do you know that lactulose does have lactose in it? Meaning if you keep him off dairy you should keep him off lactose? We have tried movicol which gave him awful tummyache, docusate which made him poo regulary but still too hard poo. The sennakot DEF is better as his poo iss softer although trying to find doesage that works and doesnt give him quits! you can buy over the counter, maybe worth gicving a go and if works get it on prescription?
We give milk when he wakes in night. Same as you doesnt take enough in day. BUT i believe that milk helps neutralises the acid so with my ds2 prob helps that. I dont really 'cope' with the night wakings TBH! I just walk around in a daze. Am on AD's for PND because of it all. Same after i had ds1.
Does he have a dummy? Sucking helps with reflux (there is a biological reason but cant remember right now!)
He was on 10mls once a day and now been doubled. I know he is over 9kg....I think around the 20lb mark aswell. All the other meds he has been on inc domperidone are weight related and you should get it reviewed every other month or so depeding how quick he puts on wieght really.
Hes not on ranitadine as didnt helpedhim. When he had the first lot of cameras done there was damage to osophogus because of reflux but the omep has healed that now.
Im not sure about studies into reflux with siblings, just that boys are more likely to get it. I was told after ds1 that dc2 woudlnt get it.....ds2 is twice as bad. It has put me off dc3 so much that dh has just had the snip as i couldnt deal with anything like this a3rd time but your family may be different so im not sure what to say!