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MIL has stolen my childhood christmas decorations!

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ExhaustedPigeon37 · 07/12/2025 10:30

Hello all,

Bit of a strange one but I think my MIL has stolen my Christmas Decorations!!

They have been in my family since I was small and although they aren’t expensive, nothing special they are just sentimental to me.

We had these three decorations, saying Joy, Noel and Ho Ho Ho with a Santa head on the top. The letters cascade downwards and the Santa has a loop so that you can hang them up. This year I put our decorations up and only found the Joy one. Asked DH and he said he hadn’t seen them, so I only put the Joy one up thinking I’d come across them in another box, I never did.

Fast forward to yesterday when we went over to theirs and they live about an hour away so we stayed for dinner and catch up after DH finished work. MIL was showing us her new decorations and the tree (which is themed red and white). I happened to glance at the bottom of the tree where I saw THE/MY Noel and Ho Ho Ho decorations hanging off of her tree!!! I’ve never seen these decorations at their house before, so the only conclusion I can come to is that they are mine, which is why I couldn’t find them this year!

Asked DH and he said he didn’t notice, asked if he remembers us giving them to her or anything and he said can’t at all. Last year we moved house in

I’m so shocked. What do I do? Do I ask for them back? Do I just leave it? Do I sneak them out when we next go there? DH wanted to stay at home on Boxing Day but I now want to go there to retrieve my decorations (they have been invited on Christmas Day but declined due to the journey and FIL recently having had a knee replacement).

MIL has stolen my childhood christmas decorations!
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heathspeedwell · 26/12/2025 17:30

So glad you got them back. My MIL had an in-law who stole some of her favourite Christmas tree decorations too. This in-law was always jealous of my MIL.

My MIL only found them after her relative sadly passed away.

FishPie2 · 26/12/2025 17:33

rainbowstardrops · 26/12/2025 16:53

Absolutely ridiculous. Why didn’t you just have a conversation with her like an adult?
I’m sure I live in a parallel universe to MN sometimes.

Come on, where is your sense of humour. This has been fun and nobody got hurt and bet MIL will never notice and OP has got her decorations back without a confrontation.

ExhaustedPigeon37 · 26/12/2025 17:42

dapsnotplimsolls · 26/12/2025 16:33

Excellent work. When does she normally take her decorations down?

No idea! But I won’t be seeing her until Feb after today! 😂😂

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ExhaustedPigeon37 · 26/12/2025 17:49

Thank you all. I shall update when home and decorations are safe 😂

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Justmadesourkraut · 26/12/2025 17:50

And if she does ask you in Feb, or before, if you have seen her Hoho, you smile sweetly and say 'I do remember seeing it on your tree, and thinking how lovely it is. But I already have the same one along with a Noel one. You have that too don't you?'

And then just leave her trying to work out why she's now only got one decoration.

(And if next year she demands to see them, just say that they are too precious to put out now, as they were your mums and so very special that you are keeping them in a moment box/to pass onto your dd in future)

WeeAgnes · 26/12/2025 17:53

@Justmadesourkraut
If my MIL ever asks if I have seen her HoHo, I'll be too shocked to reply 😳 and pass, politely...

🤣

REP22 · 26/12/2025 18:00

Brilliantly written debrief @ExhaustedPigeon37 - I'm glad you secured your festive lads' return. Top stuff. I once had to conceal an entire chicken curry in my bra and pants, in front of numerous unsuspecting witnesses, and walk across a hotel lobby and stairs with my traitorous secretions desperately contained. One of my finest - yet worst - hours. Much kudos to you. x

MorningCoffeePlease · 26/12/2025 18:08

Well done @ExhaustedPigeon37 - brilliant 😀

cornflakecrunchie · 26/12/2025 18:10

Not sure what job you do, @ExhaustedPigeon37 , but you definitely missed your vocation!

diddl · 26/12/2025 18:11

ExhaustedPigeon37 · 26/12/2025 17:42

No idea! But I won’t be seeing her until Feb after today! 😂😂

Long enough to deny all knowledge.

Why would you have a clue what's on her tree anyway?

JoshLymanSwagger · 26/12/2025 18:18

Well done @ExhaustedPigeon37
Have you ever considered a career in international espionage?
😎🍹

outerspacepotato · 26/12/2025 18:19

Job well done.

Secure them with a glitter bomb so if she tries to retake them, well, a vacuum is a small sacrifice to thwarting your hoho thieving mil.

