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Does anyone not 'do' stockings?

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Stressfordays · 19/12/2022 14:40

I'm wondering if I'm the strange one but we've never done stockings? No one I know does them either? Presents get wrapped and put under the tree. I didn't have them as a kid and my parents didn't either. We call the cheaper bits you buy stocking fillers but don't actually put them in a stocking. Am I doing Christmas wrong? 🤣

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ilovesushi · 22/12/2022 18:54

We put the Santa sacks in the living room by the fireplace. I used to put them in their bedrooms but the sneaking in was too stressful. Much easier for me and Santa by the fire.

NoNameNowAgain · 22/12/2022 19:08

Delatron · 22/12/2022 18:48

Is it a middle class/working class thing?

We were all about Santa - so big Santa sacks left out by the fireplace. The excitement of getting up at 6am and waiting to be allowed to burst in to the room to see the overflowing sacks! No presents under the tree really. Northern, working class Christmas. All presents open by about 7am!!

DH hated it when I tried to recreate this for my kids when they were young. He only wanted a few presents from Santa - the rest out under the tree before Christmas- but then where’s the excitement in that? Then his parents drag the present opening thing out for hours and hours whilst we all watch each other open them (and the kids have had to wait). Awful. One year I got told off for getting on with the Christmas lunch prep (we were in an open plan kitchen so I could still watch the endless present opening) I had to ‘sit down and watch’

I think it probably is to some extent. I relate to this clash. DH wanting to sit around doing everything slowly and me wanting to parboil the bloody potatoes.
My brother in law pointed out that they never had this problem because they did presents round the tree on Christmas Eve after dinner with their German speaking relations.

DappledThings · 22/12/2022 19:25

We only had stockings in the morning. Tree presents were for after the big meal, about 3pm.

MyGrandmaLizzie · 22/12/2022 19:43

This is the first time I'm not doing stockings fir my DC (mid 20s). I bought them each an chocolate advent calendar and one hadn't opened it yet and the other was opened on 28th. I won't be buying any next year.

Always4Brenner · 22/12/2022 19:45

Never had them growing up did some in adult hood in first marriage I did both I stopped after a while now I’m on my own I’ll do my own bits through the year.

healthadvice123 · 22/12/2022 20:13

We don't and also never had them as kids
We sometimes had sacks that presents go put in , just to make things easy and not have to sort them all in the morning when kids were little and got loads of things

NoNameNowAgain · 23/12/2022 06:38

“Is it a middle class/working class thing?”
I’m working on the theory that most of the British working class didn’t have a Christmas tree until well into the twentieth century. With large families and low wages presents would be almost entirely from parents to children. The stocking with ‘an apple and an orange and a piece of coal’ and not much else was replaced in more affluent times with a pillow case or a heap. The concept of Santa presents and other presents isn’t possible with one small stocking so must have taken a while to evolve.
I’m speculating that sitting exchanging presents around the tree is a more middle class tradition which perhaps always co-existed with stockings in more affluent homes.

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