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To ask you to all buy local this year for Christmas?

58 replies

MrsRogerLima · 17/11/2020 08:10

I know it's tempting (and often cheaper) to buy everything in the supermarkets and off ebay/amazon but please consider what local business support you can offer this year.

Place a meat order at your local butcher for your turkey, scout out the local market or greengrocer for your veg, buy your sweets and cakes from the local bakery and cards and gifts from as many independent stores as you can they really need us.

The supermarkets have made billions in profit this year and by continuing to shop there we are contributing to the death of local business and the High Street.

So please do what you can as locally as possible 🙂

www.statista.com/statistics/490931/tesco-group-finance-revenue-united-kingdom-uk/

www.retailgazette.co.uk/blog/2020/05/uk-grocery-enjoys-biggest-sales-jump-in-26-years/

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LondonlovesLola · 17/11/2020 08:13

This is identical to an up and running thread.

Why has it been reposted?

MrsRogerLima · 17/11/2020 08:15

@LondonlovesLola not sure it is, considering I didn't post the first.

When I searched I couldn't find any shop local posts so I posted this one. If you don't like it, move on.

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LondonlovesLola · 17/11/2020 08:15

Obviously not re-posted!
Is there some sore of anti-Amazon thing going on?

MrsRogerLima · 17/11/2020 08:17

[quote LondonlovesLola]www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4067965-aibu-to-please-ask-you-not-to-plough-even-more-money-into-amazon-over-this-lockdown[/quote]
So a quick read shows its definitely not identical then 🙄 just on the same subject AND in a different topic.

Wind your neck in. There's nothing wrong with encouraging folk to shop local and I'm glad there's more than just my voice asking!

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LondonlovesLola · 17/11/2020 08:17

I’ve linked to the other thread. Lots of reasons why people don’t necessarily shop locally on there.

Ragwort · 17/11/2020 08:18

Maybe you need to check your facts? Sainsbury's have actually made a loss.

I do try and buy local wherever possible, and always avoid Amazon, I work in retail so know how important it is. But "local" does not always mean best and many people don't have the choice if local products are much more expensive than supermarket etc.

LondonlovesLola · 17/11/2020 08:19

Wind your neck in. There's nothing wrong with encouraging folk to shop local and I'm glad there's more than just my voice asking!

The irony.
I guess people will make their own minds up regardless of where you ‘suggest’ they shop.

FundamentallyFucked · 17/11/2020 08:20

I know it's tempting (and often cheaper) to buy everything in the supermarkets and off ebay/amazon but please consider what local business support you can offer this year.

Please consider the absolute financial devastation people have suffered this year. We have more families relying on food banks than ever before Angry

MrsRogerLima · 17/11/2020 08:21

Oh I know there's lots of reasons many of which I could use myself. I'm asking people to consider what they CAN do to support local business.

One or two gifts bought somewhere, veg from the grocer, Christmas cake from the bakery.

If we all just make a small difference to what we usually do, the impact will be huge.

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SatishTheCat · 17/11/2020 08:27

I know it’s not AIBU but YANBU OP.

Shopping locally puts more money in people’s pockets, and locals with more spending power mean more local businesses continue to thrive. This is something called the local multiplier effect. It’s a virtuous circle.

Right now local economies are in a spiral of erosion and people won’t understand the effects their behaviors are having until there’s huge levels of unemployment and poverty.

MrsRogerLima · 17/11/2020 08:27

@LondonlovesLola

Wind your neck in. There's nothing wrong with encouraging folk to shop local and I'm glad there's more than just my voice asking!

The irony.
I guess people will make their own minds up regardless of where you ‘suggest’ they shop.

Indeed they will, but there are millions of people who could afford to help but won't simply because they have always done it this way or are scared of change or are too lazy to shop around.

If my thread get them thinking, then good.

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BarryWhiteIsMyBrother · 17/11/2020 08:40

When local means same quality, price and convenience, then I will.

Sleazeyjet · 17/11/2020 08:42

I can’t afford the price difference.

And much of the local stuff on my Facebook for eg is tacky and cheap looking.

I’ll be shopping where I can get best value and quality for my money thanks.

BluSpider · 17/11/2020 08:44

I want free delivery though. I’m not paying more for the same thing.

FamilyOfAliens · 17/11/2020 08:46

I don’t think you’re going to get many takers for this, OP, especially if you tell people to wind their neck in and suggest that people are either too scared or lazy to shop locally.

BiddyPop · 17/11/2020 08:48

I am doing what I usually do - a mix of our local supermarket (family run), large supermarket relatively close (national chain) and smaller local shops. If anything, the focus is slightly more on local shops and artisan producers online than usual (I started looking online for producers we get art the farmers market “down home” - 2.5 hours away - but haven’t been able
To get to since last Christmas ). I’ve found a few of the ones we usually use, and some others that I am excited to try.

In terms of gifts, I normally buy Irish for many and am
Continuing that. Some
Multinationals (show me a teen who wants to wear an artisan Aran sweater!). And some crafted myself - which is a far higher proportion than recent years due to trying to be mindful in the evenings most of the year.

