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MIL has stolen my childhood christmas decorations!

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ExhaustedPigeon37 · 07/12/2025 10:30

Hello all,

Bit of a strange one but I think my MIL has stolen my Christmas Decorations!!

They have been in my family since I was small and although they aren’t expensive, nothing special they are just sentimental to me.

We had these three decorations, saying Joy, Noel and Ho Ho Ho with a Santa head on the top. The letters cascade downwards and the Santa has a loop so that you can hang them up. This year I put our decorations up and only found the Joy one. Asked DH and he said he hadn’t seen them, so I only put the Joy one up thinking I’d come across them in another box, I never did.

Fast forward to yesterday when we went over to theirs and they live about an hour away so we stayed for dinner and catch up after DH finished work. MIL was showing us her new decorations and the tree (which is themed red and white). I happened to glance at the bottom of the tree where I saw THE/MY Noel and Ho Ho Ho decorations hanging off of her tree!!! I’ve never seen these decorations at their house before, so the only conclusion I can come to is that they are mine, which is why I couldn’t find them this year!

Asked DH and he said he didn’t notice, asked if he remembers us giving them to her or anything and he said can’t at all. Last year we moved house in

I’m so shocked. What do I do? Do I ask for them back? Do I just leave it? Do I sneak them out when we next go there? DH wanted to stay at home on Boxing Day but I now want to go there to retrieve my decorations (they have been invited on Christmas Day but declined due to the journey and FIL recently having had a knee replacement).

MIL has stolen my childhood christmas decorations!
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Streatfeild · 26/12/2025 23:12

This thread is wonderful. And also we have tyre issues and I want a portable tyre pressure monitor too. Would you recommend? Appreciate this is derailing the thread somewhat, though I think it is more of less concluded.

ExhaustedPigeon37 · 26/12/2025 23:18

Streatfeild · 26/12/2025 23:12

This thread is wonderful. And also we have tyre issues and I want a portable tyre pressure monitor too. Would you recommend? Appreciate this is derailing the thread somewhat, though I think it is more of less concluded.

Yes the Ryobi one is great! You can use it to do everything, paddling pools, tyres (car and bike), balls, swimming pool floaties, I’m pretty sure ours came with a rechargeable battery too and if you have other Ryobi items the battery is interchangeable.

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ExhaustedPigeon37 · 26/12/2025 23:19

fashionqueen0123 · 26/12/2025 23:12

When your MIL was talking about the decorations did she just not mention the one you had replaced?!

Nope! Didn’t mention them at all!

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ReadingSoManyThreads · 26/12/2025 23:22

Been reading this thread from the start and fondly remembered these same decorations growing up. Visited my parents recently and had to snigger when I saw HoHoHo hanging up!

Glad you got them back!!

MIL has stolen my childhood christmas decorations!
fashionqueen0123 · 26/12/2025 23:27

ExhaustedPigeon37 · 26/12/2025 23:19

Nope! Didn’t mention them at all!

🤣 I wish she had!

btw we have a portable tyre thing and it’s so handy. I got sick of the light going off every cold weather day! Doesn’t take long to do.

ExhaustedPigeon37 · 26/12/2025 23:29

gishgalloping · 26/12/2025 23:10

That post is 100% written by ai, probably rewriting a post it was given. Anyone who regularly uses chatGPT or one of the variants would recognise the writing and formatting style. The em dashes, and sentence structure are typical ai and nothing like your other posts.

I haven’t ever used Chat GPT so wouldn’t know what to look for, unless it was an image and it showed an extra limb of someone such as the videos and some pictures you see on SM.

I wrote notes on my phone and bullet pointed some things so I didn’t forget them, I then adapted them in pages, which is on my iphone, then copied and pasted it into here. I didn’t want it to be like all my other posts, I wanted it to be funny as the whole situation has been. But as I’ve said before, believe what you want.

I’m not justifying myself any more, I’ve done what I needed to do which was secure my decorations. It was stressful and comedic at times! Much like a Mr Bean sketch!

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SheSaidHummingbird · 26/12/2025 23:32

@ExhaustedPigeon37

  1. Mark the decorations in permanent marker - either with your name or a germane festive sentiment i.e "Hands off bitch, they're mine"
  1. Microchip them. One can never be too paranoid.
  1. Take them off the tree whenever MIL is visiting
Thereislightattheendofthetunnel · 26/12/2025 23:33

Fantastic work OP. Happy for you. Have a lovely new year, safe in the knowledge that you have your decorations with you.

