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Night Nanny for twins!!!!

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Wapping5225 · 21/10/2015 11:40

Hello!

My wife had twins (boy and girl) 4 weeks ago and we are really struggling to get any kind of sleep, especially at night (which, of course is to be expected!!!).

On most days we have help during the day from my wife?s mother but this is when the twins tend to be on their best behaviour!!! We have tried getting them into a routine - not letting them sleep too much during the day and feeding at 7pm, 11pm and then at 3am but they have been incredibly restless the past week and take ages to settle down and we simply don?t get even an hour or two to rest at any stage.

To compound things, our little girl has colic so is pretty much up all night.

Now that I?m back at work, my wife is awake pretty much round the clock and is reaching the point where if she doesn?t get a couple hours of sleep she might go mad!!!! I know that we shouldnt be expecting to get 8 hours sleep a night (oh, how I miss those nights!!!) but we need a few hours at least. we have tried sharing the responsibility of looking after the twins but as they are being largely breastfed this is proving difficult

Does anybody know where I can find a highly recommended nanny who would be willing to stay with us for 2-3 nights a week for a few weeks so that we can at least try and catch up on our sleep??

Four weeks of chronic sleep deprivation is really taking its toll!!!!

Thank you!

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eastmidswarwicknightnanny · 23/10/2015 13:01

Blondes I know should be called invisible reflux as def not silent with screaming, hearing it bubble back up n go back down, almost permanently congested from the reflux, gagging all night need I go on, I haven't been able to get back to night nanny work as yet after ds2 who is now 11mths but slowly getting there, best thing was us was me going dairy free as he most likely has a cow's milk protein intolerance, we know the cause of the reflux was a tongue tie which needed cutting twice.

Reflux is generally due to something else I def recommend an osteopath, a specialist looking for tongue tie association of tongue tie practitioners should show someone in your area most charge a nominal fee for assessment (£20-£30) and then a fee for cutting it, if breast feeding your wife could try going dairy free but takes 2weeks for dairy to leave her system and then same for baby so need to try for at least 4weeks.

Good luck finding a night nanny in London you shouldn't have to much trouble, another alternative is someone experienced with babies doing 8pm-midnight they come in and you both go to bed those 3.5-4hrs sleep you would get would set you up for the night then your wife does midnight til 5am and you get up at 5am and she gets 3hrs til 8am where you are in charge.

WickedGirl · 24/10/2015 16:26

I work as a maternity night nanny and have twins experience. Feel free to message me if you're still looking

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