I usually work and DD comes with me, we escape about 11.30/12 to meet DH. Go to M&S to get DD birthday cake and party nibbles, then get lunch in town before going home. Might go for a walk en route.
At home, joint family effort to peel potatoes, prep veg, make stuffing, bake cookies.
Smorgasbord type dinner (cured and cooked meats, smoked salmon, cooked prawns, squid rings, cheese, tomatoes, carrot sticks, hummus, olives, nice bread etc) of cold picky things.
Light Christmas candle together and take a few minutes to remind ourselves of the good and bad of the year.
Get out CEH - dd lays out her stocking, milk and cookies and then goes for her lush festive bath and into new PJs. Back down for hot chocolare, before I read Twas the night before Christmas in bed.
Dh and I relax with a beverage and try to get an early night once DD is asleep.
Although last year, we did a Christmas Eve swim in the local yacht club and I am considering talking a days leave rather than going in for the morning at work as that was great fun!