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TTC after a miscarriage - ***Lets have some more BFP's***

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Diddle · 25/08/2005 13:27

Here we go ladies, couldn't wait for a couple of days have started one already.

Lets make this thread a lucky one and make sure we al graduate from it.

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HumphreysCorner · 03/09/2005 11:40

Morning ladies

peepee-aw hun-so, so sorry to hear your news. Life is so unfair. Hugs to you and remember we are all here for you (((((xxxxx)))))

Diddle-looks like the witch is playing games with you like with me last weekend showing up 9 days late on Saturday and she's still bloody here. Before my MC my AF lasted no longer than 4 days and it is now CD8 FFS! And my migraine is on day 6 and they only used to last 3 days. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hope you have a lurvely holiday and come back fresh and relaxed and ripe ((xx))

baggybear-what are you like going to a casino-trying out for a part in the new James Bond movie-Casino Royale? Glad you had a good time ((xx))

HellKat-you must be coming up mid cycle by now? Get BD girl. ((xx))

Big hellos to CHOCOLATEPEANUT, munz, Lottielou,Mojomummy, Xena, nicmum2boys, LouiseT, maddyd, cori, Strike1 and anyone else I have forgotten with my muddled head

Have a nice, relaxing weekend all if you can.

Byee for now
xxx

baggybear · 03/09/2005 12:57

Hey, I could be a Bond girl!!! A new breed of Bond girl who is very curvy, short and with all the signs of having had 3 kids!!! But what could my name be.......?

baggybear · 03/09/2005 14:49

Um, I don't really know how to word this, especially after I've been feeling so much chirpier lately...

After a long a nd very tearful chat with my DH, I've decided to quit mumsnet and this thread.

DH is not sure about having another baby and we have decided to rethink. So, I won't be posting here anymore.

Sorry, I hope you understand. You have all been a great comfort to me over the last few weeks. And I wish all of you all the luck in the world. I hope you all get what you so deservedly want.

Love to all of you XXXXXXXXXXXXX

ps will lurk for a litle while to see your replies xx

baggybear · 03/09/2005 15:04

BTW there is another reason

link from chat thread

baggybear · 03/09/2005 15:07

Sorry

chat thread

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Diddle · 03/09/2005 15:16

baggybear - sorry to hear you're leaving us, couldn't you just re-invent yourself as someone else? i guess that would defeat the object of talking about what you want though. I don't want you to go .
But i understand your reasons, and if you're having a break from ttc then you might find, your little baby will appear when you least expect it. I often wonder if we should have a break from it, then maybe it will just happen. who knows what the future holds.

If you ever want a chat with us please come back, of feel free to CAT me, or if you have msn then we can chat on there. Your miscarriage is so recent and it will take a whiel to get over, if you ever need support, you know where i am, and i'm sure everyone of us would offer the same support.

we'll miss you

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HumphreysCorner · 03/09/2005 15:16

Oh baggybear-I can't believe you are leaving us so soon. Have managed to find your other thread when the link didn't work.

Purlease come back soon with a different name if that helps. I would be upset if I thought someone knew me but you all seem to live far away.

(((((((xxxxxxxxxxxx))))))))

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Diddle · 03/09/2005 15:19

I agree, i would be upset if someone knew me too, and didn't mention it to me. couldn't you confron tthis person baggy, you must have an idea who it is.

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baggybear · 03/09/2005 15:25

Know who it is but surely they would just deny it! If they are remaining anon on here then they would not want to own up. Makes me sad

Got to go now, DH wants us to have a bit of time together WIll lurk later

I really am grateful to you all. You are all fab {{{{HUGS}}}}

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Diddle · 03/09/2005 15:26

Glad we have been a support to you baggy, enjoy your quality time with DH xxx Give him a hug from us, he;s been through a lot too

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HellKat · 03/09/2005 15:28

Bags- Noooooooooo. Don't you dare hun! Great idea about name change. Dp and I are'nt meant to be actively ttc lol. But still I'm here. This whole site is such a support for everything (I'm a thread addict, everything and anything I look up). You will be missed hun if you decide to leave.

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Diddle · 03/09/2005 15:29

how you doing HK??? you've been missed, much quieter wihtout you on here as much

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HellKat · 03/09/2005 17:20

Im great ta Diddle hun! Awww ty! Missed you too.
Been "not-obsessing" about ttc. Just playing it cool. Ds1's due back from hols with his dad tomorrow. Missed him like mad! Ds2 has giving up the idea of talking and now says vowels! (never spoke in the first place apart from mum lol). Now has taking to saying " aaaaaa, eeeeee,iiiii,ooooo etc" Guess he's teaching himself!
How's things with you? Still no sign of af?

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 03/09/2005 18:11

Baggybear Thats very naughty of RL mumsnetter

I went to see pregnant friend today.Shes due Tues and I could not put it off any longer,I just dreaded it as she was pregnant with me.