CameltoeParkerBowles · 26/12/2025 18:23

ExhaustedPigeon37 · 26/12/2025 15:36

Here it is… the debrief…

🎄 OPERATION: DECORATION 🎄
(A Boxing Day Rescue Mission)

I went in with no great plan. No backup. No exit strategy. Just vibes, determination, and a long drive.

The mission began with an hours-long journey from leafy Hertfordshire to the deepest, darkest reaches of Essex. Arrival time: Boxing Day, 1245hrs.

This was my moment.

Everyone scattered into their usual arrival chaos — bags being unloaded, DH checking tyre pressures, kids greeting Nanny, Grandad and Aunty. And that’s when I struck.

👀 Objective A: HOHO

I located HOHO on the tree almost immediately. Rear position. Low visibility. Poorly defended. A rookie mistake.

Swiftly secured and slipped into my coat pocket. No swap required. No witnesses.
Objective A complete.

Confidence rising.

🎯 Objective B: NOEL

More problematic.

NOEL was positioned by the door. High traffic. High risk. I aborted the initial attempt and left it in place.

After settling in and exchanging gifts, MIL called everyone through for food. Suddenly… I was alone in the lounge.

This was my window.

I moved fast. NOEL was rescued successfully — however, critical oversight: I had nowhere to put it.

I am wearing:

✔️woollen dress
✔️tights
✔️absolutely no pockets

I briefly considered hiding it in my DD’s bag, but didn’t fancy explaining why she’d discovered festive contraband later.

So… desperate times.

I secured NOEL inside my tights on my left hip.

MNetters, there was now a noticeable lump!!!

But I styled it out.

I then proceeded to:
✔️ eat dinner
✔️ make polite conversation
✔️ sit normally
✔️ AND pose for a family Boxing Day photo

…all while smuggling a festive word down my leggings.

Eventually, I made it to the utility room where my coat lived. By some miracle, I was alone. I extracted NOEL from my tights and transferred it safely into my coat pocket just as DH appeared asking, “You ok?”

“Yes my love,” I replied calmly, “just getting some Gaviscon and a tissue from my bag.”

Flawless.
Oscar-worthy.
Objectives A & B complete.

🎄 Objective C: The Plant

The final phase: returning the replacement NOEL to the tree.

I removed it from my bag, folded it discreetly, slid it up my sleeve, and casually re-entered the lounge. With the precision of a festive ninja, I placed it back on the exact same branch — although I’ve somehow managed to put it the opposite way round, so the white trim is now facing into the lounge rather than out towards the hall/kitchen area. I’ve since decided that attempting to swap it back to its original position would be far too risky and could compromise the entire operation.

SUCCESS. All missions complete!

Everyone returned to the sofas to watch Stranger Things. MIL began pottering around the tree, pointing out decorations, reminiscing sweetly about their origins.

I sat there, silent. Sweating slightly. Praying.

“Please don’t mention HOHO. Please don’t mention HOHO.”

She didn’t.

She made a cup of tea. Sat down. Peace restored.

Mission over.
Decorations safe.
Cover intact.

I am now celebrating with a glass of 0% sparkling wine, toasting the Decoration Gods, and wishing you all a very Happy Boxing Day and a wonderful New Year 🥂✨

Also for anyone wondering about MIL health - there has been absolutely no confusion recently and none reported by SIL or FIL. So any concerns DH had a few weeks ago of Dementia has significantly decreased!

Brilliant! Excellent work, Exhausted Pigeon.

AbbaCadaBra · 26/12/2025 18:33

UninitendedShark · 26/12/2025 17:15

Absolutely this has been the highlight of my Christmas! And I’ve had a nice Christmas.

Well done! Expect to be recruited by MI5 imminently.

Your n Christmas can’t have been that good if this was its highlight. Hope your luck improves in the coming year.

AbbaCadaBra · 26/12/2025 18:37

JoshLymanSwagger · 26/12/2025 18:18

Well done @ExhaustedPigeon37
Have you ever considered a career in international espionage?
😎🍹

They’d be blabbing all the secrets all over Mumsnet.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 26/12/2025 18:47

I'm so happy for you, congratulations. I was on tenterhooks from the 08/12 😂
Enjoy them

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 26/12/2025 18:48

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 26/12/2025 18:47

I'm so happy for you, congratulations. I was on tenterhooks from the 08/12 😂
Enjoy them

Ps, aren't there a lot of twats on mn 😂

Hello87abc · 26/12/2025 18:58

This is the funniest thing I’ve read all day 🤣

Walkerzoo · 26/12/2025 19:02

Fabulous news. :)

AxolotlEars · 26/12/2025 19:10

ExhaustedPigeon37 · 26/12/2025 15:36

Here it is… the debrief…

🎄 OPERATION: DECORATION 🎄
(A Boxing Day Rescue Mission)

I went in with no great plan. No backup. No exit strategy. Just vibes, determination, and a long drive.