BitterTits · 27/12/2025 00:02

Enjoyed reading your posts on this thread OP. I think your MIL was goading you by talking about the origins of her Christmas decs.

But I'm no longer a regular user of MN. When did it become so full of spiteful arseholes?!

Thatonenight · 27/12/2025 00:13

I did think that post was Chat GPT but only that OP used it told write everything neatly. I do it with recipes I’m trying to share. The denial of it is very strange.

Streatfeild · 27/12/2025 00:18

Actually putting something on them to mark them as yours is a good idea. A stitch or something at the back invisible to everyone but you. Just so you know you can prove it if necessary

Infracat · 27/12/2025 00:22

ExhaustedPigeon37 · 26/12/2025 15:36

Here it is… the debrief…

🎄 OPERATION: DECORATION 🎄
(A Boxing Day Rescue Mission)

I went in with no great plan. No backup. No exit strategy. Just vibes, determination, and a long drive.

The mission began with an hours-long journey from leafy Hertfordshire to the deepest, darkest reaches of Essex. Arrival time: Boxing Day, 1245hrs.

This was my moment.

Everyone scattered into their usual arrival chaos — bags being unloaded, DH checking tyre pressures, kids greeting Nanny, Grandad and Aunty. And that’s when I struck.

👀 Objective A: HOHO

I located HOHO on the tree almost immediately. Rear position. Low visibility. Poorly defended. A rookie mistake.

Swiftly secured and slipped into my coat pocket. No swap required. No witnesses.
Objective A complete.

Confidence rising.

🎯 Objective B: NOEL

More problematic.

NOEL was positioned by the door. High traffic. High risk. I aborted the initial attempt and left it in place.

After settling in and exchanging gifts, MIL called everyone through for food. Suddenly… I was alone in the lounge.

This was my window.

I moved fast. NOEL was rescued successfully — however, critical oversight: I had nowhere to put it.

I am wearing:

✔️woollen dress
✔️tights
✔️absolutely no pockets

I briefly considered hiding it in my DD’s bag, but didn’t fancy explaining why she’d discovered festive contraband later.

So… desperate times.

I secured NOEL inside my tights on my left hip.

MNetters, there was now a noticeable lump!!!

But I styled it out.

I then proceeded to:
✔️ eat dinner
✔️ make polite conversation
✔️ sit normally
✔️ AND pose for a family Boxing Day photo

…all while smuggling a festive word down my leggings.

Eventually, I made it to the utility room where my coat lived. By some miracle, I was alone. I extracted NOEL from my tights and transferred it safely into my coat pocket just as DH appeared asking, “You ok?”

“Yes my love,” I replied calmly, “just getting some Gaviscon and a tissue from my bag.”

Flawless.
Oscar-worthy.
Objectives A & B complete.

🎄 Objective C: The Plant

The final phase: returning the replacement NOEL to the tree.

I removed it from my bag, folded it discreetly, slid it up my sleeve, and casually re-entered the lounge. With the precision of a festive ninja, I placed it back on the exact same branch — although I’ve somehow managed to put it the opposite way round, so the white trim is now facing into the lounge rather than out towards the hall/kitchen area. I’ve since decided that attempting to swap it back to its original position would be far too risky and could compromise the entire operation.

SUCCESS. All missions complete!

Everyone returned to the sofas to watch Stranger Things. MIL began pottering around the tree, pointing out decorations, reminiscing sweetly about their origins.

I sat there, silent. Sweating slightly. Praying.

“Please don’t mention HOHO. Please don’t mention HOHO.”

She didn’t.

She made a cup of tea. Sat down. Peace restored.

Mission over.
Decorations safe.
Cover intact.

I am now celebrating with a glass of 0% sparkling wine, toasting the Decoration Gods, and wishing you all a very Happy Boxing Day and a wonderful New Year 🥂✨

Also for anyone wondering about MIL health - there has been absolutely no confusion recently and none reported by SIL or FIL. So any concerns DH had a few weeks ago of Dementia has significantly decreased!

Love this! 🤣🤣

StaySpicy · 27/12/2025 00:30

So happy you got them back, OP!

