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What do you do on Christmas Eve?

136 replies

bandthenjust · 09/08/2018 17:44

Im after some new traditions.
I usually go out for coffee in the morning, then have a 'leisurely Confused' stroll around the shops. Party food/buffet thing in the evening.
Last year, we stayed in, played board games and stuffed our faces.
what do you guys do?

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Xenadog · 09/08/2018 21:09

We seem to spend all of Christmas Eve cleaning and cooking ready for family (16 in total) to come over for an early dinner of homemade pies.We cook a steak pie and a chicken pie and some veggies. It’s also my niece’s birthday so bake her a birthday cake as well.

Everyone leaves at 8pm and we get DD into bed then. Finally, DP and I settle down to watch some Christmas TV and have some quiet time. Christmas Day is very low key with it just being the three of us but Christmas Eve is always a whirlwind.

Things like pantos, looking at the Christmas lights, trips to Santa and putting Christmas duvets on the bed all happen earlier in December. DD and DP also have their birthdays in December so it’s a crazy busy month. Christmas Eve is the day we see family so we can chill on Christmas Day.

Allgirlskidsanddogs · 09/08/2018 22:10

We spend the morning prepping veg for the 25th. Light lunch. Not sure what happens in the afternoon, time goes so quickly, but it’s probably more baking. Church at 4. Home to family arriving, family supper, put the tray out for th big man and watch TV whilst wrapping th least things after the children have gone to bed.

mamalovebird · 09/08/2018 22:17

We go out for dinner. It's nice not to have to cook the night before and the atmosphere in our local is always great. Then home to do mince pies & carrot for FC, kids to bed, pressies out, a few baileys before bed.

Skinandbones · 09/08/2018 22:32

For the first time last year we did adult Christmas Eve boxes. A couple of boozy miniatures, something we hadn't had before with a nice tumbler.
New pj's and a film for each, and of course munchies, popcorn, chips and dips.
We all loved this it was all the prep was finished and Christmas had started.

Mousefunky · 09/08/2018 22:59

Always watch the Snowman in the morning. I bake Christmas Day dessert and the DC bake santa’s cookies. Last year we went to a Christingle service at a local church which was lovely but we don’t usually. They always get a Christmas Eve hamper which new pjs and slippers in and a Christmas lush bath bomb each (which they choose themselves) so they have a bath and get into their pjs then we watch Polar Express with hot chocolate, cream and marshmallows. Put santa’s Cookies out before bed and read the night before Christmas then the elf (me) gets to work Grin. I prefer Christmas Eve to actual Christmas tbh.

IOwn20PurpleKnickers · 09/08/2018 23:04

I love Christmas Eve more than Christmas Day!
We have a North Pole Breakfast, then play games and muck about at home. Christmas Crafts etc. Then DH takes the kids to pick up the turkey. Special lunch (which we all decide). Walk and a play in the park, then hot choc and cooked ham for tea. Early Movie night, stockings, Christmas Eve box and then last minute wrapping by the Christmas Tree, with Christmas music on and a big glass of vino. Bliss.

Alanamackree · 09/08/2018 23:37

I need to sit down with this thread and take notes. I don’t really enjoy Christmas Eve. There’s shopping, food prep, cleaning, sorting out guest bedding. The dc watch too much tv and get wired. The in laws come over en masse with no warning, or not at all, or demand visits, or decree that we all meet somewhere, and no matter how little I try to do it always feels overwhelming and exhausting....and someone is usually sick.
It takes ages to get the dc to sleep, and then I have to sort out santa and DH and whatever guests we have staying comment about how I’ve gone overboard and bought too much, and if I have it’s usually been after a discussion with DH where he’s insisted I haven’t bought them enough, and I channel my stabby urges onto Rudolph’s carrot, and later lie awake wondering what I’ve forgotten, trying to force myself to sleep knowing that I’ll be up in a couple of hours.

