The resurrection of the 6th form common room for those inbetweeners who are TTC/PG after mc and are too long in the tooth to fit anywhere else

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The resurrection of the 6th form common room, a place to put your feet up, wallow in self pity (me) or rejoice (and tremble in fright) at new growing beans and baybees after mc. No lists. No stats. No babydust. No feeling bad if you can't keep up.

Go.

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hey WellAndTrulyBuffied... nice to see you, to see you nice

How's everyone feeling today?

Had a really positive appt this morning at the recurrent MC clinic. The consultant was lovely.

Basically if I get pg again, I will get scans at 6/8/10/12 weeks, and immediately I will be under his care.

He reiterated what I'd already learned at the private clinic and was appropriately empathetic to my situation.

I didn't want or expect a "it'll all be ok" type chat, it was just really reassuring that I would get lots of handholding and support next time round.

Even with 43 looming next month, and after 3 MCs, with the all-clear results I have had, there is a 60% chance of another pg NOT ending in MC. (In fact he said slightly higher as I already have a child).

I'm realistic about the chances of having another child, and although I am/will try again, I'm doing it with a more balanced approach.

I feel in quite a good place acktshally.

Take care y'all x

Thinking of you for tomorrow's scan pv, got everything crossed for you.

Cross posted - that is great news jollster

My follow up appt is this month. All tests have also come back clear (although still waiting on karytoyping) - hope I get the same reassurance as you do. Over 60% is pretty good, I'd be happy with those odds myself.

digi I have it all crossed for you too. We have similar histories IIRC, except you're a absolute youngster in comparison to me I think? Here's hoping pg#5 is a happy one for us both x

Cheers Didge
I've been thinking, I've done all I can, demandedgot drucks, stayed relatively sane there's bugger all I can do about it now.
It's nothing I haven't dealt with before.
If all is well , then I'll be panicking.

Jolliebobs yeah for supportive docs, knowing you'll have the hand holding and support has been proven to work wonders.
I remember my Consultant saying re the trial the placebo effect has great results. IYKWIM.

Thanks PV. I'm 6+1. Tomorrow morning is my first scan. I don't know if I'll be able to look. The mc never got past 5+6 according to the hospital, although it took another 4 weeks for the minimal bleed to start. So I'll know tomorrow if this one has gone the same way.I keep on trying to convince myself that whatever happens at least I've proved that I can get pg again which I was severely doubting.

I hope yours goes well tomorrow. Do you have someone coming with?

Jollster it's very nice when they're supportive. Really makes a difference to the whole experience. Even makes you grin and bear the hour wait to book your next appt....

Just popping by to say hi as suffering from insomnia

That is great news Jolls really pleased to read your positive post x

Good luck tomoz Pretty & tigger x

Good to hear about your results digit

BB hows the cold stuff looking?

so tired......but can't switch off

Just popping by to say hi as suffering from insomnia

That is great news Jolls really pleased to read your positive post x

Good luck tomoz Pretty & tigger x

Good to hear about your results digit

BB hows the cold stuff looking?

so tired......but can't switch off

Morning all,

jollipops luverly news that your appointment was a success and the Consultant was kind. Just what you needed I think and about bloody time you had some positive news x

prettymrsg & tigger everything hugely tightly crossed for you both today. Let us know how you get on. Will be thinking of you lots x

As for the snow 8's well, it's ok but according to the forecast its not good! Mild weather and no new snow. Eeek! Oh well, more time for sitting about drinking hoc chocolate and rum! Hope you're not too tired chicken? X

Hoc chocolate?

Good luck Tiggs just try to close your eyes, think of a happy place, take deep breaths until they say everything is fine.

I did not crane my neck trying to look at the screen and I certainly didn't remonstrate the poor sonographer saying she really should speak more clearly when mumbling the words baby and heartbeat.

Is someone going with you?

All is well, grooving and boxing away!
Catch up at lunch xx

Hurrah! That's brill news pretty!

Good luck today tigger.

Glad to hear you're head is in a good place, jolls.

Wow - popped on to say good luck for scans - and mrs pv's had hers already! wonderful news pretty so chuffed for you! How many weeks are you now?

Best of luck to tigger too will be thinking of you, and I hope you don't have to wait too long.

jolls good news from your consultant - the odds are in your favour - fx for you

digi fab news on your results too!

Bbrook have friends who live where you're going so if you need any advice on getting to higher resorts etc then let me know. Will do a snow dance for you

magic have you tried night time rescue remedy spray? probably a load of tosh, but it sometimes works for me. will FB you as I have loads of it from work!

PV see FB msg, oh what the heck, WOOOHOOOOO

Tigger fx for you x

YRMOTB what's occurrin'. Nice to see you.

BB I would love some Hoc choc pls... x

and a big (but very gentle) squeeze for our fat pregnant buddies x

PS magic, so the heartburn is better but now you're repeating repeating...?

Hooray Hooray for MrsPnot-soV!

Jolls - good to see you a bit more positive ducks ditto digi

Anything from Pink or Tigger?

Waves to BB and everyone else!

Hooray pv so very very pleased for you!!! When do you stop taking the roids?

Wishing tigger lots of luck too.

I had some tell tale cramping overnight, so despite only being 10-12dpo I may have done a little test this morning. It was the very faintest of the faint positive. Shall wait and see what happens this weekend. Feel like a veteran of this sort of thing...

digi have just let out an involuntary whoop. Will now shut up and just grin. FX my sweets.

digi !!!!!!! Fingers crossed x

prettymrsbouncingbeanwomb whoop whoop!

Clare cheers chicken, I emailed the people running the place we're staying in last night and it was snowing then so FX France gets their dump this week.

tigger where for art thou? Hope all is ok x

buff, jollipops, viv, YRMOTB big squish to you all xxx

Just popping in to see how tigger and pv got on today (although tbh now I'm on cycle 7 after mc'ing a bfp that took almost three years to get I'm starting to think I must qualify for the common room now! )

pretty that's fantastic news!!!

Now where's tigger ?

Hello Izzy welcome to the madhouse (slightly less so than the other thread tho!)

I just popped back in to see if tigger had slipped in.....

digi eeek! quietly hugely excited for you!!!

Digi fantastic lovely xxx FX it sticks babes