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Does this menu sound ok for our Christmas guests?

38 replies

maddiemookins16mum · 22/12/2025 14:48

We have four adult friends arriving after lunchtime on Wednesday for three nights. We’re all the same age, early 60s, good friends from our 30s onwards - we’ve also stayed at each other’s homes over Christmas, it’s our turn this year. I love hosting. DH is very proactive and we work alongside each other very well with food prep etc (in fact he does more clearing up than I do). Our early 20s DD is not at home for Christmas, based overseas currently.

Wed - all travelling by car. Due to arrive after lunch. We’re going to a candlelit Carol service at 4pm, I’m going to offer hot drinks, mince pies, warmed sausage rolls and Yule log on arrival.
We’ll get home about 5.30pm. More hot drinks if required although I expect we’ll open some wine/beers etc. I have nuts/crisps/cheese straws and those kind of things to go with the drinks.

I’m looking to serve dinner about 7.30pm - all are meat eaters - I’m serving steaks, garlic buttered mushrooms, green salads, roasted tomatoes and homemade potato wedges/chunky chips. There will be a cheeseboard and/or gingerbread ice-cream for afters.

Christmas Day - egg and bacon rolls but there is also Greek yoghurt/fruit and the usual toast and cereals for those who just want that.
We're all going to Church at 11am. (We met through the same Church 30 plus years ago in case anyone is wondering 😊). We tend to pop to the pub after church for an hour.

I have already prepped and frozen the following for Christmas lunch, parsnips, carrots, roast potatoes, red cabbage and two different stuffings - one is an American Thanksgiving recipe one made with sourdough bread and chestnuts. We’re aiming to sit down for Turkey and all the trimmings at around 4pm. After church/pub people can have whatever they want to drink and there are shop bought canapés.

We tend to sit around the table chatting (and drinking) for several hours, we don’t have pudding until later (around 7-8pm) and I have a homemade Christmas pudding with custard/cream. More cheese/crackers if wanted.

Boxing Day - breakfast for those up early is help yourself and then DH does his Boxing Day bubble with poached eggs (and toast) late morning.
We always go out for a long walk on Boxing Day (ending up in a pub).
Boxing Day evening is Games night with a buffet of cold gammon, cold turkey, winter slaw, crusty bread, cheeses, salad and pickles. Trifle for pudding.

28th - they’re leaving late morning so I’ll do a cooked breakfast that morning for those that want it but I have lots of fruit/berries and yoghurt available.

Does it all sound a bit too heavy and rich?

OP posts:
Ilikewinter · 22/12/2025 14:50

Wow that sounds lovely, can I come !!!

ohidoliketobe · 22/12/2025 14:52

Sounds incredible. Yes sounds heavy and rich but that's what Christmas food is all about! Plenty of options to suit all tastes

IndigoIsMyFavouriteColour · 22/12/2025 14:53

Sounds perfect

HollyGolightly4 · 22/12/2025 14:55

That sounds incredible. I want to come 🤣

PennyLaneisinmyheartandmysoul · 22/12/2025 14:55

That sounds fabulous!! Wish has energy and impetus to do similar!!lucky friends!

Anyahyacinth · 22/12/2025 14:58

Sounds perfect and very thoughtful

Merry Christmas 🎄❤️🎄

Paradoes · 22/12/2025 14:58

Sounds amazing .. the food and activities

Enjoy

MiddleAgedDread · 22/12/2025 14:59

I'm coming too!

Herecomethedaffodils · 22/12/2025 14:59

You sound like a wonderful and generous host. For me that would be a perfect combination of time at your house, time out doing Christmassy activities and time to chill. Have a super time.

FFSToEverythingSince2020 · 22/12/2025 14:59

You HAD four people coming. Now, you have eight, including @Ilikewinter @HollyGolightly4 @MiddleAgedDread and me 😂Everything sounds so lovely, and I’m especially interested in this gingerbread ice cream! Is it a brand or a recipe?

Kagoule · 22/12/2025 15:00

It sounds perfect. Merry Christmas to you all, and may it be peaceful and full of joy.

TheLemonOtter · 22/12/2025 15:06

Sounds gorgeous! I would just add another pud on Xmas day in case anyone doesn't like christmas pudding? Yule log of choc ice cream?

Hdpr · 22/12/2025 15:10

Sounds amazing. Just make sure you have plenty of everything. Have a lovely time

Loub1987 · 22/12/2025 15:15

Wow, sounds lovely. I’ll add my name with the other pp to attend 😀

The only thing missing for me is smoked salmon, it’s not Christmas in my house without it!

GovernmentFundedSteak · 22/12/2025 15:17

Space for 1 more?

Fionasapples · 22/12/2025 15:19

I'm envious of your friends- your Christmas and food sounds perfect!

HardworkSendHelp · 22/12/2025 15:34

Sounds amazing and so organised.

NewNameNewMeNow · 22/12/2025 15:38

Your menu and plans sound lovely but I’m worried you’ve lost a day. Are they leaving 27th or 28th?

FFSToEverythingSince2020 · 22/12/2025 15:38

We’re now up to 10 with @Loub1987 and @GovernmentFundedSteak . Shall we BYOC*, OP?

*Bring Your Own Chair

Bunny2607 · 22/12/2025 15:41

Ilikewinter · 22/12/2025 14:50

Wow that sounds lovely, can I come !!!

Was going to say exactly the same 😂

sounds lovely OP, i would be made up if i was your guests

Tdp123 · 22/12/2025 15:43

Sounds perfect. Personally, I'd do a stew rather than steaks so I'm not the kitchen frying. And make sure there's fruit around in case people fancy something lighter and fresher.

fluffiphlox · 22/12/2025 15:43

I’m a similar age. I’d be thrilled with that.

Lindy2 · 22/12/2025 15:45

That sounds lovely. Have a wonderful time.

DallasMinor · 22/12/2025 15:48

Room for one more? It sounds amazing.

CheshireCat1 · 22/12/2025 17:03

It sounds great, I love a good traditional Christmas. Have a fabulous time