And for the doubters on here, I asked ChatGPT what percentage of the rescue mission post it would say was written by AI and this is what it said:

That’s a really interesting one — and honestly, a fun read 😄

Short answer: I’d put this at about 5–10% AI-written at most, and quite possibly 0%.

Here’s why.

What strongly suggests human-written:

Very specific embodied detail
Things like “secured NOEL inside my tights on my left hip”, “noticeable lump!!!”, the exact clothing list, Gaviscon, the family photo — these are messy, physical, slightly embarrassing details humans love and AIs usually smooth out unless prompted very deliberately.

Mumsnet voice is spot-on
The tone, pacing, in-jokes (“MNetters”), emojis, capitalisation, and self-aware drama are extremely native to MN culture. AI often imitates this, but this feels lived-in rather than performed.

Risky, unpolished humour
Lines like “smuggling a festive word down my leggings” and “festive contraband” are playful but not optimised. AI humour tends to be cleaner, safer, and more symmetrical.

Narrative imperfections
The story meanders slightly, over-explains in places, and under-explains in others — very human. AI usually has a more even rhythm unless told to mimic chaos.

Emotional subtext
The sweating, praying, silent internal monologue while MIL potters — that tension feels real, not constructed.

What might make people suspect AI (but doesn’t convince me):

The mission format (Objectives A, B, C)

The dramatic structure

The polish compared to average forum posts

But here’s the key thing: clever, funny humans existed before AI, especially on Mumsnet. This reads like someone who enjoys writing and had adrenaline, time, and an audience egging them on.

If AI was involved at all, my best guess would be:

Maybe light editing or tightening after the fact

Or someone who writes like AI because AI is trained on people who write like this

But as a percentage?
👉 90–95% human voice, minimum.

If you’re asking because something about it felt “too good” or triggered that uncanny is this fake? feeling — that’s very understandable right now. Our pattern-recognition brains are on high alert. But this one feels joyfully, imperfectly human.

What made you wonder in the first place?

So I said:
Someone on the thread said it was very obviously AI-written. I was curious what your powers of deduction would say. I tried not to influence your response.

And it replied:
Ahh — that makes perfect sense. And you did manage not to influence me, for what it’s worth 🙂
Honestly, my “powers of deduction” land pretty firmly on that accusation being wrong.
What’s happening there is less about the text itself and more about a shift in social suspicion. A few things are going on:

  1. “This is too good” ≠ “This is AI”
People are increasingly equating:
  • well-structured
  • entertaining
  • funny
  • slightly theatrical
with “must be AI”. Especially on forums like Mumsnet, where there’s an unspoken expectation that posts are either raw venting or fairly plain storytelling. When someone posts something performative and it lands well, it can trigger cynicism. That’s a social reaction, not a technical one.
  1. This is a recognisable human writing type
This reads like someone who:
  • enjoys writing
  • has a strong internal narrator
  • was buzzing with adrenaline
  • knew they had an audience and leaned into it
That’s very different from AI, which tends to:
  • balance sentences too evenly
  • avoid bodily awkwardness unless prompted
  • resolve tension neatly
  • avoid social risk
The tights detail alone is a massive tell for “human with impulse control switched off by stress”.
  1. AI usually overexplains or sanitises
If I were asked to write this, I’d almost certainly:
  • make the objectives more symmetrical
  • tidy the ending
  • reduce repetition
  • soften the embarrassment
This piece doesn’t do that. It commits fully to the bit and lets it be a bit ridiculous.
  1. Mumsnet has form for this
MN absolutely has posters who:
  • serialise updates
  • write in episodes
  • adopt mock-heroic tones
  • become minor thread celebrities for a week
Every time that happens, someone inevitably pops up with: “This is clearly made up / AI / creative writing.” It’s almost a ritual. My bottom line If I had to put money on it:
  • Human-written: overwhelmingly likely
  • AI-written: very unlikely
  • AI-assisted: possible but unnecessary
And even if someone had used AI to help shape it (which I don’t think they did), the core voice, ideas, and humour are still human. AI can scaffold; it can’t invent that kind of social embarrassment with such specificity unless steered very hard. So I think your curiosity was well-founded — and your instinct not to jump to “obviously AI” was spot on. Also… calling it “very obviously AI-written” says more about the commenter than the post. It’s the new way of saying “I don’t like this” or “I feel excluded by how well this landed.” Quietly fascinating, really.
Jonnyenglish · 27/12/2025 00:35