I think I’ve been doing it wrong Grin

mathanxiety · 10/08/2018 03:45

I like to get some food prep for Christmas dinner out of the way, mainly pumpkin pie and tiramisu, which the DCs love. I usually have to run a last minute errand for something like a bunch of parsley for stuffing, which I also make ahead on Christmas Eve. Christmas this year will be on a Tuesday and I will most likely have Christmas Eve off, but if I don't then I will be able to do some prep on the preceding weekend.

We always go to Christmas Eve Mass, then home to a dinner that is easy for me to make ahead - lasagne, etc - followed by some sort of dessert (have done a chocolate pie in years past, also lemon meringue and a few others).

Once dinner is cleared away we open gifts from each other and extended family. The DCs are aged 17 to 28 so everyone shops (except me - I am Santa Claus) for everyone else and for me. They all buy five gifts apiece - one for me and one each for each of their four siblings. Christmas Eve afternoon is usually spent furtively gift-wrapping, and all the gifts are placed under the tree. We open gifts in turn quite ceremoniously, sip a glass of wine or a cup of coffee, nibble dessert.

They all eventually settle into bed and with the space under the tree bare I do Santa Claus, including stuffing chocolates into their little old five inch stockings that I got for them when they were all small, trying not to weigh them down so much that they crash off the mantelpiece.

I also sort out cinnamon rolls for the following morning - I have a bread machine and make a sweet roll dough with a teaspoon of cinnamon added, then make the rolls and leave them to rise overnight. They are baked as soon as I wake next morning, then glazed.

EmmaGrundyForPM · 10/08/2018 03:51

How come everyone on MN manages to book Christmas Eve off work? Every team I've ever worked in has had a rule about no more than x number of staff off on any particular day. I am taking Christmas Eve off this year but worked the last two.

cricketmum84 · 10/08/2018 06:12

I work in an office and have always finish d around lunchtime on Christmas Eve when it falls on a weekday or worked from home :)

NoWordForFluffy · 10/08/2018 06:31

I had 2013 and 2014 off on mat leave. 2015 I had the week before Christmas off as the DCs were still pre-school so I preferred that week off and most people preferred the week after off. 2016 and 2017 were the weekend. And I'm now with a firm which closes for Christmas week, so I'm off this year without argument.

My routine has only come about since having DC, but I always had the week before Christmas off pre-DC as I didn't mind working in between Christmas and new year before we had school holidays to think about.

Bouledeneige · 10/08/2018 06:34

last minute shopping and wrapping
Late fish and chips lunch
Carol service and pub with friends
Watch an old movie like polar express with the kids

SimplyPut · 10/08/2018 08:08

DH works in FE so finishes for the same two weeks as the kids usually and I always close my office the day before the schools break until the day the kids return. It's the only time I do this other than bank holidays and I view it as Christmas bonus for the staff as it's additional to their annual leave allowance. A monetary bonus is non existent in our sector!

Justgivemesomepeace · 10/08/2018 08:15

Last bits of cleaning in the morning. Put a ham in about 2pm. Send the kids to christingle with DP, my dsis, df and dniece. I put buffet out whilst they are there and have a sneaky gin or 2 in peace. Put Xmas hamper from the elves on the front step for their return. We all have buffet, then bed for ds with Xmas book from hamper. Then dp and I put pressies out, have a drink or 2 and go to bed.

HushabyeMountainGoat · 10/08/2018 08:53

Any ideas for what to do with an 18 month old on Christmas Eve? DH will be working most of the day so it'll be just us two unless I visit family

MonaLisaSimpson · 10/08/2018 08:58

EmmaGrundy I'll be at work but my work closes about 3 on Christmas Eve.

PerfectlySymmetricalButtocks · 10/08/2018 09:04

Probably too young for leaving things out for Father Christmas? Would he/she like to go and look at the lights? Maybe a nice lunch somewhere? DS2's been visiting Father Christmas since he was 4 months old, because I took DD. The first year the lovely "elf" asked if I'd like a book for him too, I said yes please, and started looking for extra money, he said, "No, you don't have to pay, because you didn't ask." 💜 He got the board book of The Tiger Who Came to Tea. I'll never forget that random act of kindness.

