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CHRONIC PAIN- things that help.

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picklemewalnuts · 08/03/2021 17:12

This is a 'no comment' thread, so we can list what has helped us, ask each other questions about it, but not argue or disagree about whether it's a 'valid' treatment or not.

!!Buyer beware!! We aren't medics, don't buy anything or take anything off the back of this thread, these are simply 'things that have helped'!

Me first:

  1. Exercising in warm water really helps my tired stiff achey body. I joined a local health club that had a warm pool and jacuzzi, with steam rooms and saunas. I miss it so much now it's closed! It helped with relaxation, and also with flexibility. I could exercise without hurting myself.
  1. Amitriptyline. This helps me sleep and is pretty good on nerve pain- the shooting pains in my limbs, and neck pain. I vary my dose up and down by 10 mg, trying to keep it as low as I can manage.
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picklemewalnuts · 09/03/2021 11:27

I should add, my teacher does seated classes as well- it's possible to do it for all levels of ability. If you can't move, you visualise moving. The brain is powerful, visualisation starts to wake up those muscles and nerves.

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Skap · 09/03/2021 11:38

Heat pads rather than ice packs.
Compression gloves.
Cohesive bandages on fingers, a hand physio suggested this and it helps, it's cheaper to buy the veterinary version.
Warm weather.
Beware of magnesium causing diarrhoea.

MyVisionsComeFromSoup · 09/03/2021 11:41

magnesium malate
Vit D spray

amitriptyline
pregabalin
I had some diazepam for a smear test, and was in NO PAIN for a day or so afterwards, but not sure I'd cope on a regular basis (DD reckoned I was "good fun" until it wore off, which is a touch alarming!)

memory foam mattress
shaped memory foam pillow (got mine from IKEA) as I have neck issues
a week or so in the sun during the winter (my vit D levels are shocking, even with the spray, but a cheap week self catering in the Canaries in February is amazing! I went from walking very close to 25k steps in one day on the Costa del Sol on New Years Eve, to only just managing 2k steps a couple of weeks later back in the UK. Obviously the holiday effect will help there too.
hot tub/jacuzzi - I've loved holidays/weekends away where there's been a hot tub, and I can get a jet of water right in the exact spot of my hips/spine that seizes up - bliss.

Dealing with stress and depression - mine seems to have been situational, so leaving H and moving to my own flat has improved my mental health and happiness levels - that is a bit drastic though Grin.

Losing weight/increasing exercise - where I live now is quite an "outdoorsey" kind of place, people walk everywhere, so I increased my number of steps without really noticing, made a definite start at losing weight (as I was in the right headspace to do that - currently 4 stone down from the 6 I need to do), and bought a rowing machine. I still hurt quite a lot, but it doesn't bother me as much because I can view it as a "good" kind of pain (in the same way as labour pains are "productive" kind of?). I can now see the early beginnings of a 6 pack Shock.

Next steps will be looking at anti-inflammatory diets - my weight loss is currently a shakes only plan, so as I'm looking at how to reintroduce food in a positive healthy way, I also need to investigate how to make every mouthful count towards keeping my body healthy, so anti-inflammatory and promoting gut health, as well as intermittent fasting will be the way to go for me I think.

Really interesting to read what works for other people.

Skap · 09/03/2021 11:55

What constitutes an anti inflammatory diet?
I tried GF for a few months but saw no improvement.
I am a healthy weight bmi 20. Cutting out the foods I love would be so miserable I'm not sure life would be worth living.

MedusasBadHairDay · 09/03/2021 11:58

I had some diazepam for a smear test, and was in NO PAIN for a day or so afterwards, but not sure I'd cope on a regular basis (DD reckoned I was "good fun" until it wore off, which is a touch alarming!)

Diazepam used to make me feel drunk, which was a nice distraction from the pain. Doesn't have any effect now though, not on the pain or state of mind. 😭

Gerla · 09/03/2021 12:10

I used to suffer from IBS (stomach cramps etc) and took diazepam to get on a flight. It totally cleared up the cramps too.

Worrysaboutalot · 09/03/2021 13:52

Medication - Especially Amitriptyline and Gabapetin for the nerve pain.

Aids - Bed sitter upper, bath board, stair lift, snozzle (bed turning sheet), wheel chair, walking stick, crutches

Others stuff - Positivity card which I change daily. I have it on my bedroom table and read it whenever I lie down.

Distractions - four lovely children, 2 kittens, 1 old boy cat and my lovely grumpy DH (who is my absolutely helps me more than this whole list put together, I am so lucky to have him), new hobby to replace what my silly hands won't do atm.

