Hello
After advice please
Yesterday my daughter (6 nearly 7 and bright/doesn't miss a trick) was building a den with blankets around my work desk. Didn't think anything of it until this morning. She asked me a question that made me stop and double take.
On my desk are many notebooks. At the back of one of these notebook (my christmas planning one) i have listed all the presents I have purchased for her bday and Xmas (they are close together) I have listed her stocking items, the items santa is bringing and then the presents we have got and what I have asked wider family to get. I also have lists for wider family presents, food, Xmas cards.
I think she found the notebook when playing ans read it based on the question she asked this morning. I'm very cross and hurt, I haven't asked her outright but I have asked her if she has anything she wants to tell me and she said no.
I have now removed these pages from the notebook. My initial thought is to write a message for her if she returns to the book along the lines of 'I know you have read this - all presents have been returned. Please do not look in my notebooks again'
My husband says this is very mean and it's natural for kids to snoop etc.
Any advice please?
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Primula78 · 14/11/2022 09:36
Heartstopper · 14/11/2022 09:43
That would be a very mean message to write.
The lesson here is for you: don't leave things you don't want read lying around! You said yourself, she is bright and doesn't miss a trick. Well, she didn't miss this one! FWIW, I once went snooping where I knew my mother kept our gifts and found everything I was getting for my birthday and Christmas (also close together). It utterly spoilt the festivities for me that year, and your dd will probably feel the same this year.
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