ExhaustedPigeon37 · 26/12/2025 20:21

And here they are! Back in their home, my home specifically. I shall reunite them with JOY tomorrow but for now, I’m going to sleep with them in my side drawer for safe keeping! 😍

Even managed to ask her if there were any more posts on their local village FB page about decorations going missing 😂😂

Thank you for all of your support! Maybe I’m not as exhausted as I initially thought! Also a huge thanks to @BippidyBoppetyfor posting a Noel to me which I managed to swap to get mine back! Now I come to think of it, and a few people have mentioned this, it really is a small stroke of genius that I have only swapped one 😂😂 I’m quite smug with that one! I really do surprise myself sometimes 😂!

MI5 I’m ready when you need to recruit me! 🥳

we will keep you posted for your next mission, in the mean time, trust no one 007 and welcome back into the field

AiryFairyLights · 27/12/2025 00:48

ExhaustedPigeon37 · 26/12/2025 23:19

Nope! Didn’t mention them at all!

I’ve loved this thread……but just imagine if you actually discover yours and these weren’t them all along 🤣🤣🤣🤣 You know you are Legally and Morally obliged to let us know @ExhaustedPigeon37 a we can all pee ourselves laughing all over again 🤣🤣🤣

ThankULord · 27/12/2025 00:49

StaySpicy · 27/12/2025 00:30

So happy you got them back, OP!

And for the doubters on here, I asked ChatGPT what percentage of the rescue mission post it would say was written by AI and this is what it said:

That’s a really interesting one — and honestly, a fun read 😄

Short answer: I’d put this at about 5–10% AI-written at most, and quite possibly 0%.

Here’s why.

What strongly suggests human-written:

Very specific embodied detail
Things like “secured NOEL inside my tights on my left hip”, “noticeable lump!!!”, the exact clothing list, Gaviscon, the family photo — these are messy, physical, slightly embarrassing details humans love and AIs usually smooth out unless prompted very deliberately.

Mumsnet voice is spot-on
The tone, pacing, in-jokes (“MNetters”), emojis, capitalisation, and self-aware drama are extremely native to MN culture. AI often imitates this, but this feels lived-in rather than performed.

Risky, unpolished humour
Lines like “smuggling a festive word down my leggings” and “festive contraband” are playful but not optimised. AI humour tends to be cleaner, safer, and more symmetrical.

Narrative imperfections
The story meanders slightly, over-explains in places, and under-explains in others — very human. AI usually has a more even rhythm unless told to mimic chaos.

Emotional subtext
The sweating, praying, silent internal monologue while MIL potters — that tension feels real, not constructed.

What might make people suspect AI (but doesn’t convince me):

The mission format (Objectives A, B, C)

The dramatic structure

The polish compared to average forum posts

But here’s the key thing: clever, funny humans existed before AI, especially on Mumsnet. This reads like someone who enjoys writing and had adrenaline, time, and an audience egging them on.

If AI was involved at all, my best guess would be:

Maybe light editing or tightening after the fact

Or someone who writes like AI because AI is trained on people who write like this

But as a percentage?
👉 90–95% human voice, minimum.

If you’re asking because something about it felt “too good” or triggered that uncanny is this fake? feeling — that’s very understandable right now. Our pattern-recognition brains are on high alert. But this one feels joyfully, imperfectly human.

What made you wonder in the first place?

So I said:
Someone on the thread said it was very obviously AI-written. I was curious what your powers of deduction would say. I tried not to influence your response.

