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Hot Chocolate fetish

177 replies

TrickyD · 10/12/2025 08:38

What’s with hot chocolate being some sort of exotic drink only consumed at Christmas, or on Christmas Eve?
It is basically cocoa sugar and milk and easily available any day of the year. Why make such a song and dance about it? It is not exactly the elixir of the gods.
If you are that keen on it why do you have to snuggle on the sofa to drink it? Why not just stand around glugging it in the kitchen whenever you fancy some?

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catontheironingboard · 11/12/2025 14:10

CharlotteCChapel · 10/12/2025 10:35

I thought I was the only person to dislike hot chocolate, everyone else seems to love it. It's oversweet to start with and then people add marshmallows and hundreds and thousands ( refuse to call them sprinkles)

I don’t like it, but I have just about no sweet tooth at all, and don’t like most sugary things. I can just about drink a couple of sips, and that’s enough hot chocolate for me!

Daisywhatsyouranswer · 11/12/2025 14:13

I’m also bemused by this, any winter thread and someone is posting about drinking hot chocolate, I genuinely don’t see this obsession in real life. No one really gives a shit about hot chocolate, and I’ve never met anyone who finds it the highlight of their evenings.

I guess everyone is different, as it does seem drinking hot chocolate is a really big deal for some people.

housethatbuiltme · 11/12/2025 14:14

MonkeyMonkeyUnderpants1 · 11/12/2025 13:07

Obviously yes to the fat and sugar but a hotel chocolat 70% is only 170 calories including the milk so not high calorie at all. Good quality dark hot chocolate is often fine.

170 calories for a drink is a lot especially if your doing it regularly.

A 2 liter bottle of Pepsi max is 12 calories for comparison.

xterde · 11/12/2025 14:14

I think people are just trying to be happy in this miserable boring world. if they want to make hot chocolate into a special treat then why not.

Daisywhatsyouranswer · 11/12/2025 14:15

housethatbuiltme · 11/12/2025 14:06

Same way people don't eat a whole cake every day... no rule says you CAN'T and that its JUST for birthdays/special occasions, but it would be wildly unhealthy too chow down cakes on the regular.

If I was going to have a high calorie drink then for most the year I wouldn't pick a hot one as burning my mouth and having to wait isn't my idea of a great drink but on Xmas eve as a one off tradition with the kids its nice.

fetish
noun
noun: fetish; plural noun: fetishes
1.
a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs.

Why are you trying to sexualise it?

does your household eat say chocolate coins and candy canes all year round too as to not equate them to 'sex' in your household?

Just a weird thought process to try and make a simple kid friendly 'tradition' sexual.

It’s really creepy you cut off point 2 and focused on sex there.

creepy and disturbing.

fetish
/ˈfɛtɪʃ/

noun

a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs. "a man with a fetish for surgical masks
an inanimate object worshipped for its supposed magical powers or because it is considered to be inhabited by a spirit.

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housethatbuiltme · 11/12/2025 14:18

Daisywhatsyouranswer · 11/12/2025 14:15

It’s really creepy you cut off point 2 and focused on sex there.

creepy and disturbing.

fetish
/ˈfɛtɪʃ/

noun

a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs. "a man with a fetish for surgical masks
an inanimate object worshipped for its supposed magical powers or because it is considered to be inhabited by a spirit.

This isn't ancient Mayan fire water we are talking about. No one is talking about religious worship of spirits.

RinsedCrispies · 11/12/2025 14:31

“Why not stand around glugging it in the kitchen”?

I do, OP. I drink it several times a day 🫢😔

Yanbu. It’s not a Christmas drink (unless it’s fancy and made with cream inside)… it’s just chocolate flavoured milk!

Mind you, I do add a tower of cream on mine.

Needmorelego · 11/12/2025 14:35

Iknowdino · 11/12/2025 13:51

I made it out of cardboard! It looks like a little Christmas market hut and there is a sign saying help your s-elf. The hot chocolate is in a mason jar and the bits to add are in little glass tubs. The cream does have to stay in the fridge. The elves sometimes sit with it. The kids say I went overboard. Probably did but gotta have some small joys!

But do you bring the boiling water/milk through to where the "station" is?
Or fill a cup with the powder and then go to the kitchen?
(Or is it in the kitchen?)

Iknowdino · 11/12/2025 14:38

It's in the kitchen, on the worktop next to the hob. The Christmas mugs are set out there too. So just warm up the milk and away you go. I should add I have never, out loud, referred to it as a station 🤣

WhatdoesitmeanKeith · 11/12/2025 14:44

I think I know what you’re saying OP. Not the drink itself necessarily, but the idea that it is an activity of some kind. I’ve never understood it either.

