I bought a new tree, it is gorgeous, got just the right amount of colour coordinated decs and looks really elegant. dh has just taken the box up to the loft and is bringing the rest of the decs down, so do I leave my tree as it is or do I let the kids put all the other stuff on it so it will end up looking like santa sneezed at it? (the other decs are all the things the kids have made over the years and totally random stuff which woont match at all.