Welcome blacksmiths
The Countdown threads usually take a year to fill, but the past couple of years have gone onto Thread 2/ Thread 3 and this one looks like it'll need 4+ the way its filling 
I love candles (Yankee especially) I'm burning some 'All Is Bright' tealights right now, but they do leave their mark ( you must've been going some to burn 20 jars worth
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We start Christmas bedding after Hallowe'en (well winter bedding really) and the Christmas fleeces go on late December.
I put Christmas toilet paper, Christmas towels and the Advent Calenders out on Dec 1st , DS Birthday is early Dec so we don't do more before his day.
I miss the Christmases we had when the DC were little but our Traditions have evolved over time.
DD and I go shopping in London, we go to a ballet or theatre.
We all go for a Carvery (DS choice) for his birthday.
My DParents can't travel now so last year was just DH,DD,DS and me.
I like to spend most of the day faffing about in the kitchen, I set the table, watch the soaps and chat with whoever is lurking (they're allowed to lurk in the dining room, not the kitchen
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We don't get the 5am wake up now, listening to the DC trying to open their stockings quietly.
I did stockings last year, most of their presents are tiny but £ now. Things like an Urban Decay lipstick for DD or an XBox game for DS. Cost loads but not the impact of the big Lego sets they used to love.
And we did Dec 1st hampers rather than Christmas Eve Hampers so they could use the things for longer beforehand.