TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

[Diddle]

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

Helloooooo! How's everyone doing? Been v busy these last few days as I've been looking after my best friend's little girl in the afternoons, will be doing it next week too, and I'm shattered. House is a tip. Was planning a clear up today, but think af has arrived so I'm having a paddy instead . Typically I went out this morning and got some tests as I felt sooooo due for the last 3 days, and absolutely no sign, but have had some brownish discharge (yuk, sorry tmi) at lunch time so methinks she is stalking. By the way, tescos have £3.45 off clearblue tests, £7.99 for 2, and interestingly they now say on the pack you can use them up to 4 days before your period. Have stashed mine in the drawer for next month now .

How are you diddle? Was thinking about you yesterday. It's hard getting through, trying not to think of what might have been (((((hugs)))))

How are you feeling coathanger? I meant to ask, did anything ever come of your counselling? I know you saw a completely awful woman, but wondered if you ever followed it up? I'm asking cos I'm kind of to-ing and fro-ing about wether to go for some myself. Just can't seem to talk things through with DH, and feel I'm losing it a bit at times, think I'm trying to keep hold of too much "stuff" iykwim.

HK hope af isn't on her way for you xx.

Hi wills, welcome .

Maddyd fingers crossed for you, happy birthday to ds2!

Hope everyone else is ok, must dash, got to get ds2 up so I can collect ds1 from school..........what a week, I haven't stopped....thank god it's wine and pizza night tonight!

Hello all, Not been on for a few days as I've got mega busy! Just started using my persona thingy, which is exciting, as I really hope it'll help me get to grips with my cycle and tackle this ttc thing with technology! Here's hoping it helps anyway. Hope you're all well. I've taken so long to write this message (I started at lunch time) that all sorts could of happened by the time I send it.

Hi nicmum!!

I think seeig a councellir is a good thing, it was just bad luck that I got a bad one. I didn't go again. Was due to see her last Friday but phoned and cancelled, really wanted to tell her I thought she was a bag but thought better of it and just told her I didn;t think it would help me very much. Thinking of seeing my HV instead. She is fabby and has got me through some very hard times in the past. But deffo try it - what can you lose?? I'm like you though, I bottle everything up. Just not able to talk about things at home, thats why I bore you lot!! All this business of want ing another baby is driving me mad - almost on the brink of saying "I can't be bothered. Just have the bloody snip!!" because I don't think I can deal withthis feeling anymore. Sorry, talking too much...

As I was saying Nicmum, I think it is a normal feeloing to think you are losing it a bit. I feel like i'm losing it a lot!! Just let it all out here if you wish, or CAT me, but if you fancy a bit of councelling, speak to your GP. They should be able to help.

Oh, and meant to say, I'm ever hopeful and the "stuff" your seeing might be old blood or bedding in. really got everything crossed!!

Hi ya Strike!! Blimey! I thought i took a long time to write posts

nicmum2boys - i'm ok thanks, had a tough day yesterday but feel a little better today. sounds liek you ahve your hands full
hope you're alright

See, I can't seem to type more than a sentance without being interrupted at the mo. Still good to be busy. Have a lovely weekend ladies, fingers crossed for some bfp's.

yeh you too strike, sorry out fo touch with everyone, what cd are you on?

diddle cd 15

Going for a soak soon to ease this backache. Still no af. Fgs. Fed up now. All this pain and nothing. Have a great weekend all.

Hellkat - hope it eases off, and af stays away for nine months at least have a good weekend to you too

Thanks hun you too.
Feeling proper p*ssed off today. Not sure if it's pms, anxiety wondering if I am or not or a dodgy hormonal combo of everything. God I'm a moaning cow today! Sorry all

don't apologise, its a roguh week for all, you share you feelings with us, we'll listen to you
my last mindie is chatting away to me about her moms baby (shes pregnant) telling me how the baby looked on the scan etc very sternly told her to eat her dinner right now! no need for all that info me thinks. she is 6 and knows i've lost 2 babies, and understands how upset i was.
hmmm kids! can't blame her really she only understands i was upset, probably thinks its ok now, because i'm not bawling my eyes out

oooo where did that come from
sorry hellkat didn't mean to ruin your sharing of feelings, you carry on

No hunny feel free! Seems like we all need a good rant today . I'm lucky there, not being around pg women, thank goodness!

Off to get mine and ds2's bath ready. Be back tomorrow all. Take care.
Diddle- if you need a rant you can mail me anytime hun x

Good day ladies

You all seem to be having an up and down sort of day so get the Blossom Hill out (like me now! )

Not much to say but CD21 and am like that Clear Blue advert on the telly 'Something on your mind-try Clear Blue etc'. Can't concentrate on anything as stressing about getting another BFN this month so HellKat-I know where you are at today. I usually get your AF when you have got rid of her so if you don't get her then hopefully I won't either-got everything crossed hun ((xx))

maddyd-sad about the boys-I must have read about it but can't remember what happened

nicmum2boys-if this isn't 'your' month then hope it is next month ((xx))

Right, had better get some tea on. Hugs to everyone and wishing everyone a brighter weekend.

xxx

Hi Humphreys,
hope you're doing alright, and have a good weekend too.

hellkat - have mailed you

I know I haven't been on much today, but just wanted to pop on quickly before I go to bed to wish you all a good night and sweet dreams. If I don't speak to you over the weekend, then have a good one.

Nighty-night xx

What a nightmare of a day for little ds's birthday. I was sicky all day and just wanted to sleep. Took him to soft play and he fell asleep on me, woke with a raging temp and croup. Bless him.
Seems a little better this morning however he has lost his voice, its all croaky. So sweet i just want to cuddle him all the time. If he crys he makes a noise like a seal.

Chocolate peanut, im not sure if i want to test tomorrow, it seems too early. Af due on next Fri so would be testing 6 days early. Im having obvious symtoms BUT i dont know if i can handle the dissapointment of a bfn. Think i will wait till Tue and do a predictor test as they have always worked for me before. xxxx

Morning all.
Hc- Hopefully this will be your month 'cos looks like it's definitely not mine.
Thought af started last night but all eased off. Very odd as normally it's so heavy when I start. No idea what's happening. If it's like this in a day or two I think I'll be testing again.
Maddy- Sounds so hopeful! I made the idiotic mistake of for once actually letting myself get carried away. With the result felt so crap yesterday. Here's for bfp's!!! AWww @ ds! That's so cute. Have a mental image of a little cutie sounding like a seal

maddyd - NOrmally you know i would say, just test, but maybe its worth waiting, esp as you have etsted early before then left with dissapointment with your "false" positive. I would wait. Hope your DS is feeling better today, and gets lots of pampering from his mummy.

Hellkat - I bet you're all over the place, AF is really messing you about, lest hope she either stays or goes, and doesn't tease you anymore.

Good luck to you all, hope you get yu=our BFP's even if its not this weekend.

We're going down to Ipswich for the weekend to the in laws, so i won't be on today or tomorrow, hope you all have a good weekend.

(((((((((hugs)))))))))) to keep you all going.

Is it just me or is it blooming freezing this morning!!! Got 2 jumpers on!

Diddle- Thankyou {{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}} for you too! Have a great time x

ditto to blooming freezing, although i hae very little on att he moment, looks cold outside and the news said it had been frosty this morning, in September!!! whats going on?

Lol it was frosty at 6 when i went to grab the paper. Ohhhhhh I hope we get a bad winter so I get snow!