Anyhow it went alright.But shes put on 5 1/2 stone!!!She looks well though but I know from experience how hard it is to shift!

Going to bath dd now and get her tucked up so me and dh can have a nice evening together....

Have a lovely evening all of you
xxx

nicmum2boys · 03/09/2005 18:44

Not got much time to post as have to bath the DSs, just logged on for a quick catch up, and wanted to say (((hugs))) Baggybearr, v to see you go. Will be thinking of you xxx
Hope everyone else is doing OK, will try catch up later on, busy weekend though, so may not have time til monday when DH back to work etc. xx

spub · 03/09/2005 19:05

Hi gang,
Just back from hols so have no idea how things are with you all. Anyone able to give me a quick update?
No luck for me this month, I'm afraid. AF arrived the day after my birthday....
Also have now been battling thrush from hell for 6 weeks. May need to think about the very scary exclusion diet soon......
Hope you are all doing ok.

HellKat · 04/09/2005 09:09

Welcome back Spub!
Poor you! Have you tried the old fashioned, no fail method? Put some natural live yoghurt (has to be live as contains the right bacteria) on a tampon and pop it in for an hour or so. Supposed to be great.
Well there's been some bfp's! Cori and Xena.

HumphreysCorner · 04/09/2005 21:19

AF GONE !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Migraine GONE !!!!!!!!!!!!!

BD 'R' Us

xx

LouiseT · 04/09/2005 21:45

How long did it take for your AF to visit following your mc? I had an early one (at 5 wks) just the other week. Should I leave it until it's come to BD or can we have a go??

What pg tests do you use? Where from? I've used the cheapo ones from Wilkinsons but they're far too fiddly, maybe I'll be better at them next time. Also used the Predictor (2 for £10), why do people pay £15 or more for a digital one???

HumphreysCorner · 04/09/2005 22:03

My AF arrived 7.5 weeks after my MC (approx 5.5 weeks after the bleeding stopped-I MC at 12 weeks-baby stopped growing at 6 weeks) but contrary to what the EPU said about waiting for 1 AF we didn't but didn't get PG anyway. Depends what you read really but I just couldn't bear to wait and it helped my sanity by thinking we were 'trying'again. My mum suggested waiting a 'good' year-WHAT?????????????????

We all use the wee sticks available on Ebay-you can get 3,5,10 or more for only a few pounds and they are very reliable. I bought a Clear Blue ordinary PG test off there for a couple of pounds as I like to back up the wee sticks with the big blue cross(when it happens). Wouldn't pay for a Digital as they are too expensive and you can't keep the result like you can with the ordinary ones.

I have spent hours looking at www.peeonastick.com as she tells you all about those NASTY evaporation lines and reviews various tests. Have a look sometime.

Your AF will arrive soon as sure as eggs are eggs

Get stocking up on wee sticks as I'm sure you'll soon become addicted to them like I did when I joined this thread-never heard of them before that.

Take care
((xx))

auntynon · 04/09/2005 22:09

Been doing alot of lurking. 1st AF since MC has gone, planning some BD.

Bye Baggybear, you sounded like a right nutter and made me laugh.

Going to hospital on wed to get a breast lump checked out. It has been there for a year but has not got any bigger, doesn't hurt. Discovered it when I stopped BF dd and thought it might just be something to do with that and that it would go away. Forgot about it until recently and found it is still there, my gut feeling is that it is nothing, GP didn't seem too concerned. dh is worried, I'm expecting a clear result and want to get on with TTC.Feel positive, hope I'm not being nieave. (can't spell)

CD 8

auntynon · 04/09/2005 22:16

Louise my AF took exactly 28 days after my MC which is what my cycle was before, it can take alot longer, I think I was lucky. My GP said there is no set or reccommended time to wait before TTC after a MC other than to feel well physically and emotionally. I had a spontaneous MC at 8 weeks.

auntynon · 04/09/2005 22:21

HC, what CD are you?

HellKat · 05/09/2005 07:38

Morning all.
HC- Yay!!!! Bd all the way then!
Louise- Welcome! Personal opinion here, I've always used the cheapy tests (wilkinsons, poundland etc) and all been accurate. Cheap too!
Aunty- Good luck with the lump hun. If you check out the previous thread to this one, you'll see that a few weeks back I had the same thing. Had biopsy and results were all clear. Any questions feel free to ask.

Lottielou · 05/09/2005 09:28

Morning Ladies!
How was your weekends?
Well my AF arrived y'day morning so am now on CD 2, i was expecting it so not too dissapointed. I can get on with lots of BD'ing this month and hopefully it will my my turn (and praying that it will be Diddles too - well actullay all of you) I have a strange feeling that i will get my BFP in Oct! Dont ask y, it's juts a feeling! Or the feeling cud be that i concieve in Oct. Either way October is going to be my month!!!
Had very bad cramps all weekend, sleepless nights so am feeling quite low and tired today! Really really dont wanna be at work!
Diddle - Missin ya, hope your having a fab time xx