Would you be offended if your childminder didn't invite you to her wedding?

[LoveMyGirls]

Yes or no answers will do.

TIA

no

no

no

no

no

no

no.

Ridiculous question as there could be 101 permutations. ie your cm has looked after your dc for 10 years and is now close family friend so yes, offended or you started last week and don't her from adam so not offended.

no

no

know her from Adam.

No

No. I can see why you would feel offended, especially on children's behalf as she will be like family to them. But alas, she is effectively employed by you. I didn't invite my boss to my wedding, and if doing it again, wouldn't invite any of my team either.

No

No. But then I wouldn't be offended at not being invited to anyone's wedding .

depends

need more info

she possibly has 10+famillies and therefore have enough spaces to invite all and partners (extra 20people)

as a cm i wouldnt feel insulted but as a nanny i would if i wasnt invited to the wedding of the parents of whose children i looked after as more personal

No

i have had 2 parents resently get married i have had their children for 3-4yrs and i didnt get an invite

i made cards with their children for them

weddings get very expensive maybe cm wants it to be her day for exp my 30th i invited everybody but felt like i was nearly working and didnt want to drink in front of the children

Not at all

No.

Phew thanks everyone, I'm the cm'er and it's my wedding later on this year, I've been minding for the famillies I have now for approx 2yrs and my dp asked yesterday if I was going to invite them and I said no he thought I would really offend them so i just wanted to check what you all thought.

no

Its a professional arrangement. Ie. parent pays for childcare and childminder provides childcare.