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Going to a friend’s house for Christmas Day… what to take?

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Itisallgoingtobeok · 01/12/2023 20:02

This year my marriage failed spectacularly, and so this will be my first Christmas alone. A work colleague who I have known for years has invited me to join him, his new partner and her two daughters who are in their early to mid 20s. I am so touched by their kindness. Of course I know him very well, but I don’t know his partner or the daughters at all. I have offered to help cook, or bring some food, but they have said no (nicely!). I’d like to take something with me, either presents for each of them, or I wondered about a hamper. The hampers I have seen don’t look great, so all ideas for what I could take with me are gratefully received!

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JenniferJupiterVenusandMars · 03/12/2023 15:46

DaisyDoor · 01/12/2023 20:44

I’d be annoyed if I specifically asked someone not to bring anything and they turned up with bloody cheese Christmas tree 😂 If it’s food for the day you need to agree it with them.

I completely agree.
I think I would take some really nice chocolates and a couple of bottles of wine.
Personally I would like to be given a nice fruit selection 🤞🏻

DoDoDoD · 03/12/2023 16:03

Itisallgoingtobeok · 03/12/2023 15:18

Thanks for all the great ideas everyone. As the kids are grown-up I have decided to go with a couple of nice bottles of wine and a gift voucher for a restaurant I know they go to regularly, so in the New Year they can treat themselves.

I really am touched that they have done this for me. It really is very kind.

Merry Christmas everyone.

That sounds perfect OP, gives them something to look forward to in the New Year

LaurieStrode · 03/12/2023 18:59

I really wouldn't take the voucher. It's too much like paying them for hospitality.

The way to reciprocate is to invite them in return, either to your home or a restaurant.

MissingMoominMamma · 04/12/2023 11:51

I’d do table presents for each. Socks, lip balm, chocs, a miniature bottle of something and a lottery ticket.

And a bottle of champagne.

MissingMoominMamma · 04/12/2023 11:52

Sorry- missed your update. The voucher idea is lovely!!

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