Hey both
Roulade, I think its right they're being careful - if there are extra issues causing the apnoea (as in dd's case) then extra precautions need to be taken to protect the airway post-op. The anaesthetist in dd's case was very, very careful (and made me pretty anxious in the process, ironically!) though everyone else seemed totally laid back about the whole thing. Its their job, and once I got over being scared by the extra care taken - I was glad they were so careful. So they should be, after all
As for staying in...no, we went out, for walks, little outings, to the park etc, just not indoors cooped up with potentially sick kids anywhere. I did take dd to shops in the buggy after a few days, but I took First Defence hand stuff everywhere, and sprayed all visitors to the house with it and made sure they washed their hands, endlessly. dd actually did catch a cold after 10 days, but was fine...it was only a cold, nothing major.
Its hard when you have older siblings around, but I pulled in all playdate options and dd1 went to friends a fair bit! Or I invited one or two after making sure they were as healthy as anyone could tell, their families too....and made sure they stayed away from dd2 as much as possible. TBH, dd2 was in a lot of pain for the first ten days post op, and very weak from not eating - so entertainment beyond DVDs and Polly Pocket was not an issue.
Trying not to let dd1 eat as much junk as dd2, OTOH....
They still miss the mini ice cream cornets!
(rough food recommended, and she ate that too, but she was sooo thin I relented..)
May is a great month for an op, though, far less bugs than January