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Does this menu sound ok for our Christmas guests?

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maddiemookins16mum · 22/12/2025 14:48

We have four adult friends arriving after lunchtime on Wednesday for three nights. We’re all the same age, early 60s, good friends from our 30s onwards - we’ve also stayed at each other’s homes over Christmas, it’s our turn this year. I love hosting. DH is very proactive and we work alongside each other very well with food prep etc (in fact he does more clearing up than I do). Our early 20s DD is not at home for Christmas, based overseas currently.

Wed - all travelling by car. Due to arrive after lunch. We’re going to a candlelit Carol service at 4pm, I’m going to offer hot drinks, mince pies, warmed sausage rolls and Yule log on arrival.
We’ll get home about 5.30pm. More hot drinks if required although I expect we’ll open some wine/beers etc. I have nuts/crisps/cheese straws and those kind of things to go with the drinks.

I’m looking to serve dinner about 7.30pm - all are meat eaters - I’m serving steaks, garlic buttered mushrooms, green salads, roasted tomatoes and homemade potato wedges/chunky chips. There will be a cheeseboard and/or gingerbread ice-cream for afters.

Christmas Day - egg and bacon rolls but there is also Greek yoghurt/fruit and the usual toast and cereals for those who just want that.
We're all going to Church at 11am. (We met through the same Church 30 plus years ago in case anyone is wondering 😊). We tend to pop to the pub after church for an hour.

I have already prepped and frozen the following for Christmas lunch, parsnips, carrots, roast potatoes, red cabbage and two different stuffings - one is an American Thanksgiving recipe one made with sourdough bread and chestnuts. We’re aiming to sit down for Turkey and all the trimmings at around 4pm. After church/pub people can have whatever they want to drink and there are shop bought canapés.

We tend to sit around the table chatting (and drinking) for several hours, we don’t have pudding until later (around 7-8pm) and I have a homemade Christmas pudding with custard/cream. More cheese/crackers if wanted.

Boxing Day - breakfast for those up early is help yourself and then DH does his Boxing Day bubble with poached eggs (and toast) late morning.
We always go out for a long walk on Boxing Day (ending up in a pub).
Boxing Day evening is Games night with a buffet of cold gammon, cold turkey, winter slaw, crusty bread, cheeses, salad and pickles. Trifle for pudding.

28th - they’re leaving late morning so I’ll do a cooked breakfast that morning for those that want it but I have lots of fruit/berries and yoghurt available.

Does it all sound a bit too heavy and rich?

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Zanatdy · 22/12/2025 18:40

Absolutely perfect! Enjoy

OMGitsnotgood · 22/12/2025 19:27

Love the sound of this, from the nostalgic meet up to your gorgeous food. Since you asked ‘is it too rich’, I’d consider whether there is an opportunity to offer a home made vegetable soup.
Also have a bowl of fruit available for people to pick at, though I can imagine you’ve already thought about that
Breakfasts - have some cereal/ fruit salad available for those who want something lighter .
Apologies if any of this has been covered already, just skimmed the thread but have hosted similar and wanted to comment on what friends have fed back to me

HouseofDreams · 22/12/2025 19:46

Sounds amazing!

JudgeBread · 22/12/2025 19:50

Sounds fabulous, can I come? 😁

ZenZazie · 22/12/2025 20:09

Sounds amazing. The only thing I’d say is maybe an additional pudding option to Christmas Pudding, maybe something a bit lighter. However, I suspect after thirty years you know your guests’ tastes well enough to know if that’d be necessary.

Talkingtomyhouseplants · 22/12/2025 20:13

It sounds excellent OP. I would leave feeling like you had made huge effort and my cup would be full

IceIceSlippyIce · 22/12/2025 20:14

Sounds lovely.

I might want something slightly more than a few canapés between breakfast and 4pm on Chrismas day. Perhaps leave some more bits out?

GameOfJones · 22/12/2025 21:00

IceIceSlippyIce · 22/12/2025 20:14

Sounds lovely.

I might want something slightly more than a few canapés between breakfast and 4pm on Chrismas day. Perhaps leave some more bits out?

I was going to say the same but I think it's easily covered by having a fruit bowl and some bowls of crisps and nuts available so guests can pick at things if they get hungry.

Ladygodalmighty · 24/12/2025 22:06

Ilikewinter · 22/12/2025 14:50

Wow that sounds lovely, can I come !!!

Me too, sounds delicious 🫢

Bikergran · 24/12/2025 22:15

No, it sounds wonderful.....😋😋😋😋😋

Muddlethroughmam · 24/12/2025 22:49

Oh wow, Are you accepting applications for new friends?!

Isthisright220 · 24/12/2025 23:10

Sounds perfect, I want this life in my 60s!

Blackoutbeans · 24/12/2025 23:14

That sounds like what I dream of when I think of Christmas ☺️

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