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A stocking? Sack? Pillowcase? Confused!

27 replies

Kathryn2967 · 24/10/2013 21:18

So I was just wondering what you put your Santa presents in? I have a gorgeous sack for 3 year old DD but can't find anything that's the same size for 1 year old DS. Do I buy two new ones which match? If so is it better to do a stocking so its always overflowing or sack so its exciting to dive in?

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ICameOnTheJitney · 24/10/2013 21:25

I don't do any sack....mine have a stocking and then a pile of presents from Father Christmas downstairs.

lade · 24/10/2013 21:34

I think what you use will depend on your philosophy on present giving.

My children have huge sacks, that are full to the brim. But they tend to include an awful lot if practical presents - new dressing gowns, pants, socks, clothes, nice breakfast cereal etc... I tend to include the essentials that other people just give, but not as presents.

Other people tend to just give toys / desired items from Santa. They seem (from what I can see on here) to use stockings rather than sacks.

Personally, whatever you use, I think something overflowing always looks better than something not filled.

fuzzpig · 24/10/2013 21:38

I prefer to use stockings as they seem more traditional.

FC fills the stockings outside bedrooms, plus leaves a main present or two downstairs (last year it was the playmobil castle, unwrapped and set up ready to play)

WallyBantersJunkBox · 24/10/2013 21:53

My dh and I had pillow cases as kids. We give DS a stocking - hung on the door, then he wakes up to find it at the bottom of his bed.

This is totally for selfish reasons - he opens the stocking presents on our bed while we drink tea and lie in a bit longer. Blush

Then we head down for his big pressies under the tree.

If you already have the sack, I would probably just buy a similar sized one but in a different design. Perhaps you could sew their names on each one? I saw nice sacks on the Notonthehighstreet site.

Thesimplethings · 24/10/2013 22:01

Stockings here. Laid on end of bed ready for morning. Then Santa presents downstairs. Family presents under the tree.

I still have find memories of my childhood sticking which my mother has kept. It was one of my fathers rugby socks Grin

Thesimplethings · 24/10/2013 22:01

Fond not find!

PigeonPie · 24/10/2013 22:01

My DSs have pillowcases. They put one on the bed and then I make sure that I take identical ones out of the airing cupboard so we can fill them downstairs.

They get 'little' bits of lowish value from Father Christmas that I've collected over the year, so the odd T-shirt, books crafty bits, pants, toothbrushes and any other things they might need through the year! But it's easier to put them in a pillowcase than stuff them in half a pair of tights!

BornToFolk · 24/10/2013 22:06

DS has a medium sized stocking. I quite like the challenge of finding smallish things although it has been known for some things to end up under the tree (as a present from me!) when I've not been able to wedge them in the stocking on Christmas Eve.
I think it depends on how you do presents really. In our house, Father Christmas brings the stocking which is usually a few middling presents - books, small toys and games, sweets and chocolate. Then DS gets more presents from me and other family which go under the tree.

We had pillowcases as kids but that was mostly because it was a tradition that we'd each get a board game from Father Christmas (think my parents were hoping we'd play a board game quietly on Xmas morning so they'd get a lie in....never happened!)

2kidsintow · 24/10/2013 22:07

In our house (and mine as a child hence the tradition for me) it has always been a stocking on the bed with small presents and treats in to occupy them when they wake up early. They have always, without prompting, brought them through to our room and opened them on our bed. I never planned for that, but I like it.

Then they go downstairs and under the tree they have a sack of gifts. The sack is about the size of 2 pillowcases and is a nice fabric one. If they have bulky gifts then it will be bulging, otherwise it will be small. I find them useful after the day as they then add their presents from other family members and keep them in there under the Christmas tree until the tree goes down, when they then have to find a home for them in their bedrooms.

2kidsintow · 24/10/2013 22:11

My memory of stockings at Christmas was one of my dad's (new) black socks. The orange in the end made them bulge. Mum can't have managed to put much in them and when we got a bit older she hand made us each a red velour stocking. We all had a different coloured trim to know whose was whose.

