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My annual "Help me find a present for my wife" Mumsnet thread

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Carleatspeas · 02/12/2021 09:45

Hi Mumsnet,

For the past five years or so, I've started a similar thread and Mumsnet have helped me finding some great presents for my wife. Highlights have been Cashmere jumpers, Chameau wellies and lots of stuff from Wolf and Badger type stores.

My wife is 44, loves dogs, cheese, travel, make up and all sorts of stuff I don't understand. Who knew that £100 for a tiny pot of something is a good idea?? We live by the coast in Dorset, so are outdoorsy people.

Anyway, I'm looking to you all again for inspiration. She has mentioned two thing this year: Airpods (Done, easy. I learnt the hard way that when a woman says she wants "Apple Airpods" get her Apple Airpods, not the far superior product from another brand).
Also a coat. I'm a bit stumped here as she has said she would really love a Gucci styled long wool one. That's a minefield, but I'm guessing she means something that wouldn't look out of place on the streets of Paris.

I'd really appreciate any ideas. Big or small!

In return for your help, I will answer any questions about male presents you care to give. Some top tips:

  1. No one wants branded shitty merchandise from their football team. A shirt maybe, but not an annual.
  2. Saying that, autobiographies are cool.
  3. Just because I fleetingly mentioned that I might go fishing/ cycling/ rock climbing, does not mean I want an absolute boatload of stuff from Decathlon to achieve this.
  4. We actually really like socks, pants and that sort of thing.
  5. Yes we still like Lego.
  6. Please don't get me a high fashion shirt/ jumper/ T-shirt that I will feel a right tit wearing. There's a reason we only dress in blue, grey, green and black.

Thanks in advance!

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Defiantlynot41 · 05/12/2022 13:09

@Carleatspeas , well, Wolf & Badger do have some super coats, here are a few but a bit of direction would help (favourite colours, styles eg oversized or neat tailored etc)

Alternatively, Strathberry have lovely bags, purses etc www.strathberry.com/

Or Brora always has brilliant, covetable cashmere

My annual "Help me find a present for my wife" Mumsnet thread
My annual "Help me find a present for my wife" Mumsnet thread
My annual "Help me find a present for my wife" Mumsnet thread
Thatsasmashingblouseyouvegoton · 05/12/2022 13:20

Carleatspeas · 02/12/2021 09:45

Hi Mumsnet,

For the past five years or so, I've started a similar thread and Mumsnet have helped me finding some great presents for my wife. Highlights have been Cashmere jumpers, Chameau wellies and lots of stuff from Wolf and Badger type stores.

My wife is 44, loves dogs, cheese, travel, make up and all sorts of stuff I don't understand. Who knew that £100 for a tiny pot of something is a good idea?? We live by the coast in Dorset, so are outdoorsy people.

Anyway, I'm looking to you all again for inspiration. She has mentioned two thing this year: Airpods (Done, easy. I learnt the hard way that when a woman says she wants "Apple Airpods" get her Apple Airpods, not the far superior product from another brand).
Also a coat. I'm a bit stumped here as she has said she would really love a Gucci styled long wool one. That's a minefield, but I'm guessing she means something that wouldn't look out of place on the streets of Paris.

I'd really appreciate any ideas. Big or small!

In return for your help, I will answer any questions about male presents you care to give. Some top tips:

  1. No one wants branded shitty merchandise from their football team. A shirt maybe, but not an annual.
  2. Saying that, autobiographies are cool.
  3. Just because I fleetingly mentioned that I might go fishing/ cycling/ rock climbing, does not mean I want an absolute boatload of stuff from Decathlon to achieve this.
  4. We actually really like socks, pants and that sort of thing.
  5. Yes we still like Lego.
  6. Please don't get me a high fashion shirt/ jumper/ T-shirt that I will feel a right tit wearing. There's a reason we only dress in blue, grey, green and black.

Thanks in advance!

Are you my dh, op!?
🤣🤣

Thatsasmashingblouseyouvegoton · 05/12/2022 13:22

Defiantlynot41 · 05/12/2022 13:09

@Carleatspeas , well, Wolf & Badger do have some super coats, here are a few but a bit of direction would help (favourite colours, styles eg oversized or neat tailored etc)

Alternatively, Strathberry have lovely bags, purses etc www.strathberry.com/

Or Brora always has brilliant, covetable cashmere

That long wave koa coat is utterly beautiful 😍

Carleatspeas · 05/12/2022 14:29

AnneKipankitoo · 05/12/2022 12:53

Did you post a photo of the coat ?

Anyway sounds like she is dropping big hints about Wolf and Badger.

I think it was pretty much this one. I'm not 100% sure but it looks similar.

My annual "Help me find a present for my wife" Mumsnet thread
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Carleatspeas · 05/12/2022 14:31

Thatsasmashingblouseyouvegoton · 05/12/2022 13:20

Are you my dh, op!?
🤣🤣

If you live in Dorset, possibly. If so can you just tell me exactly what I should get you?

I'm actually loathed to buy another coat. Feels like a lack of imagination. I'm thinking maybe a handbag of jewelry? On that note, how on earth do I find her finger size as an eternity ring is a possibility?

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Carleatspeas · 05/12/2022 14:34

Thatsasmashingblouseyouvegoton · 05/12/2022 13:22

That long wave koa coat is utterly beautiful 😍

Doesn't it look a bit like a dressing gown?

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VejaVagVagina · 05/12/2022 14:35

@Carleatspeas does she have any rings lying around in a jewellery box? If so get some string and measure around the ring and then look up her size.

maudesvagina · 05/12/2022 14:44

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Defiantlynot41 · 05/12/2022 14:46

@Carleatspeas plenty of online ring sizers eg findmyringsize.com/, assumes you can grab one of hers that fits on the correct finger!

Couple of ideas for the Strathberry bags - both come in lots of other colours

And a Tiffany eternity ring for good measure! Have always fancied one of these, they also come in yellow or rose gold

My annual "Help me find a present for my wife" Mumsnet thread
My annual "Help me find a present for my wife" Mumsnet thread
My annual "Help me find a present for my wife" Mumsnet thread
AnneKipankitoo · 05/12/2022 14:47

Gorgeous coat.

Can you get a ring and get it resized?

Defiantlynot41 · 05/12/2022 14:52

From a quick fall down the rabbit hole of Brora

My annual "Help me find a present for my wife" Mumsnet thread
My annual "Help me find a present for my wife" Mumsnet thread
My annual "Help me find a present for my wife" Mumsnet thread
Defiantlynot41 · 05/12/2022 15:00

More ring ideas from a lovely jeweller based in Ascot. If you have something in mind he is super helpful

My annual "Help me find a present for my wife" Mumsnet thread
My annual "Help me find a present for my wife" Mumsnet thread
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