Mr Anchovy - as you see fit to quote me I will reply
most people get more than four weeks leave
Do you have any statistics that back that up? I believe the majority of workers get exactly that, the statutory minimum (plus bank holidays which is a whole other can of worms).
Of course I don't have statistics so will withdraw my observation. Surely we can agree that every employee should have at least 4 weeks plus bank holidays and that many have more than this, particularly if you include those in part time work, education, flexible working arrangements etc?
most children have two parents
That's pretty hard on the many children that don't - and working single parents need all the breaks they can get IMHO, not extra pressure.
I don't think that is, or was intended to be, hard on anyone. Simply stating that most children have two parents is merely suggesting that by sharing childcare responsibilities a lot of families can have more childcare options.
and possibly extended family.
... or possibly not. You think it is okay to offer a service that discriminates against single parents without extended families?
Again, not harsh on anyone - merely stating the fairly obvious. I don't have an extended family, but that's just life isn't it? Plenty do. I know lots of grandparents who look after young children.
I don't think it's okay to discriminate against anyone.
And I don't take six weeks leave myself, but I fail to see how this CM who does and is perfectly upfront and open about it is being discriminatory. Surely it's up to her to set terms which suit herself and not forget that she may also be doing her best to balance work and her own family needs. It's her job and she's presumably not in business to set the world to rights.
I think it's very healthy to have a range of childcare providers offering different services and different terms and conditions, and that this gives customers real choice. I think labelling people who do things differently to myself or my own preferred way of doing business as unprofessional and discriminatory would be out of order. That is why I defend this lady's right to make her choices even if they are not my own.