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Allhallowseve · 11/10/2020 07:21

So it looks like Christmas this year may be a simpler affair . I am in a high risk area and not allowed to visit others houses currently and anticipate it going on for a while.
I usually put quite a lot of pressure on myself to make Christmas perfect , trips to Santa , shows etc while the kids are young enough to enjoy it . However this year with things being slightly different I really want to embrace a simpler "old fashioned Christmas" which I am certain were just as wonderful.
I was 4 in the 80s but my memories of Christmas were , the excitement of visiting a department store in town and seeing all the toys . The multicoloured fairy lights on the tree. My nans sherry trifle . My favourite gift and to be honest the only one I can really remember was a hand me down talking doll I loved it!
I was hoping you might share some of your memories from Christmas past to inspire me. It feels quite nice in a way to take a year off and just enjoy the little things this year.

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70isaLimitNotaTarget · 15/10/2020 16:21

Christmas before I was 8yo I remember we had those Angel Chimes the candles that twirled the lirrle brass angels which hit a bell . Gradually the bits went missing till it didn't work . (I bought one from Past Times and the magic was still there )
Going to the market and buying satsumas which were a rare exotic treat
Presents in pillowcases not stockings
There was a float driving down our road all lit up , music . There were only 2 cars in a road of 40 houses . Any float wouldn't get down our road !

Then befre we moved we had one Christmas when Dad was working away . Christmas was meh but just as bad for him I reckon.

Then we moved and DMum just CBA with Christmas ( and told us she wanted to go to sleep and wake up when it was all over , and her favourite day was Boxing Day because it was finished for another year )
Anyone who dared to walk through the kitchen ended up cooking .
So I got pretty good at turning out a full Christmas dinner Xmas Wink and baking a Christmas Cake

My Gran always gave us a big bag of Quality Street and a jumper or nightie .
My Aunt gave us Avon box of three soaps

When DH and I got our house ( then had DC) he reckoned I over boarded on Christmas to make up for it ,
I hope my DC have some nice memories of Christmases . We always booked nice days out ( Thomas the Tank Engine , Santa Railway sort of thing )
Feeding the reindeer
Leaving the tray out and tracking the sleigh .

We always made everything seamless when they were little . I know my DC appreciate now what goes into planning it all .

TrickyD · 15/10/2020 18:33

I have posted on the ‘Best Christmas Present’ thread about the set of doll’s clothes knitted by our dear maid Ivy, and the doll’s house, which no, my brother had not kept under his national service barracks’ bed, and brought home on the bus.

But this thread has got me reflecting on some other Christmases.

In the early 80s I was a Prison Education Officer. Naturally my DSs were not normally allowed in, but each Christmas there was a Carol Service in the huge prison chapel, to which staff’s families were invited.

My boys loved all the palaver of the locking and unlocking as we passed through the prison corridors.

Virtually all the inmates attended in their best ironed uniforms, and sang and listened respectfully as they awaited the highlight of the ceremony, the Salvation Army Choir, mainly women with their stockings and tambourines.

‘Cor, that’s more like it!’ was the general sentiment, and there was an un-religious, very enthusiastic, round of applause.

Some years later:
In the 1990s DH and I sometimes went skiing over Christmas without the lads, who were then in their twenties.

One year, all seemed well, regular phone calls home, “Yes everything’s fine, Mum”.

Until we got a phone call as we waited at the airport to return.

On Christmas Eve, DSs, plus girlfriends and assorted pals had gathered at our house.

An arm wrestling contest ensued.

Each DS was determined not to let the other win. Suddenly there was a huge cracking noise.

DS’s GF thought it was the table leg breaking. It was of course DS1’s femur.

So off to hospital, arm set the next day, Christmas Day , (reset later in the week Confused) Little presents distributed by the hospital’s volunteers.

They agreed not to tell us, as there was nothing we could do, and would only worry (too true). Why they then decided it was a good ideas to do so when we were in the airport, no idea.

We flew home worrying, but all was indeed well if you can call a serious fracture ‘well’.

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