont any faith in the early tests anyway!what a plonker!Grin

mrsshears · 27/06/2011 10:22

any news going?

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goingmadtrying · 27/06/2011 11:50

Morning mrss no news as yet, still no af and doesn't appear to be on it's way, a dull aching feeling in my tummy today and some back achey pain yesterday, don't want to test though as couldn't stand another bfn :(

how you doing??

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mrsshears · 27/06/2011 12:29

I'm not too bad thanks,not too hopeful of a bfp
very bloated today and started with cramps so i think i'm in for a visitor over the next couple of days,mind you its not over til the fat lady sings....

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goingmadtrying · 27/06/2011 19:18

Ok trying desperately not to get my hopes up but.................
Still no af
high cervix
and sorry if tmi but a bit of fluid came out my nipple today?????

Arggghhh what to do so don't want to see a bfn Confused

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Purplebuns · 27/06/2011 19:26

TEST! Fluid out of your nipple? You are sooo pregnant! :o

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goingmadtrying · 27/06/2011 19:31

Ooooh it was only 2 drops though!!! I daren't don't want to see a bfn and just think I'm trying to see things that aren't there

Soooo nervous

also felt weepy today, how gutted will I be with a bfn :(

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Purplebuns · 27/06/2011 19:35

What CD are you on?
Have you lactated before? AFAIK you must be either pregnant or have a horrible breast infection, for your boobs to be leaking if you haven't recently breastfed. Either way you need to take a test and go to your GP :)

MandaHugNKiss · 27/06/2011 19:39

Ah, with DS1 I started leaking (admitedly with a bit of a tweak - I kept checkin that my boobs still felt all... tingly and sore) about 10dpo which seems ridiculously early. I didn't get a bfp until 14dpo, but this was over 14 years ago when hpt's weren't as sensitive as they are now.

You I need you to test!

Purplebuns · 27/06/2011 19:40

I know how you feel WRT to another neg test :( but you must be on cd 31? Test with your FMU tomorrow if the old bitch doesn't turn up tonight :)

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goingmadtrying · 27/06/2011 19:55

Have to admit mine was with a bit of a tweak and have never had this before I'm cd30 today longest cycle since ttc was 32 so thinking I'll test on Wednesday, it's both my ds'. Birthday this week:)

I so so want a bfp :)
thanks for your replies x

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