mears, I hear what you are saying -
This unsettles me, though - a friend who gave birth to her 1st about 5 weeks ago, and who had a very protracted labour ending in a crash CS has a birth de-briefing afterwards.
As they went through her notes, one of the things she questioned was why she had been left for so long when it was clear she had 'stalled', and the syntocin drip she was on was having no effect. BY the time her baby's heartrate dropped dramatically, and a crash CS was ordered, she hadn't dilated any further for about 7 hours (and in fact had started 'going backwards'!)
She felt it was a decision that could have been made earlier, and she would have preferred that. The midwife doing the debriefing agreed it looked like something could have been done a lot sooner - and said, off the record, that the hospital was under such pressure to get its CS rates down, this 'may' have been a factor.
Anecdotal, I know, but very recent. After the birth, my friend described how when she was utterly exhausted and 'out of it', there was 'panic' as her baby's heartrate dropped, and she remembers talk of forceps and CS, and someone asking her if SHE wanted to go for forceps. She had no idea at all what this meant, not having researched it all beforehand - things were decided when a new consultant arrived and said firmly that while they could try forceps, he strongly recommended they went straight to CS.
Having read up about 'trial by forceps' after the birth, she says she is very grateful no one 'had a go' with forceps, as the baby was still very high. Not least because according to NICE, the babies who are most likely to be injured are the ones who have several failed attempts at instrumental delivery before going to CS.
I should say in the interests of fairness that she seemed to have had quite a bad care experience overall - she's not a very assertive person, and neither is her husband, and when she says she was screaming in pain, and asking if she should have an epidural, or something else, (begging for help and asking what to do, basically) the midwives told her they couldn't 'tell' her what to do as if it 'went wrong', she could sue them!
Needless to say, she's come away from the whole experience very disillusioned with how care decisions are made (and is making a complaint, as there were other issues with her birth which went badly).