The mission began with an hours-long journey from leafy Hertfordshire to the deepest, darkest reaches of Essex. Arrival time: Boxing Day, 1245hrs.

This was my moment.

Everyone scattered into their usual arrival chaos — bags being unloaded, DH checking tyre pressures, kids greeting Nanny, Grandad and Aunty. And that’s when I struck.

👀 Objective A: HOHO

I located HOHO on the tree almost immediately. Rear position. Low visibility. Poorly defended. A rookie mistake.

Swiftly secured and slipped into my coat pocket. No swap required. No witnesses.
Objective A complete.

Confidence rising.

🎯 Objective B: NOEL

More problematic.

NOEL was positioned by the door. High traffic. High risk. I aborted the initial attempt and left it in place.

After settling in and exchanging gifts, MIL called everyone through for food. Suddenly… I was alone in the lounge.

This was my window.

I moved fast. NOEL was rescued successfully — however, critical oversight: I had nowhere to put it.

I am wearing:

✔️woollen dress
✔️tights
✔️absolutely no pockets

I briefly considered hiding it in my DD’s bag, but didn’t fancy explaining why she’d discovered festive contraband later.

So… desperate times.

I secured NOEL inside my tights on my left hip.

MNetters, there was now a noticeable lump!!!

But I styled it out.

I then proceeded to:
✔️ eat dinner
✔️ make polite conversation
✔️ sit normally
✔️ AND pose for a family Boxing Day photo

…all while smuggling a festive word down my leggings.

Eventually, I made it to the utility room where my coat lived. By some miracle, I was alone. I extracted NOEL from my tights and transferred it safely into my coat pocket just as DH appeared asking, “You ok?”

“Yes my love,” I replied calmly, “just getting some Gaviscon and a tissue from my bag.”

Flawless.
Oscar-worthy.
Objectives A & B complete.

🎄 Objective C: The Plant

The final phase: returning the replacement NOEL to the tree.

I removed it from my bag, folded it discreetly, slid it up my sleeve, and casually re-entered the lounge. With the precision of a festive ninja, I placed it back on the exact same branch — although I’ve somehow managed to put it the opposite way round, so the white trim is now facing into the lounge rather than out towards the hall/kitchen area. I’ve since decided that attempting to swap it back to its original position would be far too risky and could compromise the entire operation.

SUCCESS. All missions complete!

Everyone returned to the sofas to watch Stranger Things. MIL began pottering around the tree, pointing out decorations, reminiscing sweetly about their origins.

I sat there, silent. Sweating slightly. Praying.

“Please don’t mention HOHO. Please don’t mention HOHO.”

She didn’t.

She made a cup of tea. Sat down. Peace restored.

Mission over.
Decorations safe.
Cover intact.

I am now celebrating with a glass of 0% sparkling wine, toasting the Decoration Gods, and wishing you all a very Happy Boxing Day and a wonderful New Year 🥂✨

Also for anyone wondering about MIL health - there has been absolutely no confusion recently and none reported by SIL or FIL. So any concerns DH had a few weeks ago of Dementia has significantly decreased!

Brilliant...I can imagine it as a Christmas movie starring Bryony from Arthur Christmas.

Wonderfulstuff · 26/12/2025 19:13

An entire box of decorations has gone missing this year from my loft.

OP - could you check your MIL's for me... might need to go with MC Hammer pants instead of tights though? 😂😂

PS - so glad your reunited with your decs!

bigboykitty · 26/12/2025 19:16

Brava OP. Please wire them onto the tree next year.

Whatonearth07957 · 26/12/2025 19:18

Operation steal back successful! Brilliant update, well done OP. I was so invested. MIL underestimated you and found out

Usethoseballsofjellyinyourhead · 26/12/2025 19:23

The absolute stroke of genius is only replacing one of them. When she sees your decorations next year she will not be able to work out what has happened to her one missing decoration, as you've obviously not taken it as you've got the full set!

JustLookingThanks · 26/12/2025 19:28

Love this tread, I've wondering if you should get her a Strawberry Thief by William Morris Christmas Decoration for next year. Now you have them, mark them in some way, some sequins on the back, an embroidered initial or your name phone number and address 🤣, a tracker? That way no one will get confused about who they belong to.

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