My grown-up daughter is widowed with a young family since she lost her husband 4 years ago I’ve always tried to make Christmas the best I possibly can for her.
Last year they came to me but a lot of stuff has happened over the past year. My husband has been truly horrible to my other son and We do nothing but argue.He is a miserable man who sucks the joy from everything. Cut a Long story Short a couple of times husband got really drunk and threw me out of the house I’ve had to knock my daughter up to let me in at 11:12 o’clock at night so understandably she’s flatly refusing to spend Christmas around my husband. In all fairness
When I said to him about having Christmas dinner at my daughters he flatly refused saying he wasn’t going up there and eat his dinner off his lap ( Big family small house)
So tomorrow I’m going out to my daughters house I’m cooking them their dinner spending two or three hours with them and my son and my grand children and I’m then coming home and cooking dinner for myself and my husband.
However he has come home from work tonight raging won’t tell me what about, ( it will be me it always is ) Face like a slapped arse and I’m pretty sure it’s because I’m going up to my daughters tomorrow ,I don’t think I’m in the wrong however I would like someone else’s perspective on this situation.