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Merry Christmas not happy.

33 replies

Tallerandtall · 24/12/2024 07:17

Does this wind others up?

It is Merry Christmas and a happy new year.

not happy Christmas !

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Lookingforwardto2025 · 24/12/2024 07:18

I do happy Christmas because my grandma didn't like merry as it suggested partying and alcohol drinking etc rather than focusing on the birth of Christ. It is just a habit now.

FlickFlackTrap · 24/12/2024 07:19

Nope. Just you.

Happy Christmas Eve!

GeorgeMichaelsCat · 24/12/2024 07:19

I thought this was about you not being happy at Christmas Xmas Blush

MrsWhites · 24/12/2024 07:20

Not just you, happy Christmas sets my teeth on edge.

Don’t get me started on Xmas or crimbo!

GiraffesAtThePark · 24/12/2024 07:21

It was traditionally Happy Christmas wasn’t it? So some people like the traditional greeting. Merry is more American. I expected to see people complaining about Merry being used instead of Happy. There’s also a class difference I’ve noticed. Royals say Happy.

Monkeybutt1 · 24/12/2024 07:22

I tend to say Merry Christmas as it's DH's birthday so it's Merry Christmas and Happy Birthday but Happy Christmas doesn't bother me

Iliketulips · 24/12/2024 07:24

I really don't care which someone is wishing me, the sentiment is there.

ignatiusjreilly · 24/12/2024 07:26

I remember as a child wishing an elderly lady at church a "merry Christmas" and she told me off for saying it! Not correct, apparently.

I think "happy Christmas" is more British and "merry" more American.

Changingname1988 · 24/12/2024 07:26

I agree with PP, I think Happy Christmas is the traditional British greeting.

I don’t mind Merry, but I am disproportionately annoyed by people in the UK now saying “on Christmas” rather than “at Christmas”. It seems to have happened along with saying “on the weekend” rather than “at the weekend”.

I imagine every generation have Americanisms we’ve grown up with and now use instead of British English, but also the newer ones we bridle at…

TheLurpackYears · 24/12/2024 07:28

Father Christmas not Santa.
So there!

Zonder · 24/12/2024 07:53

I tend to say Merry Christmas but I'm fine with either. If Happy Christmas was good enough for the Queen it's good enough for me.

LimeYellow · 24/12/2024 07:54

Either Merry Christmas or Happy Christmas is fine. What a weird thing to get upset about.

AuntieMarys · 24/12/2024 07:54

Compliments of the season

NellyTimes · 24/12/2024 08:34

Many Yuletide felicitations to your good self.

AprilShowerslastforHours · 24/12/2024 08:45

According to Carry On (new Netflix thriller) ‘Happy Christmas’ is the British version.

ChannelFiveDrama · 24/12/2024 08:48

I always say Merry Christmas until the day and then Happy Christmas on 25th. Don't ask me why.

paranoiaofpufflings · 24/12/2024 08:49

"Merry Christmas" became a popular greeting after Charles Dickens published A Christmas Carol. There is no right or wrong way to give someone good wishes at a festive time.

Purplecatshopaholic · 24/12/2024 08:50

Nothing wrong with Happy Christmas op, don’t be daft, lol.

AtmosAtmos · 24/12/2024 08:51

Just nice to get a greeting

ByHeartyCyanMentor · 24/12/2024 08:51

TheLurpackYears · 24/12/2024 07:28

Father Christmas not Santa.
So there!

This.
I don’t care if you wish me a Merry or Happy Christmas, but Father Christmas visits is not Santa.

Oreyt · 24/12/2024 08:54

I prefer Happy Christmas to Happy Holidays.

DDs school put this in their letter. Are we not allowed to call it Christmas these days? 😡😡

Chocolately · 24/12/2024 09:04

Glad to say, You aren't in charge, OP.
Happy Christmas.

Zonder · 24/12/2024 09:04

Oreyt · 24/12/2024 08:54

I prefer Happy Christmas to Happy Holidays.

DDs school put this in their letter. Are we not allowed to call it Christmas these days? 😡😡

Oh for Pete's sake. It's not to get rid of Christmas. It's to be inclusive of the different holidays. Including Christmas.

BarbaraHoward · 24/12/2024 09:07

I much prefer Happy Christmas, I'd only use merry Christmas if following up with Happy New Year.

DH and I have been having this debate for 20 years. Grin

glastogal · 24/12/2024 09:08

Oreyt · 24/12/2024 08:54

I prefer Happy Christmas to Happy Holidays.

DDs school put this in their letter. Are we not allowed to call it Christmas these days? 😡😡

More than just Christmas is celebrated this time of year. I think they are just being inclusive rather than shoving Christmas down the throats of people that don't observe it.