This is a bit complicated, so bear with me...
Nanny has had a lot of time off sick - she seems to come down with everything going, swine flu, all vomiting bugs etc. We have been very accommodating - although I had to take some time off unpaid to cover when it just got too difficult to take holiday etc. We have not docked her pay.
She has been on a waiting list for an op on her foot and got a call today to say she has a date for it. She will be out of action for 8 weeks, meaning we will have to get a temp nanny or try and find a childminder to cover the period. I don't think it has even crossed her mind that we can't afford to pay her and a temp and that we are going to have to put her on SSP.
The complication is that I'm PG and she doesn't yet know. She will be out of a job by the end of September because we can't afford to pay her whilst I am on maternity leave.
I don't really know how to handle all this. I know I can't say she can't have the op but given she will be out of a job in September I'm wondering if there is any way to suggest she might want to try and postpone it until then? DH wants to get rid of her when she goes off for the op and just get someone to cover until I am on maternity leave.
Any advice welcomed - I am probably going to tell her about the PG tomorrow and I'm not looking forward to it. I hate difficult situations....