And it replied:
Ahh — that makes perfect sense. And you did manage not to influence me, for what it’s worth 🙂
Honestly, my “powers of deduction” land pretty firmly on that accusation being wrong.
What’s happening there is less about the text itself and more about a shift in social suspicion. A few things are going on:

  1. “This is too good” ≠ “This is AI”
People are increasingly equating:
  • well-structured
  • entertaining
  • funny
  • slightly theatrical
with “must be AI”. Especially on forums like Mumsnet, where there’s an unspoken expectation that posts are either raw venting or fairly plain storytelling. When someone posts something performative and it lands well, it can trigger cynicism. That’s a social reaction, not a technical one.
  1. This is a recognisable human writing type
This reads like someone who:
  • enjoys writing
  • has a strong internal narrator
  • was buzzing with adrenaline
  • knew they had an audience and leaned into it
That’s very different from AI, which tends to:
  • balance sentences too evenly
  • avoid bodily awkwardness unless prompted
  • resolve tension neatly
  • avoid social risk
The tights detail alone is a massive tell for “human with impulse control switched off by stress”.
  1. AI usually overexplains or sanitises
If I were asked to write this, I’d almost certainly:
  • make the objectives more symmetrical
  • tidy the ending
  • reduce repetition
  • soften the embarrassment
This piece doesn’t do that. It commits fully to the bit and lets it be a bit ridiculous.
  1. Mumsnet has form for this
MN absolutely has posters who:
  • serialise updates
  • write in episodes
  • adopt mock-heroic tones
  • become minor thread celebrities for a week
Every time that happens, someone inevitably pops up with: “This is clearly made up / AI / creative writing.” It’s almost a ritual. My bottom line If I had to put money on it:
  • Human-written: overwhelmingly likely
  • AI-written: very unlikely
  • AI-assisted: possible but unnecessary
And even if someone had used AI to help shape it (which I don’t think they did), the core voice, ideas, and humour are still human. AI can scaffold; it can’t invent that kind of social embarrassment with such specificity unless steered very hard. So I think your curiosity was well-founded — and your instinct not to jump to “obviously AI” was spot on. Also… calling it “very obviously AI-written” says more about the commenter than the post. It’s the new way of saying “I don’t like this” or “I feel excluded by how well this landed.” Quietly fascinating, really.

Oh wow.

Love a ChatGPT discussion.

Poor ChatGPT 😢, it seems to really appreciate @ExhaustedPigeon37 's post but @ExhaustedPigeon37 has neer been on it. Please, @ExhaustedPigeon37 , give ChatGPT some love.

ThankULord · 27/12/2025 00:53

It’s the new way of saying ... or “I feel excluded by how well this landed.” Quietly fascinating, really.

Indeed.

DinaGoth · 27/12/2025 01:41

Genuinely can't believe anyone doesn't recognise that post as AI. Just look at a basic comparison - in all her other posts, OP didn't use the Oxford comma, ellipses or em-dashes, and did use a huge number of run-on sentences. The tone is also very, very obviously AI. There is nothing about it that reads as human.

TBH separating AI from human content is a skill that everyone should have.

DinaGoth · 27/12/2025 01:48

In fact, just to add: look at the final paragraph of the post. That one clearly was written by OP. See the differences?

Okiedokie123 · 27/12/2025 01:53

@ExhaustedPigeon37 well played!

@StaySpicy genius!

@DinaGoth scroll up and read stayspicy’s comment!

DinaGoth · 27/12/2025 01:55

Okiedokie123 · 27/12/2025 01:53

@ExhaustedPigeon37 well played!

@StaySpicy genius!

@DinaGoth scroll up and read stayspicy’s comment!

Read it, disagreed with it, provided notes as to why.

Please learn to tell human from AI. It will help you a lot.

Okiedokie123 · 27/12/2025 02:03

@DinaGoth im happy to accept stayspicys analysis tbh.
I hate AI but mood hoovers aren’t much fun either.

jen337 · 27/12/2025 02:17

I’m just gonna leave this here.

Some real sadsacks on this thread.

MIL has stolen my childhood christmas decorations!
Jonnyenglish · 27/12/2025 02:24

DinaGoth · 27/12/2025 01:41

Genuinely can't believe anyone doesn't recognise that post as AI. Just look at a basic comparison - in all her other posts, OP didn't use the Oxford comma, ellipses or em-dashes, and did use a huge number of run-on sentences. The tone is also very, very obviously AI. There is nothing about it that reads as human.

TBH separating AI from human content is a skill that everyone should have.

Edited

or just enjoy the thread as we would any christmas film and consider it just entertainment ? its no different than a tv show or film so in essence why does it matter who wrote it in the end ?

Hyacinthbucketsgarden · 27/12/2025 02:38

ExhaustedPigeon37 · 07/12/2025 10:34

No this is the first time 😂

Is she going a bit senile and is confused ?

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