Needmorelego · 11/12/2025 14:45

Iknowdino · 11/12/2025 14:38

It's in the kitchen, on the worktop next to the hob. The Christmas mugs are set out there too. So just warm up the milk and away you go. I should add I have never, out loud, referred to it as a station 🤣

Oh that makes sense 🙂

Xmasdemon · 11/12/2025 14:54

There must be people that only drink hot chocolate at Christmas ?

OopOop · 11/12/2025 14:55

WhatdoesitmeanKeith · 11/12/2025 14:44

I think I know what you’re saying OP. Not the drink itself necessarily, but the idea that it is an activity of some kind. I’ve never understood it either.

Surely it’s only the same as ‘sit down in the evening with a nice glass of wine’ type thing?

RessicaJabbit · 11/12/2025 14:57

hairyunicorn · 10/12/2025 10:00

We are actually having a Hot Chocolate Bar at work today 😂apparently it's going to be 'posh' hot chocolate with toppings. ]

Bloody hope so. For 100 people, its costing £1900

They're paying someone £19 per hot chocolate 😱😂😂😂😂

RessicaJabbit · 11/12/2025 14:59

Iknowdino · 11/12/2025 14:38

It's in the kitchen, on the worktop next to the hob. The Christmas mugs are set out there too. So just warm up the milk and away you go. I should add I have never, out loud, referred to it as a station 🤣

See this is the kind of thing other people do and it looks nice.

If I did it, it would just look like I left the mugs and paraphernalia out on the side instead of putting it away 😂

RessicaJabbit · 11/12/2025 15:01

Hot chocolate stations are a tradition that's come about because of social media.

See also matching pyjamas etc

Jom222 · 11/12/2025 15:36

its a sugary beverage that I rarely waste calories on. At holidays a big mug of it topped w/whipped cream or spiked w/baileys is a lovely treat I wouldn't otherwise have. Thus it becomes a holiday food for me. Not exotic but definitely not an everyday drink.

The way I make it is probably several hundred calories! 😳I can't afford to have hot chocolate regularly, can you let me have it as a special christmas treat please lol.

HappyToSmile · 11/12/2025 15:39

I have proper hot chocolate at home all year round. I'm not posh.

BiddyPopthe2nd · 11/12/2025 15:45

DD used to drink it most nights, to help get calories into her (underweight). With marshmallows and whipped cream from a can wasn’t unusual.

I also drink it a lot at bedtime to help me sleep. I get Butler’s chocolate version - a lump of real chocolate (milk or white) that melts into the milk. Or the chocolate flakes that Ó Connaill’s used to do (but they changed their recipe a few years ago) to melt into boiling milk. Some nights, there is a glug of Baileys in it too.

in fact, when I was home a few weeks ago and had spare capacity in my case coming back to my work location (4 year posting), I bought 4 boxes of Butlers so have 40 nights to use. You can’t get that type here at all.

Iknowdino · 11/12/2025 15:48

RessicaJabbit · 11/12/2025 14:59

See this is the kind of thing other people do and it looks nice.

If I did it, it would just look like I left the mugs and paraphernalia out on the side instead of putting it away 😂

🤣🤣 that's probably exactly what mine looks like, albeit in a terribly painted hut!

MissDoubleU · 11/12/2025 15:48

Sorry - is there something wrong with having hot chocolate at Christmas? At making a nice warm cup of hot sweet tasty goodness when it’s cold outside and you want to make an event of snuggling on the sofa?

Many people have hot chocolates yearly, otherwise I would assume they wouldn’t be so readily available in every supermarket year round. So I think you’re being a bit ridiculous. Let people enjoy their treats regardless of why day it is.

Disturbia81 · 11/12/2025 15:49

Why do we do anything?
Why do we make any traditions? Make an effort with anything? Make anything special?
Because it’s fun. Life is tedious and these things make it better.

Disturbia81 · 11/12/2025 15:49

Why do we do anything?
Why do we make any traditions? Make an effort with anything? Make anything special?
Because it’s fun. Life is tedious and these things make it better.

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 11/12/2025 15:51

A hot chocolate on a bloody cold day or night, when it's sleeting or tipping it down, snuggled up in bed with a cold or just a standard duvet day, is indescribably amazing.

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 11/12/2025 15:53

Pumpkin spice latte is probably a fetish. It's most definitely part of the autumn/fall uniform.

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