I watched a ton of hallmark Christmas films last year with 12yo ds. After watching three, we made a bingo list:
Child with a dead parent
Gingerbread house competition
The 'Best Little Town" something-or-other
Famous person (eg newscaster, journalist, weather person)
Snowball fight
A person anti-xmas becoming pro
Santa Clause visit
Snowman building
Hot chocolate
Homely grandparents
Shop or hotel closing, being saved by pure Christmas spirit
Etc.
It's great fun! I can't remember the names of any of them, but they're all cheesy fun.
Real-films wise, it's Die Hard and Muppets Christmas Carol all the way. Polar Express was usually played in the deep hot days of August! Then forgotten by Christmas. We don't watch it now, it gives us all the creeps. We often watch Grinch Jim Carrey or Grinch cartoon. Hate the Holiday, hate Love Actually, hate Elf, totally unfunny. (But love Zoolander - Mugatu! And Anchorman, it's just Elf that fails to tickle my funnybone).
We won't watch anything until December.