Yes, it’s one of the things I really like about this book. I especially like that although Nigel is an atheist he is still respectful of the Christian heritage of this Kingdom and of others, and this holiday (and also of the traditions that pre-date it), and doesn’t sneer at concepts such as prayer, devotion, gathering to worship, etc. I can’t abide it when people sneer at things they don’t understand. Spirituality matters to a great deal of people, Christian or otherwise, and respect ought to be afforded to those whose faith matters greatly to them (with some obvious caveats!). But that’s really a discussion for another day...
On Christmas without the meaningful aspects, I absolutely agree with you - we certainly wouldn’t do it if there wasn’t anything in it but consumerism/materialism. There are many layers of meaning for me. Too complex to talk about here (I was raised as a Christian hippie of sorts, rejected it all as a young woman, and am now coming round to a less vehement view on those who do believe). As the world gets ever more batshit crazy, I place much more value on the need for a spirituality of some kind to balance humanity’s other elements.
Christmas for me means family, friendship, memories of loved ones, an appreciation of history, heritage, and the importance of coming together, no matter what is happening or has happened in the world at large or in our own small worlds. A deep understanding that these traditions and rituals do matter.
I stirred the pudding from east to west. Not because it actually matters which way I stirred it (of course it doesn’t) but because for me keeping to tradition matters. It creates a mindfulness, a mindset that values what was before. Not necessarily all of it, of course. But valuing what came before means we’re more likely to value what is now. Traditions, customs, rituals - little memories of how it’s always been done - tie together all the strands of our pasts and connect us to them and to each other, here in the present, and in the future. These are the ties that bind.