2 DC - nanny or nursery?

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DS went to nursery and we were happy with it but the pick-up time was always stressful. Mainly for this reason now we have 2 DC we're considering a nanny instead. Other reasons for a nanny are:

• a nice nanny always seems like a nicer arrangement for younger babies anyway
• no problems if DC ill
• the other nursery duties a nanny does are v attractive i.e. clean clothes and good food for DC

BUT:

• would a live-out nanny work 8.30 am - 7 pm (hopefully we would be home earlier most nights but trains are not trustworthy enough to promise it)?
• lots of posts on here about unreliable nannies worrying me esp if agencies aren't that helpful
• nursery still cheaper actually esp with increases to employer NIC on the way

SW London, Zone 3

I still stick by that. DH and I are much happier and much less irritable/stressed without so much financial worry.
It really is amazing how much that can affect your life.
And we are not materialistic people... minimalist in fact and don't place emphasis on money at all... but when tight because of childcare when it didn't really have to be... the stress was awful.
DS is sooooo happy now and I don't think he'd be any better off with a nanny at our house tbh.