My biggest problem is trying to arrange transport as we are unlikely to see most recipients so some large, and some
Delicate, things need to go by post.

grapewine · 17/11/2020 08:52

@LondonlovesLola

Wind your neck in. There's nothing wrong with encouraging folk to shop local and I'm glad there's more than just my voice asking!

The irony.
I guess people will make their own minds up regardless of where you ‘suggest’ they shop.

This. Bit rude.
canigooutyet · 17/11/2020 08:53

Amazon and Ebay have small business - please don't encourage them not to used. Households also use eBay to make ends meet.

I've lived here about 20 years never had a local bakery or butchers. Occasionally we get asked what shops we would like to see more off, but it's ignored and instead yet another takeaway! Nowhere independent to get gifts of cards. Come to think about it, cannot buy underwear or even clothing locally.

Plenty of empty buildings and a half empty market. Nothing to do with the supermarket, small and limited range.

LittleMissLockdown · 17/11/2020 08:54

Ahhh yet another poster from a privileged life offering advice to those on here many who have financial difficulties, disabilities which make Internet shopping easier or who live in arse end of nowhere with very few local independent shops.

It must be lovely to have the privilege of being able to buy locally and not think teice about why places like supermarkets and online are thriving.

coffeeandgin26 · 17/11/2020 08:55

You can ask. I'm going for the cheapest option and the one that can deliver without me having To pay for parking and dragging toddler out. Plus ones that can deliver in a decent time frame without expensive shipping to any address I choose because I won't be able to see my family in person.

Unfortunately my experience of a small independent business this week means I'll probably stick to amazon

Username7521 · 17/11/2020 09:04

I have to say that this is totally the wrong approach to shop local.
I shop local. My butcher knows my name, and I like picking and looking the fresh produce at my local store and popping to the zero waste shops.
But I am privileged and can afford to do so. I bought two steaks yesterday for £12!

Please check your privilege.
People have been devastated by the pandemic financially.
Oh and everyone please don’t discount ebay! Lots of second hand stuff and independent sellers. Everyone buying preloved would make a real impact to the planet!

NameChange84 · 17/11/2020 09:05

I’d love to but I can’t get out physically to the shops this year as I’m shielding. Shopping wise I have to go with whatever supermarket puts me as priority for a delivery slot. Part of my condition includes food intolerances which supermarket free from sections are better equipped to deal with at a cheaper cost than health food shops.

A big issue I’ve found is that lots of independent shops locally have no online presence. I’d support them if they did. The Hardware store, the Independent card and gift shops etc. I can’t “save the high street” if I can’t get out to the shops.

I placed a large telephone order with my local butcher during the first lockdown and the meat was hands down the worst I have tasted in many many years. I refuse to buy from them again. We have a local farm shop but they are too expensive and don’t deliver. I placed two veg box orders from different green grocers during lockdown one... the first was extortionate and they gave me the oldest veg they could find it seems, rotten potatoes, soft carrots etc, bananas that only lasted two days, charged me £2 for a swede the size of a tennis ball etc. The second was a million times better but I genuinely couldn’t afford it week in week out as the price was triple what I’d pay at the supermarket and there was a minimum order limit of £25 for just fruit and veg. I’m on a zero hours contract and unable to work outside of the home at the moment. I’m single so £100 per month on just fruit and veg that perished faster than the supermarket equivalent doesn’t make much sense for me to continue with. There’s no independent nearby that will deliver frozen foods, cleaning products etc.

Gift wise, my family don’t appreciate “tat” so no photo frames, candles or trinkets. We usually get each other clothes, electricals and fragrance as well as some books and tickets to gigs/plays/experiences. We have independent clothes shops nearby that generally sell cheap things imported from India or Vietnam at a huge mark up and that are often one size, so too big, the returns policy is store credit only etc. No independent electronics shop. Yes we have an independent perfume shop but Boots and Debenhams have generous rewards points schemes and frequent offers which are much cheaper. We do have an independent book shop but again, can’t afford £15/£20 on one book per family member when you get 3 for £5 in The Works. I do sometimes order off Hive though. There’s not really anything like an independent Ticketmaster but we do often buy gift vouchers for local theatres and independent cinemas.

It is a lovely idea in principle but in practice it is harder if you’ve got a limited budget and have to shop where you can afford and the extra problems of shielding this year.

Fizbosshoes · 17/11/2020 09:13

I shop to my budget, sometimes that includes local and independent shops, sometimes it means wilko and Aldi. I work for a small business and my DH is SE so we obviously understand the benefit of using small businesses but it's not always a direct comparison.
And there are pros and cons. Big businesses and chains can often offer more jobs and job progression. Love them or hate them, at a time when redundancies are being announced in their hundreds daily, Amazon is one of the few places creating jobs.
The small company I work for has less than 10 employees and always has done.
If people boycott large stores or they go under it's not the CEO or the fat cats at the top that feel the pinch, it's the people working for NMW that lose their jobs.

nemeton · 17/11/2020 09:14

Hmm, so I can have meat, bread, pot noodle, chocolate and cigarettes for Christmas lunch Hmm
No fruit or veg here.

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