HappyMummyOfOne · 24/10/2013 22:12

We did the stocking thing a couple of times but prefer to just put in a pile downstairs. He knows that those are from us via santa and any under the tree are from other people. Did have some beautiful huge furry sacks but they didnt last sadly.

soontobeslendergirl · 24/10/2013 22:23

Stockings outside bedroom door with small cheaper items/sweets just to keep them occupied. Downstairs, gifts under the tree from other people and us. We used to just have a big massive pile for each boy on a sofa each - that has kind of morphed now into 2 huge gift bags each filled with bigger gifts and a lovely felt sack for smaller more expensive stuff (e.g. dvds which don't fit in their stocking, which is all from santa.

zipzap · 24/10/2013 22:32

When I was growing up we had stockings (actually a pair of tights with a knot on one side - apparently when I was about 2 I was in floods of tears that Santa would think that as I'd put out my dad's rugby sock that I was a boy, would not be convinced that santa would know I was a girl. Parents used pair of red tights for each of us, knot on one side and my sis and I used them until we were in our 30sBlush).

I've carried this on with my dc - stocking in the morning when they wake up, they still come and wake us up to do it, haven't started to do it themselves. Always has satsuma at the bottom, along with a bag of chocolate coins, a vest, new pair of pants and socks to wear on the day, maybe a nice tshirt too if there is space. There's usually a couple of toy cars, a comic they like (gives them something to do if they have woken up early and dh and I are able to doze a little longer Grin, maybe a playmobil person or small set, lego often do small christmas sets for £3 that are in bags and ideal for stockings, a new toothbrush, a small pack of crayons/colouring pens/pencils, a small colouring book or notebook and maybe a small card game or something similar. If I have any left over bits from party bags (bouncy ball, soldier with parachute etc then I'll pop them in too. (can you tell I've got boys!). Means they have presents to open, chocolate to eat first thing, and things to do and play with so dh and i can lie in so we can have a gentle morning. DS1 got given a gorgeous handmade stocking for his first christmas by my godmother, which he uses. I was hoping that ds2 would have got the same but he didn't so had a mad panic to buy one for him just before his first christmas (and failed so had to use a santa's hat!) - he now has one but it's not as nice as ds1's.

Then we go downstairs, have breakfast, get it cleared away and check on how turkey is cooking etc, and once we are all set, the dc are finally allowed into the lounge where most of their presents are under the tree. Main present is usually hidden at the back so it is the last opened - often after christmas lunch if we can stretch it out that long, means that there is something to look forward to after lunch - and to use as a bribe for good behaviour! I am also really rigorous about writing down who gives what present to which child - dh has loads of siblings, most of whom now have grown up children so they like an excuse to get back to the toyshop to buy toys for younger kids it seems!

Dsis on the other hand was manipulated into following her dh's family traditions and she really doesn't like it. The kids have massive stockings (all made by her MIL, who loves sewing things but makes them up from kits rather than actually creating things herself - but made them without asking and showed them to the eldest kid as soon as she was old enough to see and told her all about xmas morning so it was a done deal SadAngry). These hold pretty much all their presents - so as soon as her kids wake up they want to go downstairs to open their presents, in their pj's and dressing gowns. Everything is in them, very little is under the tree (what is there is mostly from other people) so they race through their stockings, ripping everything open as fast as they can. They've also been known to start and go through things quickly encouraged by their dad (ie bil) as he needs to get out to sort out the animals on the farm and he doesn't want to miss out - but he's quite happy for dsis to miss out because she needs to do stuff for breakfast or lunch Hmm. I digress. sorry.

Anyhow, they don't seem to appreciate the quantity of presents they have or what they have - it's more an exercise in getting through it as fast as possible, then move onto the presents under the tree without looking at who has given them what. then dsis is making lunch and the kids are just left having a normal morning and all the anticipation of the day has gone.

So having seen two different ways of doing it - definite vote for sensible sized stockings first thing that can be done upstairs before breakfast and then having presents downstairs later on after breakfast!