PerfectlySymmetricalButtocks · 10/08/2018 09:05

That was to Hushabye

HushabyeMountainGoat · 10/08/2018 09:20

Yeah we went to see Father Christmas last year but it was a few weeks before Christmas as Inwas on mat leave so could go when it was quieter. I'll definitely do it again. We did the sherry and mince pie by the fireplace too.

I'm more just thinking of how to spend Christmas eve so that it's not just a normal day. More for my benefit really Grin

duckling84 · 10/08/2018 09:39

Visit my Nan who is in a nursing home and take her, the dc and ddog out for a walk in the woods.
Pub sounds good though. Might have to do that this year.
After all the prep and planning in the lead up, Christmas eve is like the calm before the storm - it's all done, you are just waiting for the main event and utter carnage of the next day so we like to keep it chilled.

BiddyPop · 10/08/2018 09:40

My DD (now 12) has always made cookies to put onSanta’s plate on Christmas Eve. When she was 12 months, this mostly consisted of whisking the egg, stirring flour and spices together after sifting, and making a mess rolling out some dough. The following year, she was able to do more and her rolling out and cutting with cookie cutters was much better.

Nowadays we do a “slice and bake” type of dough rather than a roll out and cut with shaped cutters type. We like them occasionally anyway, so I make sure to make a batch in November sometime and freeze half the log. It lasts ages in the freezer - but it gives the option on Christmas Eve to just slice and bake if time/energy is against us. Or we can do a batch from scratch as they will be eaten over the next few days anyway, if we have plenty of time and want to fill it.

Can you go for a walk in a local park or woods or beach and see what the animals are doing? Any signs of tracks or animals themselves, or are they all like the bear in the ad - having a long winter snooze?

Or maybe keep the job of wrapping DCs present for Daddy ((or whoever) for Christmas Eve? And very carefully put it under the tree for tomorrow.

Or just get them involved in preparations - 18 months could probably spoon (with a teaspoon!) the mincemeat into pies while you roll the pastry tops. Or dip things into flour or breadcrumbs. Or get things from the fridge/low cupboards like the carrots to peel (and they will be helping to get ready for Rudolph) or the big pot or the wooden spoon you need for mixing.

If you have no big jobs to do, and town isn’t manic near you, go in for a coffee and cake visit (and maybe a couple of small things that don’t matter if queues are too bad) and look at the lights and the people and the choirs.

Or go to a Christingle service in a local church.

Draw a picture to leave for santa with the stocking to say thank you.

BiddyPop · 10/08/2018 09:41

sorry they were ideas for Hushabye

MrsSnootyPants2018 · 10/08/2018 09:44

Xmas eve in my family is my favourite day. I love it more than Christmas!

We start by getting up early and preparing veg for the next day. We also set the dining room up so we don't have to rush the next day.

We then go to the crib service at our church with my godmother and her family. Then afterwards, we go back to her house for buffet dinner and for the kids, if they've been good, can open their present from her.

bimbobaggins · 10/08/2018 20:24

We usually do the big Christmas tidy up, get what we can organised for Christmas Day , then go a drive to our local beach and get the cobwebs blown away and go for something to eat. Christmas Eve hamper when we get back then a film and bed

UndertheCedartree · 10/08/2018 23:00

I try to keep Christmas eve as relaxed as possible. I usually spend the day organising/tidying while listening to christmas music and the dc do Christmas activity books/ read Christmas books/ watch Christmas films. We then go to the Candlelit Crib service. When back the DC have baths and put on Christmas onsies then they get their Christmas eve box. We then have a buffet supper while watching the Muppet's Christmas Carol. Then the dc hang up their stockings and put out milk and a mince pie for FC and a carrot for the reindeer. Then they have hot choc and I read Night before Christmas. Then they go to bed. Then I'll have a Baileys or Disarrano, listen to Christmas music and when I'm sure they're asleep I fill their stockings!

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