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What do I do ? Dd tells me of apparent suicide attempt 4 days after

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felttippens · 20/07/2015 23:20

I recieved a text from the next room tonight from dd saying "I took all of my medication"

She is on 20mg of fluoxetine due to severe anxiety and depression

She has actually seemed very well for at least 3 months

She says she's not sure why she did it but doesn't feel that way now

Her 'usual' self harm is cutting which she hasn't done for a while

I'm really thrown as I wouldn't consider her in a very low period as she's socialising a bit , chatting etc

Usually when she's low she locks herself away
Man anyone advise

I will be ringing her psychologist in the morning
I

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CamelHump · 20/07/2015 23:29

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Theoldcauliflower · 20/07/2015 23:34

How many has she taken? If it's a lot I would get her checked by a doctor!
Poor love how old is she?

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felttippens · 20/07/2015 23:41

She is a month off 16

When she was prescribed it and was self harming and talking about suicude her 'team' advised she be in charge of Meds as 'if she really wanted to di she could by other means very easily '

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felttippens · 20/07/2015 23:43

She says she has taken 24 days worth of , sorry I said 20mg earlier it's actually 30 mg - 20mg in tablet form tipped up with 10mg of liquid fluoxetine

If she had told me she had just taken it I would have taken It as an emergency but she says she feels fine altho felt very ill afterwards but it was 4/5 days ago

My head is in a spin I had no idea she still felt suicidal

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ImperialBlether · 20/07/2015 23:44

Well, that was useful of them, ffs!

There is a connection between fluoxetine and suicide. It's the only time in my life I've thought of killing myself and I did some research on it. It's usually the very early days, though, where there's a risk.

How many has she taken?

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felttippens · 20/07/2015 23:46

She said she'd only had the new prescription 4 days when she did it which would make it 24 days

She started on 10mg and has built up to 30mg

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ImperialBlether · 20/07/2015 23:47

I would definitely call the out of hours people and tell them. That's a hell of a lot of tablets.

Call them now. It's a serious amount of tablets.

ImperialBlether · 20/07/2015 23:48

You'll notice that on a hospital ward patients are not given responsibility for a month's supply of tablets - those people who said that she should have responsibility are very wrong, imo.

catlass · 20/07/2015 23:49

Are you sure on when she took them? Might be worth a trip to A+E. Sorry she is feeling so ill, hope you're all ok.

ColdMeatPlatter · 20/07/2015 23:50

I agree she needs medical attention after ingesting that amount of tablets asap. Thanks

LondonRocks · 20/07/2015 23:50

Give them a call. Just in case.

Sorry you're all going through this Flowers

happygirl87 · 20/07/2015 23:51

I'd call as well. Same as Imperial, it made me feel that way for the first time and that side effect is much more common in young people. Maybe it's to do with the slowly increasing dose, if she's just got her new prescription? Flowers for you both

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felttippens · 20/07/2015 23:52

She seems fine today , we've been out for tea - yeaterday she was our and about with her boyfriend

I should add ive just returned from a three night break from my anniversary , she said she did it before I went away but didn't tell me
As didn't want me to not go and spoil it

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Italiangreyhound · 20/07/2015 23:54

So very sorry for you but glad she is OK and glad she told you.

Have you spoken to this charity?

www.papyrus-uk.org/

Thinking of you, both.

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felttippens · 20/07/2015 23:55

Her new prescription was second month of the 30mg dose

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ImperialBlether · 20/07/2015 23:55

OP I don't think you can afford to put this off. Phone up and speak to someone from the medical profession who can give you proper advice. I wouldn't want to go to sleep tonight knowing she's done that.

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felttippens · 20/07/2015 23:57

Ive lived through her being so depressed she didn't shower, eat , drink, talk to anyone , leave her room, attend school , interact with anyone , cut herself regularly

Fast forward the last three months she's been stable, started at a special school for anxious children and built up to attending full time, has a boyfriend, has bouts of seeming cheerful and interacting with the family, taking care of herself

And now this

Which seems to be in past tense

My head is in a spin

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LondonRocks · 20/07/2015 23:57

Just call. I agree with Imperial. You're taking the time to MN, so please make a call. It's horrifying, actually.

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felttippens · 21/07/2015 00:00

Please see post above my instinct is that she hasn't - the time she says she did was at least five days ago and she is functioning completely normally / better than ever

I'm taking it as cry for help that she's not good and I will call her psychologist first thing in morning to arrange emergency appointment

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ImperialBlether · 21/07/2015 00:01

This is from www.drugs.com:

If you take more Fluoxetine than you should
•If you take too many capsules, go to your nearest hospital emergency department (or casualty) or tell your doctor straight away
•Take the pack of Fluoxetine with you if you can
•Symptoms of overdose include nausea, vomiting, seizures, heart problems (like irregular heart beat and cardiac arrest), lung problems and change in mental condition ranging from agitation to coma.

ImperialBlether · 21/07/2015 00:03

The other thing is that she needs to recognise the seriousness of what she's done. If you do wait (and I can see why you'd want to) then that teaches her a very bad lesson, don't you think?

There has to be a respect for these very powerful drugs and an acceptance of what will happen if you take too many.

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felttippens · 21/07/2015 00:03

She doesn't have any of those symptoms

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ImperialBlether · 21/07/2015 00:03

We're all sympathetic to you, you know. You are in a dreadful situation.

Flowers
ImperialBlether · 21/07/2015 00:04

Just do this for us, even if you think there's nothing wrong. We're all mums here and we would be as worried as you.

Phone 101 and speak to them now. Tell them what you've told us. Ask for their advice.

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felttippens · 21/07/2015 00:05

I am not being blasé I just can't shake instinct that she is fine

Ive spent many a night doing 10 minute checks on her as I was scared she wouldn't make the jig hrh without doing something - she has narrowly escaped being an in patient but she is so far from that now in wondering if it's cry for help/punishment for leaving her for three days

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