Guitargirl · 24/10/2013 22:53

Our DCs have stockings which they hang out but they're quite small, not much will fit in them at all so FC also leaves 'stocking' gifts in these
sacks - one each next to their stockings. Stocking presents are not wrapped. Then once they have opened their stockings they go downstairs to tree presents which FC has brought and other presents from family members.

curiousgeorgie · 24/10/2013 23:08

My 2 DD's (and our dog!) have matching handmade stockings with their names on that have small presents, chocolate etc.

Then all other presents are at my mums all over the floor in a big free for all! Grin

chanie44 · 25/10/2013 08:59

My two are 3 and 1, so we have the opportunity to start some new traditions.

I plan on making sacks out of pillow cases for their Xmas eve pjs, toothbrushes and chocolate Santa.

They have stockings which is a mixture of cheapish toys and practical things like umbrellas and hair clips.

They will have one or two bigger presents under the tree.

We normally exchange gifts with family when we see them, so it's spread throughout Xmas day and Boxing Day.

TarkaTheOtter · 25/10/2013 09:03

I'm all for delayed gratification so my poor dcs will have to put up with what I did - a small stocking to open once everyone is up and downstairs, then other presents (including larger presents from fc) once we are all dressed, showered and had breakfast.

Kathryn2967 · 25/10/2013 09:05

Thank you for all your replies, I'm going to go have a look at some stockings I think!

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wonderingsoul · 25/10/2013 14:01

i used to have a stocking that i was allowed to open soon as i saw it.. but i normally took it into my parents room. we then had to wait till every one was up and had breakfast till we could touch the tree presents.

the past couple of years iv had a christmas tree in the kids room and they have their santa presents from them under it. which they come tell me santas been and i go to their room to watch them open them up. then to the living room and they open up the tree ones.

this year im going to do stocking and try to draw the present opening longer. im going to do table presents as well. going go to the pound shop and get every one to pick one thing they thing the other would like. with the help of my parents. so hopfully its be a surrpise.

ohforfoxsake · 25/10/2013 14:06

A small(ish) stocking at the end of the bed for instant gratification.

A trail of sweets from bed to the Christmas tree, where they find christmas sacks overflowing and generally piles of crap from Santa.

Each child has different paper to Santa doesn't get confused. And yes, presents from Santa are wrapped.

Santa does not bring the presents from everyone either.

Anyone who says differently is DOING CHRISTMAS ALL WRONG! Grin

olibeansmummy · 25/10/2013 17:23

Ds has a medium/ large ( depending on your definition of large) stocking that was made by my sister's mil. It's gorgeous, handmade out of lovely fabric and embroiled with his name and a lovely Christmas scene. It's better than anything I could have got in the shops. Ds has small presents in that; little Lego and playmobil sets, sweets, bath stuff etc and a pile of presents under his stocking. He then has a few presents ' from us' under the tree. Family will give ds his presents and we'll give our nieces and nephew presents when we see them on Christmas Day. All the presents are downstairs and we all go down and open them together.

GillyBillyWilly · 25/10/2013 17:26

We always had our presents in a pillow case when we were younger! It's amazing what a pillow case can hold! Grin

jamtoast12 · 25/10/2013 17:29

Mine have stocking plus a pile of presents ...one has the couch, the other the chair. We tend to go overboard so often you can't see the carpet -Most of its cheap stuff but my kids love a huge pile! All the presents in our house are from Santa but when we go visiting family, the presents are from the giver. All presents from family are given face to face and never before Xmas day

blibblibs · 25/10/2013 17:38

We do the same as ohforfoxsake except we don't have the sacks for the Santa presents, just two different coloured piles in the living room.

Everything under the tree is from whoever it is from and the DC need to read the tags to us first before they get to open them Smile

hallowisitmeyourelookingfor · 25/10/2013 23:50

My DDs have pillowcases which they both decorated about 4 years ago. Now aged 7 and 9 they cringe at their 'artwork' but I love them. Pillowcases hold a huuuuuuuge amount of stuff, honestly, and FC ALWAYS wraps all the stuff. Normally in different wrapping paper to each other. DS(2) has a stocking which his big sisters made for him out of felt which hold considerably less stuff but I figure that he doesn't care about 'fair' just yet Wink

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