TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

[Diddle]

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

Just a quiclie coz got to pick liitle 'un up form nursery.

Diddle - Your in my thoughts today, sweetie. Hope today isn't too painful. Just CAT if you need to blub! {{{{HUGS}}}}

Shelly - I hope you are feeling okay today. Take it easy and be kind to yourself. {{{{HUGS}}}}

HK - you need to test!!

Hope you are all okay today. I'm not too bad. Ha d a bad morning but things might pick up this afternoon, who knows. I want to get back to my happy self - haven't been that way for a few days now. Its not like me.

Lots of love and ((((hugs)))to you today diddle.x.x.x

thanks CH and shelly, much appreciated, might email you later CH.

Back from nursery now.

Anytime Diddle xx

Got yours BTW. I'm fine. Haven't been on much lately, been trying to keep busy. Having a bad week. Not sure why this week more than any other, apart from the 12 week thingy. Feel very low right now. Thinking of seeing my HV who councelled me through PND after DS2. I didn't think I was "depressed" until DH said he thought it was a good idea to see HV again. Maybe I am and I've been frightened to admit it. Will let you know what I decide.

CH - your m/c is still very recent, and i'm not surprised your feeling low, especially this week. I would say it gets easier but that won't make you feel any better. Maybe seeing your HV will be beneficial, i hope so. even if you just get to let it all out and don't get much adbice, just talking can work wonders.

Have CATed you Diddle, and I mean everything I say on it!

I know things will get easier, and that this week is particularly hard, but I'm so glad I've got you lot on here. You get me through the day, even if I only get time to read your threads snd not post.

ok CH, not reading it till the kids are occupied, if its too nice i might start crying in front of them. thank you

Thanks CH - needed the tissues, it was lovely thank you so much. Good job i removed the kids from the table.
I think its definitly a treat the kids to a dvd afternoon sort of day. We've got Toy Stoyr 2 on, they love it

Never hurts to stick kids in front of TV when you really need to. you need some time out today. Feet up, cuppa and a choccie biccie (or 10), kids happy...mmmmm, heaven!

But you don't need to say Thanks to me, coz its true Y ou are obviously a special person with special qualities, and I can tell that without ever meeting you. If kama is true, then you will get what you deserve...

...and that goes for everyone else...

Will be back on soon - just got to pop out for a mo...

CP FAB! I'm gradually going nuts here! You all seem to be going through sooo much. I type what's happening to me and then delete it cos its nothing compared to some. I had a small bleed 4 days before period was due and though Ahhh implatation bleed. The day before period due bleeding started. Nice and heavy for a whole 1 hour. Since then its been virtually nothing. Do am I or aren't I. I'm under immense pressure at the moment in all areas of my life. We're trying to change our lives completely etc so its quite possible that the stress is doing this to my period. But what if.... Oh and I daren't test. Not whilst blood is around. If I am miscarrying at such an early stage I really really don't want to know. Going nuts!

Wills - sounds like you're under a lot of pressure. Sorry to ask but can you update us on your present situation? are you pg and poss losing, or waiting for AF and suspect you are m/c again?

Wills - I'm sure everyone here agrees with me when I say never think you are any less entitled to talk about how you are feeling. Your feelings and ups and downs are important and if you ever want to talk or share or get advice just talk. We listen very well, and however big or small the problem, we will be here. I often used to think I shouldn't moan when others were having such a hard time. But if there is one thing I've learnt about the ladies on this thread its that they love to love, even if they are having probs too. We are here for one another, wharever.

Do you agree, ladies?

I DO!!!! talk away as much as you want, we're here to support everyone

errrrr! yuk!!!!! is this winter now? weather here is DIS-GUS-TING!! Sad to think that the sunshine has gone away...

Good! I might have to emigrate to warmer climes if this goes on all winter. I hate rain

Umm am bleeding (spotting more like). Have not/will not test cos scared of the results. If they were positive a) yippppeeee but b) does that mean the bleeding means its going? If spotting doesn't progress to full blown stuff and finally stops then maybe i'll summon up the courage totest.

What worries me is that at the moment I'm running around like a lunatic and I nervous that's what's causing the bleeding. Am I hurting this little one (if there is one). OR are my current stress levels causing me to skip a month (have never done this before not even when we discovered dh's cancer had returned).

Sooo am a bundle of thoughts running around in my head driving me NUts. Wish I could find my own off button. Daren't even talk to dh so its a wonderful relief to talking to all of you - thanks

Lovely ladies - just wondered if any of you had seen this thread .

Looks like someone else could do with a bit of support, and I know how great you all are at cheering each other up.

Just posted on there Tabs.
Ch- Did test this morning and bfn, . Shocked me as for once I thought I was but hey ho nevermind. How's you hun? Meant to say you can feel free to cat me anytime too!

hellkat sorryabout your bfn, you never know its early days it could still happen

tabs - hello there, i have been over but can't recomend any books the one i found was very clinical and i haven't read it all it was so boring.

Just posted on Dooberry's thread, too. Invited her here if she wants to. Hope thats okay (which I know it will be, just being polite )

HK - hey, a bfn now doesn't mean your not. Wait til next friday, and test again. You never know, it might be too soon. Everything crossed for you hun! XXXXX

Y'know, I can feel a group hug coming on! You are all fab. I've never in my life come across a group of people that care as much for each other, and without meeting. It might seem a bit too "mushy" for some but I think its great. If "mushy" makes us feel loved and safe, then "mushy" it is!

Sorry had to say that...

Thankyou

That thankyou was a thankyou for my being so nice about my bfn not me being a conceited cow lol.
You're so right Ch, everyone on here is a star in their own right. This thread has been a lifeline for me and many others.
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Hugs for all, loves ya all very much xxxxx