Things I need to try - Tens machine

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picklemewalnuts · 09/03/2021 14:01

@Gerla alcohol works the same way on IBS. I used to head off IBS and migraine with a judicious stiff drink. Forcible relaxation, basically.

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Gerla · 09/03/2021 14:04

@picklmewalnuts

Interesting!

Akire · 09/03/2021 16:18

Anyone have tips for when when meds make your mouth really dry? Apart from just sipping fluids. I feel like there’s something I’m missing but so horrible when it’s hours at a time.

Orangesandlemons82 · 09/03/2021 16:23

These ideas are great! According to Amazon my TENS machine is 4 stops away Smile so hoping that provides some relief. I have been prescribed gabapentin for pain but worried about trying it. Have people found it helpful?

DunravenBadger · 09/03/2021 16:50

@Akire

Anyone have tips for when when meds make your mouth really dry? Apart from just sipping fluids. I feel like there’s something I’m missing but so horrible when it’s hours at a time.
I get that with pregabalin. The doctor prescribed me something a while ago, I've forgotten what it's called but basically like throat sweets. They helped a little bit.
Akire · 09/03/2021 16:52

Thanks it’s just another horrible thing to put up with so not something I would even mention to doctor. And no one else to ask.

Cocolapew · 09/03/2021 18:01

@Orangesandlemons82

These ideas are great! According to Amazon my TENS machine is 4 stops away Smile so hoping that provides some relief. I have been prescribed gabapentin for pain but worried about trying it. Have people found it helpful?
I was on Gabapentine years ago, it does help with pain but I found I always felt hungry on it and it made my boobs bigger Hmm, they would feel 'heavy' like when my period was due.
Cocolapew · 09/03/2021 18:02

The thing that helps my dry mouth best is sipping Diet Coke. Not very healthy but the fizz seems to help.

Rege · 09/03/2021 18:05

Turmeric - Works wonders for inflammation throughout the body.

Gerla · 09/03/2021 18:07

Turmeric - Works wonders for inflammation throughout the body.

Does it matter how you take it? My doctor suggested turmeric in powdered form and it is disgusting!

DunravenBadger · 09/03/2021 19:28

@Gerla

Turmeric - Works wonders for inflammation throughout the body.

Does it matter how you take it? My doctor suggested turmeric in powdered form and it is disgusting!

How about turmeric tea?
colouringindoors · 09/03/2021 19:45

orangesandlemons my GP mentioned Gabapentin today. I'm in a lot of pain but I'm not keen. Currently loosing weight, which is really hard so the hungry thing is not good.

Do you think you'll take them?

doadeer · 09/03/2021 19:58

@colouringindoors

orangesandlemons my GP mentioned Gabapentin today. I'm in a lot of pain but I'm not keen. Currently loosing weight, which is really hard so the hungry thing is not good.

Do you think you'll take them?

I'm day 6 on gabapentin, no extra hunger for me. I'm on a health plan anyway, lost my final baby weight this week! Dieting with chronic back pain, lockdown and a toddler with additional needs has been fun! 🙄
colouringindoors · 09/03/2021 20:20

omg doadeer seriously!

How are you finding the gabapentin?

doadeer · 09/03/2021 20:27

You ease in gradually and first few days I felt zero pain relief and just felt so drowsy. But then I upped the dosage and I'm finding it really good!

Rege · 09/03/2021 20:32

@Gerla

Turmeric - Works wonders for inflammation throughout the body.

Does it matter how you take it? My doctor suggested turmeric in powdered form and it is disgusting!

I take it in capsule form, for maximum absorbency it should be taken with Bioperine (found in black pepper) You can get it on Amazon with two ingredients already added.
OhYouBadBadKitten · 09/03/2021 20:52

I've learned the number one aim for me is to get sufficient sleep.
Amitriptlyline
headspace sleep stories
wheat bag.
K tape. My physio is a whizz with this.
Epsom salt baths.
Comedy. I've recently started rewatching Friends.
Steroid tablets. I love them! But obviously they can't happen often.

I should try turmeric again, my inflammation levels are high.

Orangesandlemons82 · 09/03/2021 21:03

@colouringindoors that's what is stopping me from trying them too! I'm finally doing well losing weight with the aim that will help manage the pain as well. I don't want something that makes me more hungry and end up gaining weight. I guess I could try it for a couple of weeks and see what happens. If I'm not in pain I would exercise more so that might help Confused. You can see how confused I am about it! Sorry - this is a bit of a ramble!