TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

[Diddle]

Well I think after all our chatting its about time we had a new thread, as the previous one was very lucky for us, lets hope this one remains just as lucky.

Remember ladies - Our time will come, but our bodies have to be ready, and we are all here to support each other.

For those new people please feel free to check out our Stats thread, to see some info about us and leave you details if you want to.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

mumswish - yes first day of bleeding is cd1.

Coathanger - have fun shopping

Humphreys corner - enjoy your haircut and shopping

I didn't have to put up with the footie thank god, although DH did put it on, then fell asleep so as soon as i had the chance i turned it over.

auntynon - i shouldn't think it would cause miscarriage, in my opinion you probably feel a little heavy down below because of the illness, probably made you ache in places more than normal and because your abdomen is so sensitive at the moment it could just be that. stay positive.

Hi hellkat - xxx

Hiya Diddle!
Did you see my post last night about my "symptoms"? Any great ideas as to what it is? Boobs are so sore today and had an awful sleepless night with achy knees. only ever got that when I was pg, confused here. Not sure to test again or leave it until next time I'm due.

Also having the backache from hell too.

sorry hellkat didn't see your earlier post must have flicked past it sorry.
i'd test again can't do any harm. Never heard of achy knees in pregnancy, but you are unique it certainly could be pregnancy, go on get a test its about time you graduated from here, in the nicest possible way.

backache and sore boobs are as good a sign as any. fingers crossed for you.

Well tested today cd33 and a BFN as expected.

So will be back at work after hols and NOT pregnant as I dreaded but at least I can have a few pina colodas now

Oh CP - hope you're ok, i know you're really dissapointed, but your body is obviously not ready yet, will you be ok back at work?

Cp- Awww hunny {{{{{{{[hugs}}}}}}} sorry to hear!! You enjoy a booze up on hols, you deserve it!
Diddle- Don't know why I get achey knees, odd huh? Surely I can't be pg though. Tested Day before af came and bfn. But af wa alot lighter than normal.

Hellkat - you might aswel test it cant hurt and I've got a fingers and toes crossed for you.

Hiya Diddle, hope your good today.

To anyone I missed hope you're all ok today. Have a great day whatever your doing.

Hi all,

wanted to introduce myself and join your group... started to miscarry at the weekend, very early at 6+3. So its all pretty raw feelings right now but I am getting there. Coathanger and Diddle enticed me over here.

Will be in a out really, my mum is coming over to see me in a lttle bit. Other days I am on and off the pc depending on whether my dh is working from home as he often does.

hope to get to know you all soon.

Carmeli- So sorry to hear hun! Welcome to this thread. We all know exactly what you're going through so feel free to rant, cry etc. We're here!
I will test Friday but not getting any hopes up. Well trying not to

carameli - welcome to our group, you will be made very welcome here, we all know how you feel, and it is totally understandable to feel so raw at the moment. I hope your mom manages to take your mind of it. I remember crying everyday for at least 4 weeks after my miscarriages, life is so unfair, and we all deserve so much more. Even now 6 months since my last one, the slightest thing sets me off, but it will get easier for you.
I hope you find the support and warmth from thsi thread that we all have.

((((big hugs))))))) to keep you going till your mom comes.

hellkat - why not test today? i know af has been but yours are never normal so could be baby burrowing in, maybe. i hope so

thanks guys,
must go and get a few things done. Yeah my mum is great, will always get me to think of something nice. My dd is 2 next week and we are having a little family party for her on Sunday so I am also trying to focus on that for a bit as she has been such an absolute angel thorugh all of this. I really want to do something to make her day really special.

carameli - thats great that you're keeping busy and getting organised, but remember to elt yourself grieve too, i know its hard, but if you bottle it up you won't start to heal the pain.

no don't worry I am defintely not bottling it up. My dh and I have had great talks about it and I have waves of crying and feeling a bit more normal.

Welcome Carmelli.

I'm really sorry to hear what your going through, We've been there and its really not fair. I can understand your feelings please feel free to chat I'm willing to listen and I'm sure the rest of the girls are too.

Diddle- can't test today, no cash until Friday! I'll probably end up finding it somehow and testing

If you test you have to tell us before and after. I'm keeping everything crossed for you. Mainly cos I need a wee but you know!! Same thing

hellkat - i though there must be a reason for not testing, otherwise you would be doing it right now. i knew you couldn't wait unless there was a reason.

carameli - good to hear you're doing ok, won't worry as much about you now. you know where we are if you need us, and have a lovely afternoon with your mom.

mumswish - how are you feeling today?

Diddle- you know me too well. How about next thread name should be "Test addicts R us" .
Mums- He he you may be excused to use the lav hun! I'll have a big announcement saying "Kat's testing" then another saying "Bfn".

so positive aren't you HK, good idea not to get your hopes up though, wish i knew how to do that.

Lol I'm trying not to get them up.

Off to soft play now so don;t get gas bagging too much i'd ahte to miss anything

hi Diddle,

TBH I'm feeling really yucky today and I have no idea why. Although it could have something to do with going to see best mates newborn. I'm going to be in her position this time next year so I dont understand what it is.

Never mind