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Odd nanny candidate ---- or is it just me? All a bit suss...(long sorry)

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henrys7thwife · 15/01/2009 01:41

We put up an advert for a part-time nanny a few days ago. We interviewed a lovely Australian girl (Nanny A) whom we got along with very well but who hasn't worked for about 18 months and seems to need a job right away - which is fair enough I suppose. We interviewed her on Sunday and asked her to email us details of her references on the following day.

She emailed less than an hour after leaving our home with 2 telephone references and an email address for a much older position, one that she left about 4 years ago saying that she didn't normally give out this person as a reference but they had 2 children close together as we do and so she thought it would be relevant. She included in the email that she was extremely interested in the position and it was exactly what she was looking for, dream job, etc etc. We only are looking for about 10 hours per week and she hasn't said definitively what she's doing the rest of the time.

Before we can even check references, two days later I receive an email from another candidate, Nanny B, a bit of a vague response, but basically along the lines of 'I am very interested in your position please tell me ASAP if you have found someone or if I can come for interview, maybe you have someone already...' Odd bit? This is from the EXACT email address Nanny A provided us as the 4-year-old reference contact.

I emailed Nanny A asking about this and she quickly replied back 'Oh sorry, it wasn't xxx.xxxx123@yahoo it was xxx.xxxx1234@yahoo'. Also another spiel about how she really wanted job and could we get back to her ASAP.

Am I right in being suspicious of this? Otherwise we got along with her very well and probably would have offered her the job but her extreme exuberance and seeming need to start literally tomorrow. I am scared to even email the reference...thinking it may all be a sham and her mate or something on the other end.

Where are all the good part-time nannies

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Blondeshavemorefun · 18/01/2009 11:13

sam - sure all will be fine

bink - very good point made!!

SAMS73 · 18/01/2009 17:36

She is coming to start work before I go to work so I can show How things are done and she can do the same and at the same time I understand that she has looked after children for 20 years and have lot of experience and am willing to adapt and learn if it is useful for both of us and has has children welfare in mind. For example I dont usually freeze baby food, she said she would normally do it but the reason she gave was that it saves lot of time so she spend it with the child and child tastes more flavours etc., I initially thought that I will insist that she does not freeze but on reflection I do spend lot of time making the purees and wasting quite a lot. So when she comes I will let her do it. As far the holidays are concerned I have included in the contract that 2 weeks of her holiday she can choose and the rest 3 week will be at our hoiliday time but we both agreed whenever possible we will take our holidays together.

nooka · 18/01/2009 19:52

Sounds like you have put lots of thought into how things could work out, and I am sure it will go well. I remember my deep freeze being full of ice cubes of puree (al la Annabel Karmel) for months. Whatever I made the biggest amount of was always what the dc decided they didn't like! Oh happy days

SAMS73 · 20/01/2009 12:35

agree completely. getting moreicecubetrays to freeze

Supernanny19 · 20/01/2009 12:51

henry7th.. what are you lookin for i have spare time in the day ?

Supernanny19 · 20/01/2009 12:52

sorry just seen u found someone..good luck

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